Can I receive Social Security survivor benefits at 54 after my disabled husband died?
My husband passed away unexpectedly this past Monday. He was 60 years old and had been receiving SSDI for the last 7 years due to a heart condition. I'm only 54 and still working full-time. I know about the $255 death benefit (which seems ridiculously small), but I'm confused about when I might be eligible for survivor benefits based on his record. Do I have to wait until I'm 60? I've heard conflicting information - someone mentioned I might be eligible earlier since he was on disability. I'm trying to plan financially and this is all overwhelming right now. His SSDI payment was about $2,150/month, which helped us keep afloat with medical bills. Any guidance would be appreciated.
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Angel Campbell
I'm so sorry for your loss. In general, widow(er)s can claim survivor benefits as early as age 60 (or age 50 if disabled themselves). But there is an exception - if you're caring for his child who is under 16 or disabled, you could potentially receive benefits now as a surviving spouse with child-in-care. Without that exception, you would need to wait until you turn 60, and claiming then would mean taking a reduced benefit (about 71.5% of his full benefit). Each year you wait after 60, the benefit amount increases until you reach your full retirement age (probably 67 in your case), when you'd receive 100% of what he was receiving. I'd recommend contacting SSA directly to verify your specific situation, as there can be complications with the earnings test if you're still working when you start benefits.
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TommyKapitz
•Thank you for this information. We don't have any children under 16 or disabled children, so it looks like I'll need to wait until 60. That's 6 years from now, which is going to be really tough financially. Is there ANY exception to this? His health had been deteriorating for years before he passed, so I've been the main income earner, but his SSDI helped cover his medical expenses.
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Payton Black
my mom was in similar situation, she had to wait til 60 to get survivors. but make sure u apply for that death benefit right away, they don't automatically give it to u. and bring the funeral bill when u go to office they might need it
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TommyKapitz
•Thanks for the reminder about applying for the death benefit. Did your mom continue working until she could claim at 60? I'm trying to figure out how I'll manage these next 6 years.
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Harold Oh
The SSA makes this SO COMPLICATED on purpose!!! My sister went through this last year and ended up having to fight with them for MONTHS to get what she was entitled to. They'll tell you one thing on the phone and something different when you go in person. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING and don't trust what the first agent tells you. And yeah, that $255 death benefit is a JOKE. It hasn't changed since like the 1950s!!! What funeral costs $255 these days???
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TommyKapitz
•That's exactly what I was thinking about the $255! It barely covers anything. I'm sorry your sister had such a difficult time. Did she eventually get the benefits she was entitled to?
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Amun-Ra Azra
I went through almost this exact situation when my husband passed at 58 (I was 52). Here's what I learned: 1. The 60-year age requirement is firm unless you're disabled yourself or caring for his young/disabled child 2. If you're working full-time, be aware of the earnings test when you do claim at 60 - if you earn above certain limits, they'll withhold some benefits 3. Consider your long-term strategy: if you have a substantial work record yourself, you might want to take survivor benefits at 60 and switch to your own retirement benefit later if it would be higher 4. When you apply, bring his death certificate, your marriage certificate, both your Social Security cards, and his most recent tax return If you need to reach SSA to discuss your specific situation, good luck getting through on the phone - it took me weeks of trying.
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TommyKapitz
•Thank you for sharing your experience. It helps to hear from someone who's been through this. I do have a decent work record, so I'll need to figure out if my own benefit might be higher later. I'm dreading dealing with SSA after everything I've heard about their phone system.
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Summer Green
If you need to speak with SSA about your benefits, I'd recommend using Claimyr (claimyr.com). After my husband passed, I was getting disconnected or waiting for hours trying to reach someone. Claimyr got me through to an agent in about 15 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. It saved me so much frustration during an already difficult time. They basically hold your place in line and call you when an agent is available.
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Payton Black
•does this actually work? i spent like 3 hours on hold last month and then got disconnected!!
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Summer Green
Yes, it really works! I was skeptical too but was desperate after trying for days to get through. They called me when an agent was ready to talk, and I finally got answers about my survivor benefits.
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TommyKapitz
•I might try that service if I can't get through. I'm going to attempt calling SSA tomorrow morning first thing. I've heard that's sometimes the best time to call.
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Gael Robinson
sorry about your husband. i think theres an exception if your disabled too? maybe check if any of your health issues might qualify you before age 60. worth looking into
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TommyKapitz
•I hadn't thought about that. I do have some arthritis and high blood pressure, but I don't think those would qualify me as disabled. I'm still able to work full-time without restrictions.
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Edward McBride
My condolences on your loss. I just went through the survivor benefit process last year. One thing no one mentioned yet - check whether your husband had enough work credits for you to be eligible for survivor benefits on his record. Since he was receiving SSDI, he likely did, but it's something to confirm. Also, when you do apply at 60 (assuming no exceptions apply before then), remember that taking benefits early means a permanent reduction. In my case, I decided to continue working full-time and wait until my full retirement age to avoid both the reduction and the earnings test limitations.
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TommyKapitz
•That's a good point about the work credits, though since he was on SSDI for 7 years, I assume he had enough. I'm torn about whether to take reduced benefits at 60 or try to hold out longer. I guess it depends on my financial situation when I get there.
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Angel Campbell
One strategy to consider for the gap until you reach 60: check if you have enough in retirement savings that you could use. If you have a 401(k) or traditional IRA, you can actually access funds before 59½ without the 10% early withdrawal penalty through what's called Rule 72(t) periodic payments. This lets you take substantially equal periodic payments based on your life expectancy. It's complex, so you'd want to consult with a financial advisor, but it might help bridge the gap until survivor benefits become available.
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TommyKapitz
•I have about $87,000 in my 401(k), but I was hoping to not touch that until retirement. I didn't know about the Rule 72(t) option though - that's definitely something to look into. Thank you for that suggestion.
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Payton Black
another thing - when u do apply at 60, apply like 3 months before ur birthday. they dont backdate survivor benefits very far and u dont wanna lose any payments
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TommyKapitz
•That's really helpful advice! I'll mark my calendar for 3 months before my 60th birthday. I definitely don't want to miss out on any payments by applying late.
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