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Can I get Social Security survivor benefits at 58 after husband's death?

My husband passed away 3 months ago and I'm completely lost about our finances. I'm only 58 and I know the regular age for widow benefits is 60, but I'm struggling to keep up with bills. A neighbor mentioned there might be exceptions to the age 60 rule for survivors benefits? I'm not disabled but I did quit my job to care for him during his illness. His SS benefits were about $2,100/month and I don't know how I'll manage for another 2 years without some kind of help. Has anyone been able to get survivor benefits before turning 60? I have an appointment with SSA next week but wanted to be prepared.

Dylan Evans

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I'm sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, the standard minimum age for widow's benefits is 60 years old, with a few exceptions: 1. If you're disabled, you can qualify as early as age 50 2. If you're caring for your husband's child who is under 16 or disabled 3. If you have a disabled child of any age who received benefits on your husband's record Since you mentioned you're not disabled and didn't mention children, you likely won't qualify for survivor benefits until you reach 60. However, you should definitely keep that SSA appointment because you might be eligible for a one-time death benefit of $255, and they can confirm if there are any other programs you might qualify for based on your specific situation.

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Thank you for explaining this. I was afraid that might be the case. We don't have any children under 16 (our son is 30). Is there any possibility of getting the benefits early with a reduction? I'd take less money if it meant I could get something now instead of waiting 2 years.

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Sofia Gomez

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I was in ur EXACT situation 2 years ago!!!! lost my husband at 57 and couldnt get ANYTHING until 60!!!! its SO UNFAIR the way they treat widows!!!! i had to move in with my daughter because i coudlnt afford our house anymore. bring all his paperwork and death certificate to the appointment. at least you'll get the $255 death benefit which is a JOKE btw. barely covers funeral flowers!!!!!!

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I'm so sorry you went through this too. I'm considering selling our house because the mortgage is just too much on my own. Did you try appealing their decision or anything? The $255 death benefit seems almost insulting considering what we're going through.

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Sofia Gomez

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no point appealing - its the LAW!!! they wont change it for anyone! i tried calling SSA for weeks and couldnt get thru to anyone who cared. ended up selling everything and starting over at 60. its cruel to make widows wait when were grieving AND broke!!!!!

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StormChaser

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While the previous responses are correct about the age 60 requirement for widow's benefits (or 50 if disabled), I want to add that you should explore all options at your SSA appointment: 1. Ask about the lump-sum death payment ($255) 2. If your husband was receiving SSDI rather than retirement benefits, different rules might apply 3. Check if you qualify for any state-specific widow assistance programs 4. Discuss if your work history might qualify you for your own SSDI if you have any medical conditions Also important: when you do turn 60, remember that taking survivor benefits doesn't prevent you from switching to your own retirement benefit later if it would be higher. This strategy can maximize your lifetime benefits.

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Thank you for these suggestions. My husband was receiving regular retirement benefits, not SSDI. I never thought about checking for state programs - that's a great idea. I'll definitely ask about the switching strategy too. I worked for 25 years before quitting to care for him, so I should have some benefits on my own record when I reach retirement age.

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StormChaser

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You're welcome. With 25 years of work history, you definitely have options for the future. Another thing to consider: if you're truly struggling financially, check if you might qualify for SSI (Supplemental Security Income) based on limited income and resources. It's different from survivor benefits and has strict asset limits, but worth exploring if you're in a difficult situation.

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Dmitry Petrov

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my mom went thru this when my dad died. she was 59 and had to wait till 60 for benifits. really tough year for her. she ended up getting a part time job at walmart just to get by. hang in there, that one year goes by faster than you think

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Thank you for sharing your mom's experience. I'm considering looking for part-time work too, but it's hard to focus on job hunting while still grieving. Did your mom apply for benefits right when she turned 60 or did she wait longer?

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Dmitry Petrov

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she applied like 3 months before turning 60 so everything would be ready right on her birthday. they told her to do it that way so there wouldnt be delays

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Ava Williams

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Miguel Castro

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does that service cost money? sounds too good to be true tbh

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Ava Williams

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Yes, there is a fee, but considering I wasted hours trying to get through on my own and kept getting disconnected, it was worth it for me. I needed answers quickly to make financial decisions. You can always try calling SSA directly first - some people get lucky with timing.

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Zainab Ibrahim

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Hey there - Actually there IS one more exception nobody mentioned yet - if you're taking care of your deceased husband's parent who is at least 62 and who received at least half their support from your husband, you can get benefits before 60. Probably doesn't apply to you but thought I'd mention it just in case.

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Thanks for mentioning that. Unfortunately it doesn't apply in my case, but good to know all the exceptions. His parents both passed years ago.

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Dylan Evans

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One additional important point: when you do turn 60, be aware that survivor benefits taken before your Full Retirement Age (FRA) are reduced. At exactly age 60, you'd receive about 71.5% of your husband's full benefit amount. Each month you wait between 60 and your FRA increases that percentage. Also, if you work while receiving early survivor benefits, the earnings limit applies ($21,240 for 2023, though this increases annually). Earning over the limit reduces your benefits temporarily (though you get the money back later after reaching FRA). Consider these factors when planning - sometimes waiting even a few months past 60 can make a financial difference.

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This is really helpful information. So if I understand correctly, when I turn 60, I'd get about 71.5% of his $2,100, which would be around $1,500? And that amount would increase if I waited longer? I'm going to need to work part-time regardless, so I'll need to be careful about the earnings limit too.

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Dylan Evans

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That's exactly right. At 60, you'd receive approximately $1,500 monthly based on his $2,100 benefit. Each month you delay (until reaching your FRA) increases that amount. And yes, be strategic about your earnings if working. Document everything carefully for your SSA appointment - bring his death certificate, marriage certificate, both Social Security cards, and recent tax returns if possible.

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Sofia Gomez

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i keep hearing SSA is RAISING the min age for survivor benefits to 61 or 62 soon!!!!! anyone else hear this??

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StormChaser

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There are occasionally proposals to change various Social Security rules, but there is NO current legislation that has passed to raise the minimum survivor benefit age from 60 to 61 or 62. The age requirement remains 60 (or 50 if disabled) unless Congress passes a new law. Be careful about making financial decisions based on rumors - always verify current rules directly with SSA.

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