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Widow benefits at 56 - Can I collect my late husband's Social Security at 60?

My husband passed away last month at age 55. I'm 56 and so devastated, not just emotionally but now I'm trying to figure out our finances. From what I've been reading online, it looks like I'm not eligible for any of his Social Security benefits right now, but I might be able to start collecting widow's benefits when I turn 60? I'm confused about how much I would get - would it be his full benefit amount or reduced? I don't have any dependent children and I'm still working part-time ($28,000/year). I've paid into Social Security all my life but not as much as my husband did. Can someone please confirm if I've understood this correctly about waiting until 60? And what happens if I remarry?

I'm so sorry for your loss. You're correct that as a widow, you can claim survivor benefits as early as age 60 (or age 50 if disabled). However, there are a few important things you should know: 1. If you claim at age 60, you'll receive about 71.5% of your husband's full retirement benefit (what he would have received at his full retirement age). 2. Waiting until your own full retirement age (probably 67) would give you 100% of his benefit. 3. Since you're working, be aware of the earnings limit if you claim before your FRA. In 2025, if you earn more than about $22,320, your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above that limit. 4. If you remarry before age 60, you generally cannot receive widow's benefits. If you remarry after 60, you can still receive benefits based on your deceased husband's record. 5. Eventually, you'll need to decide whether to take your own retirement benefit or the survivor benefit, depending on which is higher.

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Thank you for the detailed response. I had no idea about the earnings limit - that's important since I'm making more than that threshold. So I'll lose some benefits if I claim at 60 while still working. And the 71.5% reduction is permanent, right? It doesn't go back up to 100% when I reach my FRA? Do you know if I should apply right at 60 or is there any advantage to waiting a year or two? I'm trying to balance between getting some income sooner versus maximizing the long-term amount.

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my cousin went thru this a few yrs ago and she got nothing til 60. cant get remarried if u want his benefits!!!! also the SS office was IMPOSSIBLE to reach when she had questions. took her like 2 weeks of calling

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Thanks for sharing your cousin's experience. So frustrating that the SS office was so hard to reach! I'm already dreading dealing with all the paperwork and phone calls.

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I experienced a similar situation when my husband passed 3 years ago. The SSA won't give you survivor benefits until 60 unless you have minor children or are disabled. However, you should still contact them NOW to make sure they have record of your husband's death and that you're linked as his widow in their system. One thing nobody told me - if you think your own SS benefit at retirement might be higher than your widow benefit, you have options. You can take the reduced widow benefit at 60, then switch to your own (unreduced) benefit at your FRA. Also, I had TERRIBLE time reaching anyone at Social Security to help with my questions. After getting disconnected 8 times, I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an agent in about 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Saved me days of frustration.

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Thank you for this advice about contacting them now - I hadn't thought about making sure I'm linked as his widow in their system. That makes a lot of sense. And I appreciate the tip about being able to switch between benefits. My work history is spotty because I stayed home with our kids for several years, so his benefit will probably be higher. Definitely going to check out that Claimyr service. I tried calling SSA once already and gave up after being on hold for over an hour.

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The previous responses are generally correct, but I'd like to add a few technical points that might help you plan: 1. The exact reduction for claiming survivor benefits at 60 is actually 28.5%, so you get 71.5% of your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA). 2. You might be eligible for a one-time death benefit of $255, though it's small. 3. If your husband had enough work credits (40 quarters), and if his benefit would be higher than yours, it often makes financial sense to take your own reduced retirement benefit at 62 and then switch to the full survivor benefit at your FRA. 4. Alternatively, take the reduced survivor benefit at 60 and switch to your own benefit at 70 if your benefit with delayed retirement credits would be higher. Since you mentioned working part-time, carefully calculate how the earnings test might affect your benefits if you claim before FRA. The reduction from working isn't permanent - you get the money back after reaching FRA.

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wait i thought widow benefits are different from regular retirement? my neighbor gets both her own SS check AND her dead husbands check every month. she told me shes getting two payments. is that even possible??

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No, your neighbor is mistaken or misunderstood something. You can't receive both your own retirement benefit AND a full survivor benefit simultaneously. You can only receive the higher of the two amounts (with some strategic filing exceptions). She might be confusing a pension payment with Social Security, or perhaps she's referring to receiving her own retirement benefit plus a partial excess survivor benefit if her husband's benefit was higher than hers.

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oh maybe thats it. she's not good with details. thanks for clearing that up!

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The whole SS survivor system is RIDICULOUS!!! Why should you have to wait until 60 when you're dealing with the loss of income NOW?? My sister lost her husband at 57 and had to sell their house and move in with her daughter because she couldn't get his benefits for 3 years. Meanwhile Congress keeps taking money from the SS trust fund. The whole system is BROKEN!!!

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I agree its tough but thats how the system works. My mom was in same boat. My advice is look into other benefits you might be eligible for while you wait. Maybe your husband had life insurance or pension? That can help bridge the gap.

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Thank you all for the helpful responses. I've learned a lot about my options. I do have a small life insurance policy that will help for now, and I'm going to see if I can increase my work hours for the next few years. I'll definitely contact SSA soon to make sure I'm in their system correctly as my husband's widow. And I'm going to start looking into the strategy of taking survivor benefits at 60 vs. waiting for a higher amount at my FRA. When the time comes, I'll check out that Claimyr service to get through to a real person at SSA. Thanks again everyone for sharing your knowledge and personal experiences - it's been really helpful during this difficult time.

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You're very welcome. One last suggestion - SSA has a publication specifically about survivor benefits called 'How Social Security Can Help You When A Family Member Dies' (Publication No. 05-10008). It explains everything in detail. You can find it on ssa.gov or request a copy by mail. All the best to you during this difficult transition.

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