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Hi everyone, my wife (61) and I (62) have been debating our Social Security strategy for months now. We both have similar earnings histories - we'd each get about $2,300/month at our Full Retirement Ages. I keep running the numbers and I'm thinking we should BOTH file at 62 instead of waiting until 70 like our financial advisor suggested. My reasoning: If we both wait until 70 and one of us dies at say, 75, we would have missed out on YEARS of collecting TWO checks! Sure, the survivor would get the higher benefit, but we would have lost all those years of double income. I know the conventional wisdom is "wait if you can afford to" but with both of us having similar earnings, doesn't it make more sense to start collecting early? Am I missing something major here? We're both still working part-time but plan to fully retire next year, so the earnings test isn't a huge concern for us now.
I'm so confused about this Government Pension Offset (GPO) situation. I retired from teaching in 2013 after 28 years and applied for my own Social Security benefits (I had enough quarters from summer jobs). When I applied, my SS retirement benefit was reduced because of WEP. I also applied for spousal benefits on my husband's record at the same time, but got ZERO dollars thanks to the GPO.Fast forward to now - my husband passed away last year, and I'm trying to figure out if I qualify for any survivor benefits. When I called SSA last week, the rep told me something surprising. She said I don't need to submit a new application for spousal benefits because I already applied back in 2013, and that "all will be resolved" when they figure out my current and retroactive benefit amounts.This doesn't sound right to me. Wouldn't I need to file a new application for survivor benefits since my status changed from spouse to widow? Has anyone else been told they don't need to reapply in a similar situation? I'm worried I'm getting incorrect info and might miss out on benefits I'm entitled to.
To address your original question more precisely: You were told incorrect information. The 2013 application for spousal benefits is completely separate from survivor benefits. Here's what you need to do:1. Call SSA at 1-800-772-1213 and specifically state that you need to file for survivor benefits following your husband's death.2. Mention that you already understand GPO will affect the benefit, but you still need to file a new application.3. If possible, schedule an appointment at your local office rather than trying to handle it by phone.4. Gather your husband's death certificate, your marriage certificate, and information about your pension.5. Be aware that you can receive up to 6 months of retroactive benefits from your filing date, so file as soon as possible.Despite both being affected by GPO, survivor benefits use a different calculation than spousal benefits, and many people who received $0 in spousal benefits do receive some survivor benefits.
I was recently approved for SSDI after my stage 3 lymphoma diagnosis (still in treatment). Been receiving benefits for about 2 months now. Yesterday I got this letter from Social Security saying I could apply for benefits for my three kids (ages 11, 7, and 4). I'm completely confused because none of my children have disabilities. What exactly does this mean? Are they eligible for something because I'm disabled? Would adding them change how much I receive monthly? I'm barely making ends meet with what I get now ($1,890/month), and every extra dollar would help with their school expenses and medical bills. Has anyone gone through this process with their kids? Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
do your kids live with you full time? my friend has 50/50 custody and her ex gets half the kids benefits check which seems unfair since hes not disabled
One more thing to be aware of - if you're also receiving SSI (Supplemental Security Income) in addition to SSDI, the children's auxiliary benefits could potentially affect your SSI amount. This is because children's benefits might count as deemed income in certain situations. However, if you're only receiving SSDI and not SSI, then this isn't a concern.
My 41-year-old nephew was just diagnosed with a stage 3 brain tumor and started aggressive chemo/radiation last week. His doctors say he qualifies for SSDI due to his condition, but he's physically unable to handle the application process himself. His wife is overwhelmed with their three kids and his medical appointments. My brother (his dad) tried calling Social Security for 3+ hours yesterday but got disconnected twice. He's planning to go to the local office tomorrow, but I'm worried they won't even talk to him since he doesn't have Power of Attorney. Has anyone navigated applying for disability for a family member during a health crisis? Can I help as his aunt or does it strictly need to be a spouse/parent? What documentation should my brother bring to the SSA office to help speed things up? The medical bills are already piling up and my nephew needs this benefit ASAP.
my cousin has brain cancer too and got approved in just 3 weeks with compassionate allowance! make sure they check that box on the application its super important. also he should apply for the medicare too even though theres a waiting period still better to get it started now.
For the appointment, your brother should bring a letter from the treating physician that includes: 1. Specific diagnosis (including ICD-10 code if possible) 2. Prognosis and expected duration of disability (must be at least 12 months) 3. Current treatment plan 4. Specific statement about inability to work This will significantly speed up the process. The Compassionate Allowance program for brain tumors typically processes in 30-60 days instead of the usual 3-5 months, but having complete documentation from the start can cut that time down even further. Also, be aware that the first SSDI payment won't arrive until 6 months after the established disability onset date due to the mandatory waiting period. The onset date is typically set as the date of diagnosis, so that waiting period has already started.
Is anyone else having trouble with IRMAA reconsideration requests? I received notice back in January that my Medicare Part B premium would include a hefty IRMAA surcharge for 2025 (an extra $217/month!) based on my 2023 income. I submitted a Life-Changing Event reconsideration request online in February since I took early retirement in mid-2024 and my income dropped by more than 50%. It's been almost 2 months, and my MySocialSecurity account STILL shows the high IRMAA amount for my upcoming premiums. I finally got through to SSA this morning after multiple attempts, and the rep said a specialist would call me back in "30-45 minutes" - that was FIVE hours ago! Now when I try calling the 800 number again, the call disconnects immediately after I select the IRMAA option from the menu. Has anyone successfully resolved an IRMAA issue lately? Should I keep calling? Drive to my local office? Wait longer? I'm panicking because I can't afford this extra $2,600/year on my fixed retirement income!
not sure if this helps but I had same issue last year. what finally worked was sending a fax (yes a fax in 2025 lol) to the IRMAA processing center with my SSA-44 form and all my docs. got fixed in 2 weeks after months of calling.
One more tip that might help others reading this thread: If you're planning to retire or expect a significant income drop, you can be proactive about IRMAA. File the SSA-44 form as soon as the life-changing event occurs rather than waiting for the IRMAA notice. This often prevents the higher premium from ever being applied in the first place. For those already dealing with an IRMAA issue, persistence is key. Document every contact with SSA (date, time, representative name if possible) and keep copies of everything you submit. If visiting your local office, arrive at least 30 minutes before opening to minimize wait times.
Harmony Love
Another consideration is the future of Social Security itself. While benefit cuts aren't imminent, the trust fund is projected to face challenges in the 2030s. Some financial planners argue this uncertainty provides a slight preference for claiming earlier rather than later, though any actual changes would likely impact future beneficiaries more than current ones. However, it's worth noting that historically, when changes have been made to shore up the system, existing beneficiaries and those close to retirement age have typically been protected. The most prudent approach is to make your decision based on current rules while staying informed about potential legislative developments.
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Rudy Cenizo
I worry about this ALL THE TIME!!! What if they cut benefits before we even get to collect?? Or what if they raise the full retirement age AGAIN? My parents could retire at 65 but mine is 67... who knows what they'll do next! Maybe we should just grab what we can get NOW before they change everything???
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Caden Turner
After reading through this discussion, I want to suggest a specific strategy for your situation: Since you're both still working part-time, consider having one of you file at FRA (not 62) and the other delay until 70. This accomplishes several things: 1. Avoids the early filing reduction of 30% at age 62 2. Minimizes the earnings test impact since you'll be at FRA for one benefit 3. Provides some Social Security income during your 60s 4. Still maximizes one benefit for longevity protection 5. Creates a higher survivor benefit for whichever of you outlives the other With nearly identical earnings records, it doesn't matter significantly which one of you delays and which claims at FRA. This approach provides a balanced middle ground between claiming everything early vs. delaying everything.
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Clarissa Flair
AuthorThis sounds like a really smart compromise approach. We'd get some income starting at our FRAs but still have one benefit growing to the maximum amount. I'm going to discuss this with my wife - I think this might be the balance we've been looking for. Thank you!
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