Can I claim Social Security survivor benefits at 70 when husband died 16 years ago?
After a recent conversation with my sister about retirement finances, I realized I might have left money on the table. My husband passed away 16 years ago when I was 54 (he was 61). We were married for 17 years, and I never remarried. I'm now 70 and have been collecting my own Social Security retirement benefits since my Full Retirement Age (66), but I just learned widows can sometimes get survivor benefits. Is it too late to apply? Have I permanently lost those benefits by not applying earlier? I'm completely confused about whether I should have been getting his benefit amount all this time if it was higher than mine. The SSA website is so overwhelming, and I'm worried I've missed out on years of higher payments.
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PixelWarrior
You should definitely look into this right away! Survivor benefits can actually be claimed as early as age 60 (or 50 if disabled), but that doesn't mean you've completely missed out. If your husband's benefit amount would be higher than what you're currently receiving on your own record, you might be eligible for the difference. The good news is that at 70, you've already maximized your own retirement benefit with delayed retirement credits, so now it's just a matter of seeing if your survivor benefit would be higher. Call the SSA immediately to request an appointment specifically about survivor benefits. Make sure to have your husband's death certificate and your marriage certificate ready.
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Thank you so much for the quick response. I'm honestly feeling a mix of hope and frustration - hope that I might qualify for something, but frustrated that I might have lost out on years of higher payments. Do you know if they would give me any back payments for the years I didn't know to apply?
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Amara Adebayo
my mom went through something similar!! the ssa people nevr told her she could get my dads benefits when he died. she found out 3 yrs later from a friend!!! its crazy how they dont tell u this stuff
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Giovanni Rossi
•This happens way too often. SSA should automatically notify people of all benefits they're entitled to, but they don't. Always worth asking about every possible benefit you might qualify for when speaking with them.
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Fatima Al-Mansour
I'm going through something similar but I'm 67 and my husband died two years ago. I've spent HOURS on the phone trying to get answers about survivor benefits vs. my own retirement benefits. It's absolutely MADDENING how difficult they make this process!! Every time I call, I get disconnected or told different information. I've been trying for months to get this sorted out. The worst part is that some agent told me I might have been receiving the wrong amount for the past year, but then I got disconnected and couldn't get back through. The whole system is designed to make you give up!!
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Dylan Evans
•I had the same frustrating experience trying to sort out my survivor benefits. After getting disconnected 8 times over 3 days, I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to a real SSA agent in about 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Definitely worth it to avoid the constant disconnections and hours of hold music. The agent I spoke with was actually really helpful once I finally got through and explained that I could receive the higher of either my own benefit or my late husband's.
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Sofia Gomez
To answer your specific question: No, it's not too late to apply for survivor benefits, but you won't get retroactive benefits for all those years unfortunately. SSA generally only provides up to 6 months of retroactive benefits for survivors, and that's only if you would have been eligible during those 6 months. Here's what you need to know: 1. At your current age (70), you're entitled to 100% of your late husband's benefit if his primary insurance amount (PIA) is higher than your current benefit. 2. Since you're already collecting your own retirement benefit (which has been maximized with delayed retirement credits to age 70), you won't get both benefits combined - just the higher of the two. 3. You'll need to schedule an appointment with SSA specifically for survivor benefits. Bring your marriage certificate, his death certificate, both your Social Security numbers, and your recent tax return. 4. Even if you've missed out on years of potentially higher payments, it's still worth applying now if his benefit amount was higher than what you're currently receiving.
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Thank you for this detailed explanation. I feel so foolish for not knowing about this sooner. When my husband passed, I was still working full-time and not thinking about Social Security yet. No one ever mentioned I might be eligible for his benefits later. I'll definitely call SSA tomorrow and try to set up an appointment.
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StormChaser
dont feel bad alot of ppl miss this. my aunt didnt know about surviver benefits till she was almost 80! better late than never tho so def apply now if husbands benefit is more than yours
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Thank you for the encouragement. I'm definitely going to apply now.
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PixelWarrior
Just to clarify some misunderstandings I'm seeing in this thread: For survivor benefits, the rules are different than for regular retirement benefits. While it's true you can apply as early as 60, the benefit reduction formula is different. Also, if you remarry after age 60, you can still collect survivor benefits from your previous spouse. As for the original poster's situation, at age 70, you would receive 100% of your deceased husband's benefit amount IF it's higher than your current retirement benefit. You should request an appointment specifically for survivor benefits and ask them to do a complete benefits calculation to determine the best option for you. One more tip: if your husband had delayed retirement credits (meaning he worked past his full retirement age), those would be factored into your survivor benefit as well.
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Fatima Al-Mansour
•Wait, is that true about remarrying after 60? I thought once you remarried you lost all benefits from a previous spouse! This whole system is so confusing - they should make this information clearer on their website instead of burying it in complicated language!
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Giovanni Rossi
Yes, that's correct about remarriage after 60 for survivor benefits! It's different from spousal benefits (where remarriage at any age ends eligibility). For survivors, if you remarry after 60, you can still claim on your deceased spouse's record. Confusing, I know!
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Thank you everyone for all this helpful information. I've written down all these points to discuss when I call SSA. I'm going to try calling first thing tomorrow morning.
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