Can I apply for survivor benefits at 76 if deceased husband's SS was higher than mine?
I've been collecting my own Social Security since I turned 65, but I just realized I might be leaving money on the table. My husband passed away in 2012 and I think his benefit was higher than what I'm getting now. I'm 76 years old and wondering if it's too late to apply for survivor benefits? I'm currently getting about $1,750 a month on my own record, but I think his would have been around $2,300. I never thought about this back when he died - just kept working until I retired and then applied for my own. Did I mess up by waiting so long? Can I still switch to his higher amount after all these years?
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Katherine Shultz
It's definitely not too late! You can still apply for survivor benefits at any age as long as you're not remarried before age 60. The good news is that there's no deadline for applying for survivor benefits. You should contact SSA immediately to start the process - you could be entitled to the higher benefit amount going forward. However, be aware that SSA can only pay retroactive benefits for up to 6 months from your application date, so you won't receive back payments for all the years since 2012. But going forward, you could receive the higher amount if your husband's benefit would truly be more than your current benefit.
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Alberto Souchard
•Thank you so much! That's a relief. I was worried I'd completely missed my chance. So I'll only get 6 months of back pay, but at least I can get the higher amount going forward? That's still better than nothing.
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Marcus Marsh
Wait i'm confused...I thought survivor benefits had to be taken right away after someone dies? Social Security is so complicated!!!! Are you sure you can still get this money? And what if you were working during that time? Does that matter? What if the husband had already started collecting when he died vs. if he hadn't started yet? Does that change what the wife gets? My husband is still alive but I'm trying to understand all this for the future and its making my head spin!!!!
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Katherine Shultz
•You're mixing up a few different rules. There's no requirement to take survivor benefits immediately after someone dies. However, there ARE different rules about when you can take different types of benefits depending on your age. The important thing for the original poster is that at age 76, she can absolutely apply for survivor benefits now if they're higher than her own benefit. And whether her husband had started collecting before he died doesn't matter at this point - her survivor benefit would be based on his primary insurance amount (possibly with some adjustments based on when he started collecting).
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Hailey O'Leary
My mom was in similar situation! She didn't know she could get my dad's higher benefit after he passed. She was already 70 when someone at church told her to check. She got an extra $400/month by switching!
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Alberto Souchard
•That's encouraging to hear! Did she have to provide a lot of documentation? I'm not sure if I still have all his papers from 2012.
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Cedric Chung
The SSA should be REQUIRED to tell people about this!!! It makes me SO ANGRY that they just let people miss out on THOUSANDS of dollars because they don't automatically check if you qualify for survivor benefits when your spouse dies. My brother lost out on nearly $30K because nobody told him his wife's benefit was higher until THREE YEARS after she passed. The whole system is DESIGNED to confuse people so they don't get what they're entitled to!!!
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Hailey O'Leary
•I agree! My mom lost out on like 5 years of higher payments. Nobody from SSA ever mentioned it when dad died. She only found out by accident from someone at church.
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Talia Klein
To get this process started, you'll need to call Social Security or visit your local office. You'll need: 1. Your husband's death certificate 2. Your marriage certificate 3. Both your Social Security numbers 4. A copy of your most recent tax return or W-2 If you've been trying to call SSA but can't get through (which is common), you might want to try using Claimyr (claimyr.com). It's a service that helps you get through to a live SSA agent without the usual wait times. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU I used it when I needed to sort out my own survivor benefits last year - saved me hours of frustration with busy signals and disconnected calls.
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Alberto Souchard
•Thank you for the list! I should have all those documents somewhere. And I appreciate the tip about that service. I tried calling SSA last month about a Medicare question and gave up after being on hold for over an hour. Will definitely check it out.
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Maxwell St. Laurent
yep u can still apply! my aunt did this when she was 72, her husband died in 2009 and she never knew she could get his benefit instead. she got like $300 more a month when she switched. just call ssa but good luck getting thru lol
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Marcus Marsh
•But don't you lose your own benefit if you switch to survivor benefits? I'm so confused about how this works!
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PaulineW
I want to add an important detail - when you apply for survivor benefits, you're not actually receiving BOTH your benefit and your husband's. You'll receive the higher of the two amounts. So if your benefit is $1,750 and his would be $2,300, your new monthly benefit would be $2,300 (not $4,050). And yes, you should definitely apply! The SSA doesn't automatically check if survivor benefits would be higher than your own retirement benefit. This is something many people miss out on because they don't realize they need to specifically apply for it. When you meet with SSA, ask them to run a calculation to confirm which benefit amount is truly higher. In some cases, the survivor benefit might be reduced depending on various factors, so it's important to get an official calculation.
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Alberto Souchard
•Thanks for clarifying! Yes, I understand I'd just get the higher of the two amounts, not both combined. But an extra $550 a month would make a huge difference for me. I'll definitely ask them to run the calculations to make sure.
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Maxwell St. Laurent
one more thing, when u go talk to ssa bring a snack and water cuz ull be there FOREVER lol. and their online appointment system never works right so just show up early
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Cedric Chung
•This is why I said the system is BROKEN! It's 2025 and they still can't figure out how to have a working appointment system or answer their phones in a reasonable time. It's RIDICULOUS!!
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PaulineW
Update: I just realized there might be a small misconception here. The survivor benefit you'd be eligible for wouldn't necessarily be exactly what your husband received or would have received. It's generally based on his primary insurance amount (PIA), but there are adjustments based on several factors including when he started collecting benefits (if he did) and your full retirement age. Since you're well past your full retirement age at 76, you would receive 100% of the calculated survivor benefit amount. But that amount might not be exactly the $2,300 you mentioned - it could be somewhat different based on these calculations. This is why it's so important to have SSA do the exact calculation for your specific situation.
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Alberto Souchard
•Thank you for this additional information. I'm not sure exactly what his benefit would have been since it's been so long. The $2,300 was just my rough memory of what he expected to get. I'll definitely have SSA work out the exact numbers for me.
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Hailey O'Leary
Just wondering - has anyone tried calling the SSA lately? Is it still super hard to get through? My mom waited 3 hours on hold last month before giving up!
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Talia Klein
•It's still very difficult. I called about 40 times over 3 days before getting through last month. The Claimyr service I mentioned earlier really does help with this specific problem. It essentially navigates the phone system for you and calls you back when there's an agent on the line. Saved me countless hours of frustration.
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