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Sara Unger

Can I claim my late husband's Social Security benefits as a widow when I've been collecting my own since 62?

I'm navigating the confusing world of survivor benefits after losing my husband two months ago. I started taking my SS retirement benefits early at 62 (I'm now 73) and have been receiving about $1,650/month. My husband was on SSDI until he reached 66.5, then switched to regular retirement benefits. He passed away at 79 and was receiving approximately $3,275/month - almost double what I get. I'm wondering if I'm eligible to receive any portion of his higher benefit amount as his widow? The Social Security website mentions something about survivor benefits, but it's not clear if I qualify since I'm already receiving my own benefits and took them early. Has anyone been through this process? Would I need to switch completely to his benefit or can I get some kind of combination? Any help would be greatly appreciated during this difficult time.

I'm very sorry for your loss. Yes, as a widow, you're absolutely entitled to your husband's full benefit amount, and in your situation, you should definitely apply for survivor benefits right away. Since you're past your full retirement age (which would be 66 for your birth year), you qualify for 100% of what your husband was receiving. The good news is that Social Security will automatically give you the higher of the two benefits - you don't receive both. In your case, you'd stop receiving your $1,650 and start receiving the approximately $3,275 your husband was getting. You should contact Social Security promptly as survivor benefits are not always automatic, and they're only retroactive for up to six months.

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Thank you for such a clear explanation! Do you know if I need to bring anything specific when I go to the SSA office? I have his death certificate and our marriage license, but I'm not sure what else they might need.

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when my husban died i got his check insted of mine cus it was bigger. u hafta take his death certifcat to ss office. they dont do it automaticly u gotta apply

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Thanks for sharing your experience. It's helpful to know I need to be proactive about this. I'll definitely make an appointment to go in with his death certificate.

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The Social Security Administration is TERRIBLE about telling people about survivor benefits!!! I was in your EXACT situation when my husband died and NO ONE from SSA contacted me to let me know I could get his higher amount!!! I found out SIX MONTHS later from a friend and lost out on thousands of dollars because they only backdate six months!!!! Make an appointment IMMEDIATELY!!!!

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Oh no! That's awful you missed out on those payments. Thank you for the warning - I'll call them today to set up an appointment.

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Yes, you're entitled to widow's benefits based on your husband's Social Security record. Since you're over your full retirement age (which would be 66 for someone born around 1952), you're eligible to receive 100% of your husband's benefit amount. Here's how it works: You won't receive both benefits added together. Instead, SSA will pay the higher of the two amounts. In your case, you'd receive your husband's higher benefit of approximately $3,275 instead of your current $1,650. You need to apply for these survivor benefits - they aren't automatic. Bring your husband's death certificate, your marriage certificate, both your Social Security numbers, and your banking information for direct deposit. If you have his most recent tax return, that can be helpful too. One important note: Survivor benefits can only be paid retroactively for up to six months from your application date, so it's best to apply as soon as possible.

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I've been trying to help my mom do exactly this after my dad passed, but we've been struggling to even get an appointment at the local office. The phone lines are constantly busy or we get disconnected after waiting for an hour. We tried the online application but it said she needs to speak with a representative. It's been so frustrating when we know she's entitled to these benefits! Any advice for actually getting through to a real person at SSA?

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Something similar happened with my parents. Mom got widows benefits after dad died. Wish someone would simplify all these SS rules! Good luck

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does anyone know if theres a difrence if ur husband was on disabilty first like hers was?? my brother is on disability and his wife is worried about this too

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No, there's no difference for survivor benefits whether your husband was initially on disability or not. What matters is the benefit amount he was receiving at the time of his death. Once a person on SSDI reaches full retirement age, SSDI automatically converts to regular retirement benefits (though the amount typically stays the same). For widow's benefits, she would receive the same amount either way.

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I wanted to update everyone - I was able to schedule an appointment with SSA and yes, I am eligible for my husband's higher benefit amount! They're processing the change now and said I'll receive my first payment at the higher amount next month. Thank you all for your help and encouragement during this difficult time. I would have had no idea about this if I hadn't asked here.

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That's wonderful news! I'm so glad you were able to get this resolved quickly. Did they mention anything about retroactive payments for the months since your husband's passing?

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Yes, they are giving me retroactive payments for the two months since he passed away. The representative was very helpful once I finally got to speak with someone. I'm relieved this worked out - the additional monthly income will make a big difference.

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I'm so glad to hear your update worked out! This is exactly why communities like this are so valuable - people helping each other navigate these complex government systems. Your experience will definitely help others who find themselves in similar situations. It's terrible that SSA doesn't proactively inform people about survivor benefits, but at least you were able to get it sorted out relatively quickly once you knew what to ask for. Wishing you all the best during this transition.

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Sara, I'm so sorry for your loss and glad to see you were able to get this resolved! Your story really emphasizes how crucial it is for people to know about these benefits. As someone who works with seniors in my community, I see this situation far too often - people missing out on survivor benefits simply because no one tells them about it. For anyone else reading this thread who might be in a similar situation, I'd recommend also checking if you're eligible for any other widow/widower benefits like reduced Medicare premiums or property tax exemptions at the local level. Sometimes there are additional benefits beyond Social Security that can help during this difficult transition. Thank you for sharing your experience - it will definitely help others who find themselves facing similar circumstances.

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Thank you for mentioning those additional benefits! I had no idea there might be other programs available for widows beyond Social Security. Do you know where someone would typically go to find out about things like Medicare premium reductions or local property tax exemptions? Is that something the Social Security office would know about, or would I need to contact other agencies separately?

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For Medicare premium reductions, you'd want to contact Medicare directly or check with your State Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) - they have counselors who can help determine if you qualify for programs like the Medicare Savings Program or Extra Help with prescription costs. For property tax exemptions, that's usually handled at the county level through your local assessor's office or treasurer's department. Many counties have widow/widower exemptions or deferrals, but the rules vary significantly by location. Your local Area Agency on Aging might also be a good starting point - they often have benefits counselors who know about all the different programs available in your specific area. The Social Security office typically only handles federal SS programs, so you'd need to reach out to these other agencies separately.

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For Medicare premium reductions, you'd want to contact Medicare directly or check Medicare.gov - they have programs like the Medicare Savings Program that can help with premiums and deductibles based on income. For property tax exemptions, you'll need to contact your local county assessor's office or tax collector, as these vary significantly by state and county. Some areas offer widow/widower exemptions, senior exemptions, or homestead exemptions that you might qualify for. Your local Area Agency on Aging is also a great resource - they often have benefits counselors who can help identify all the programs you might be eligible for in one place. The Social Security office typically only handles their own programs, so you'll likely need to reach out to these other agencies separately.

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Great question! For Medicare premium reductions, you'd want to contact Medicare directly or check if you qualify for programs like Medicare Savings Programs (MSP) or Extra Help with prescription drug costs - these are handled through Social Security or your state Medicaid office. For property tax exemptions, that's typically handled at the county level through your local tax assessor's office, as these vary significantly by state and locality. Some areas offer homestead exemptions or senior/widow exemptions that can really help reduce property taxes. I'd suggest calling your county tax office directly - they're usually very helpful in explaining what's available in your area. The Social Security office unfortunately won't know about these local programs, so you'll need to reach out to the specific agencies that handle each benefit.

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