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Applying for Social Security childhood disability benefits after being denied SSI - stuck at step 3 for 13 months

I need some guidance with my disability application mess. I have a rare genetic condition called cystinuria (diagnosed at age 13) that causes constant kidney stones, requiring 4-5 surgeries annually plus countless ER visits. I'm now 36 and haven't been able to work consistently for about 8 years. My SSI application was denied in 2021 (too much household income from my partner, but not enough to actually support us plus my medical bills). I didn't appeal right away because I was dealing with multiple surgeries back-to-back. Eventually tried working with an advocacy group that claimed they'd help with my case but they basically did nothing. Last year, I submitted all my documentation requesting a hearing and referencing my original case. It's been 13 months and the SSA website just shows I'm at step 3 of 5, still "pending review." Calling gets me nowhere - just told to wait. The twist: an SSA rep told me I should be applying for Disabled Adult Child benefits instead (since my condition was diagnosed before 22) under my mother's record (she's been collecting SSDI since 2007). Apparently I could have been eligible this way for years! Has anyone successfully navigated the Childhood Disability Benefits route? Or have suggestions for pushing my stalled application forward? The financial stress is making my health worse, and my partner is burning out from being the sole provider while also helping with my medical care. Any advice or even just encouragement would help tremendously.

Amara Adeyemi

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You're definitely on the right track with the Disabled Adult Child benefits (technically called Childhood Disability Benefits or CDB). Since your condition started before age 22 and you have a parent receiving SSDI, this is potentially your best option. Here's what I'd recommend: 1. File a NEW application specifically for CDB under your mother's record. Don't wait for the pending SSI case - these are completely different programs. 2. Get a status update on your pending hearing request. Call and specifically request to speak with the hearing office handling your case. If they won't transfer you, ask for the direct number to that office. 3. Consider getting a disability attorney at this point - most work on contingency (only get paid if you win). They can often speed things up considerably. The 13-month wait at Step 3 is unfortunately not unusual in the current backlog, but it's worth checking if something's stuck in your file. Good luck!

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Liam O'Connor

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Thank you for this clear advice! I've been so confused about whether I should be waiting on the pending case or starting fresh with the CDB application. I'll call tomorrow about filing a new application under my mom's record. Do you happen to know if they'll consider all the medical evidence I've already submitted for the SSI case? Or will I need to gather everything again? Some of my records are from specialists I no longer see and it was a nightmare getting copies the first time around.

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my sister went thru somethign like this!!! the SSI denail then the whole childhood disabilty thing. took her almost 3 YEARS to get approved even tho she had cancer as a teenager!!! its INSANE how they treat ppl who are sick. the systems broken. hope u get better luck than she did

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Liam O'Connor

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Oh wow, 3 years is terrifying to hear. Did your sister do anything specific that finally helped move things along? I'm trying not to panic but the waiting feels endless.

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I successfully received Childhood Disability Benefits after my father passed away, though my situation was slightly different. My diagnosis (severe congenital heart defect) was from birth, and I applied when I was 25. Based on my experience, here are the key things that made a difference: 1. Medical documentation is EVERYTHING. Make sure every single doctor has documented how your condition limits your ability to work. General statements like "patient has kidney stones" aren't enough - you need them to specifically document functional limitations. 2. Apply for CDB separately from your SSI case. While technically they should consider all eligibility, in practice, they often don't unless you specifically apply. 3. Your application being stuck at Step 3 for 13 months is concerning. That's the medical review step, and it shouldn't take that long unless there's missing information or your case was misplaced. 4. Get a case status from your local office in person if possible. Phone representatives often can't see the detailed notes. Feel free to message me if you have specific questions about the CDB process. It's less common than regular disability, so even some SSA employees don't fully understand it.

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Liam O'Connor

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's so helpful to hear from someone who actually got through this process successfully. I'll definitely focus on getting better documentation of my limitations - I think my doctors tend to just list my conditions without explaining how they affect daily functioning. I'll try to get to a local office next week. The phone calls have been completely useless so far.

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Dylan Wright

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Why would u even qualify for disability for kidney stones??? Plenty of people work with medical conditions. My sister has the same thing and works full time as a nurse!!! Not trying to be rude just saying maybe thats why ur getting denied.

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NebulaKnight

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Wow, way to be judgmental without knowing someone's full situation. Cystinuria varies WILDLY in severity. Some people might form a stone every few years while others form them constantly and require multiple interventions per month. It can be completely disabling in severe cases.

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Sofia Ramirez

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Liam O'Connor

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Thank you for this suggestion! I'll check out that service. I've spent so many hours on hold only to get disconnected or told they can't help me. At this point I'd try anything to just get some real information about my case.

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Dmitry Popov

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THE WHOLE SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO MAKE YOU GIVE UP!!!! They KNOW most people will just stop trying after getting denied because were SICK and dont have the energy to fight!!!! Theyre COUNTING on you giving up!!! DONT LET THEM WIN!!!!

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omg this is so true they denied my mom 3 times before she got approved and she literly had stage 4 cancer its like they WANT u to die before they have to pay u anything

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Amara Adeyemi

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Just to clarify some information about Childhood Disability Benefits (CDB): 1. You can qualify under EITHER parent's record if they're receiving Social Security retirement/disability OR if they're deceased. 2. You need to prove your disability began before age 22, which sounds like you can do easily with your diagnosis at 13. 3. Unlike SSI, CDB has no income or resource limits. The financial status of your household won't affect eligibility. 4. The benefit amount is based on your parent's Social Security record (generally 50% if they're alive, 75% if deceased). 5. Most importantly: If you're applying based on your mother's record who is receiving SSDI, you should specifically request that they take a "protective filing date" back to when you first inquired about benefits. This could potentially get you some retroactive benefits. I'd recommend contacting your local field office directly rather than the general SSA number. The field offices often have more flexibility to help with complicated cases.

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NebulaKnight

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This is super helpful info about CDB! One thing to add - make sure all your medical records clearly show CONTINUOUS disability since before age 22. Any significant gaps in treatment or periods where you worked substantially could cause problems with CDB eligibility, even if your condition is clearly genetic/lifelong.

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Ava Rodriguez

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Hey there - I went through this exact process! So I have hereditary spastic paraplegia (diagnosed at 16) and my dad passed away when I was 19. I didn't know about CDB until I was 34! What finally worked for me: 1) I went IN PERSON to my local SSA office with ALL my medical records organized chronologically (original diagnosis through current) 2) I specifically requested to talk to someone familiar with CDB/DAC benefits (not everyone knows these well) 3) I brought a letter from my neurologist specifically stating my condition began before 22 and has prevented substantial gainful activity continuously since then 4) Here's what they don't tell you - you need to specifically fill out both the adult disability application AND form SSA-4-BK (Child's Benefits) My application was approved in about 4 months, which is lightning fast for disability. I think going in person with everything perfectly organized made all the difference. Good luck!

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Liam O'Connor

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! This is incredibly helpful. I didn't know about needing to fill out the SSA-4-BK form specifically. I'll definitely get everything organized chronologically before going in. Did you need to bring your father's death certificate or did they already have that information in their system?

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