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Hi Jenna! I'm new to this community but your situation hits close to home - I'm currently on SSDI and approaching my FRA in about 18 months, so I'm trying to learn as much as I can about this transition process. Reading through all the responses here has been incredibly helpful! It sounds like you've gotten some really solid advice, especially from folks who have recently been through the exact same situation. The consensus seems clear that you're definitely entitled to additional spousal benefits. One thing I noticed from the responses is that multiple people mentioned the importance of calling early (right at 8am) and using specific terminology like "auxiliary spousal benefits" when you call. It's amazing how much difference the right words can make when dealing with government agencies! I'm really hoping your call goes smoothly tomorrow. That potential $1,200 in retroactive payments plus the ongoing $150/month would make such a difference. Please do update us on how it goes - as someone who will likely be in your shoes soon, I'd love to learn from your experience. Good luck, and don't let them wear you down! You've clearly done your homework and you know what you're entitled to. You've got this! 💪
Hi Zainab! Thanks for the kind words and encouragement! It's really helpful to connect with someone who's approaching this same transition - you're smart to start learning about it now rather than waiting until you're in the thick of it like I am. You're absolutely right about the terminology making a huge difference. I've learned more about navigating SSA in this one thread than I did in hours of trying to figure things out on my own. Having the specific phrases like "auxiliary spousal benefits" and knowing to ask about retroactive payments feels like having a secret code to unlock the system! I'm feeling much more prepared for tomorrow's call thanks to everyone's advice here. I'll definitely post a detailed update about how it goes - the process, what worked, what didn't, and hopefully some good news about getting those benefits sorted out. When you get closer to your FRA, feel free to reach out if you have questions. This community seems really supportive and knowledgeable. Good luck with your upcoming transition! 🤞
Hi Jenna! I'm new to this community but your post really resonates with me. I went through almost the exact same situation about a year ago when I transitioned from SSDI to retirement benefits at my FRA. The disappearing information on the SSA website is SO frustrating - it's like they deliberately make it harder once you convert! Just wanted to add a few things that helped me: 1. Your current monthly payment IS your PIA at FRA - all those COLA increases from your SSDI years are already included in that amount. 2. Based on your numbers ($1,250 vs your husband's $2,800), you're definitely leaving money on the table. You should be eligible for about $150/month in additional spousal benefits. 3. When I called SSA, I found that asking for the "excess spousal benefit" got me transferred to the right department faster than just saying "spousal benefits." 4. Don't forget to ask them to make it retroactive to when you first became eligible! That 8 months of back pay could be around $1,200. One more tip: if you're dreading the phone call (totally understandable), try calling right when they open at 8am. The wait times are usually much shorter in the early morning. You're absolutely entitled to these benefits - don't let the bureaucracy discourage you from claiming what's rightfully yours! Looking forward to hearing how your call goes. This thread has been really helpful for understanding the process better.
I applied for early retirement benefits at 62 last year and can confirm the process was pretty smooth! The key is making sure you understand exactly what you're requesting. When you select November as your start month, that's when your benefit period begins, and yes, you'll get paid in December (SS always pays the month after). The online application clearly asks "What month do you want your retirement benefits to start?" and you just pick from the dropdown. One thing I wish I'd known - double check that your estimated benefit amount shown during the application matches what you expected from your yearly statements. Mine was slightly off due to a small error in my earnings record that I caught just in time. The whole process from submission to first payment was about 3 weeks for me. Don't stress too much about the timing - applying in late October for November start is totally doable!
This is exactly the kind of detailed experience I was hoping to hear! Thank you for mentioning the part about double-checking the estimated benefit amount - I wouldn't have thought to verify that against my yearly statements. It's reassuring to know that 3 weeks from submission to first payment is realistic. I'm feeling much more confident about applying tomorrow now that I know what to expect from the process!
One more thing to keep in mind - if you're applying online, make sure you have a stable internet connection and set aside enough time to complete the application in one sitting. The system can time out if you leave it idle too long, and while it should save your progress, it's better to be safe. Also, after you submit, you'll get a confirmation number - definitely save that! You can use it to check your application status if needed. The SSA will also send you a letter confirming receipt of your application within a few days. Since you're cutting it close with the October deadline for November benefits, I'd recommend applying as early in the day as possible when the servers are typically less busy. Best of luck with your retirement!
One additional important point: Your husband will only be able to collect spousal benefits when YOU file for your retirement benefits. Since you're planning to wait until 70, he won't be able to receive spousal benefits until then, even if he's already retired from his federal job. There used to be a strategy called "file and suspend" that would have allowed him to collect while you delayed, but that option was eliminated in 2015 with the Bipartisan Budget Act. So factor that timing into your retirement plans.
Just wanted to add some clarity on the timing aspect that Matthew mentioned. Since your husband is retiring at 62 but you're waiting until 70, you might want to consider whether it makes sense for you to file earlier if the spousal benefit would be substantial for your household budget during those gap years. Remember that even if you file at your full retirement age instead of 70, you'd still get your full Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), and your husband could get up to 50% of that amount as a spousal benefit (assuming no GPO reduction as a FERS employee). You'd miss out on the delayed retirement credits that boost your benefit by 8% per year until 70, but you'd both have income coming in sooner. It's a trade-off calculation: your higher benefit at 70 vs. having both benefits starting earlier. A financial planner familiar with Social Security strategies might be helpful for running the numbers on your specific situation.
That's a really smart perspective on the timing trade-off! I hadn't thought about filing earlier just to get his spousal benefits started. We'll definitely need to crunch those numbers - it might make more sense to have both incomes flowing rather than maximize just mine. Do you happen to know if there are any good online calculators that can help model these different scenarios? I'd love to see the math before making that decision.
I'm really sorry you're dealing with this incredibly stressful situation. From what I understand, your current benefit reduction is likely because you were receiving spousal benefits in addition to your own retirement benefit, and when your husband became incarcerated, that spousal portion was suspended. The good news is that several people here have correctly pointed out that widow's benefits work differently. If your husband passes away while incarcerated, his imprisonment status at the time of death won't affect your eligibility for survivor benefits. You would potentially receive his full $2870 monthly benefit since you're already at full retirement age. I'd also suggest documenting everything now - keep records of the benefit reduction notice you received, your husband's benefit amount, and any correspondence with SSA. This will help when you need to apply for survivor benefits in the future. Have you considered reaching out to your local Area Agency on Aging? They often have benefits counselors who can help navigate these situations and might be able to connect you with additional resources during this difficult time.
That's really helpful advice about documenting everything. I hadn't thought about keeping records of all the correspondence, but you're absolutely right - having that documentation could be crucial later on. The Area Agency on Aging suggestion is great too. I didn't even know they had benefits counselors available. Between that, contacting my congressional representative, and keeping detailed records, I feel like I finally have a concrete action plan. It's such a relief to have this community provide practical steps I can take instead of just feeling helpless about the whole situation.
I'm so sorry you're going through this incredibly difficult situation. As someone who has helped family members navigate Social Security issues, I want to emphasize what others have said about widow's benefits - you would indeed be eligible for your husband's full $2870 benefit if he passes away while incarcerated, regardless of his imprisonment status. One thing I'd add to the excellent advice already given is to consider getting everything in writing from SSA when you do connect with them. Sometimes phone representatives give conflicting information, so having written confirmation of your benefits status and future eligibility can be really valuable. Also, many local senior centers have volunteer SHIP (State Health Insurance Assistance Program) counselors who are trained specifically in Medicare and Social Security issues. They're free and can sometimes help you prepare for SSA conversations or even accompany you to appointments. You're dealing with an unimaginably stressful situation, but please know that this community is here to support you through it. The fact that you're planning ahead shows incredible strength.
A Man D Mortal
I'm so glad to see this discussion about Compassionate Allowances - it really highlights how the system can work efficiently when someone has the right documentation and qualifying condition. What strikes me most is how much peace of mind comes from understanding the process. For anyone reading this who might be starting their own application, the key takeaways seem to be: have all your medical records organized, be thorough with the initial application, and don't assume delays mean problems if your condition qualifies for expedited processing. Olivia, I hope your treatment goes smoothly and that this one less worry allows you to focus entirely on getting better. It's wonderful to see the system working as intended for someone who clearly needs and deserves these benefits.
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Carmen Sanchez
•As someone new to this community, I really appreciate seeing such a supportive and informative discussion. The way everyone has explained the Compassionate Allowances program and shared their experiences has been incredibly educational. It's reassuring to see that while the system can be frustrating for many, it does have mechanisms in place to help people in the most urgent situations. Olivia, wishing you all the best with your treatment, and thank you to everyone who shared their knowledge - this thread will definitely be helpful for others going through similar situations.
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Noland Curtis
As someone who just joined this community, I wanted to say how incredibly helpful this entire discussion has been! I'm currently gathering documents to apply for SSDI myself (chronic kidney disease), and reading about everyone's different experiences - both the quick approvals and the longer waits - has really helped me understand what to expect. Olivia, congratulations on your approval and thank you for sharing your timeline details. It's given me hope that if I get all my medical documentation organized properly from the start, the process might go more smoothly than I feared. The information about Compassionate Allowances was completely new to me, and now I understand why some conditions get processed faster than others. To everyone who took the time to explain how the system works - thank you for being so generous with your knowledge. This is exactly the kind of community support that makes such a difference when navigating something as overwhelming as disability benefits.
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