PA UC eligibility after quitting due to childcare crisis - rural area daycare nightmare
After 4+ years at the hospital, I was forced to quit my job last week because of a childcare emergency. Since my split with my kids' father (7yo and 3yo) in early 2023, I've been struggling with childcare in our rural area. There's literally ONE facility that offers both before/after care for my school-age child AND full daycare for my toddler, but it opens at 7:30am while my shift starts at 7:15am. I sent multiple emails to management requesting a schedule adjustment (just 15-30 minutes later start time), but my manager kept saying they "can't accommodate me every time." When our techs unionized recently, management suddenly claimed they couldn't change ANY schedules during negotiations which could take YEARS! My mom was temporarily watching the kids, but she recently became verbally abusive and started spanking them - my kids were terrified to be with her. I have NO other childcare options in our area. I applied for 20+ different positions within the hospital hoping for more flexible hours but got rejected for all of them. The mandatory on-call days without pay were impossible with no reliable childcare. Has anyone successfully gotten PA unemployment after quitting for childcare reasons? I have screenshots of all my accommodation requests to management spanning months. I'm a single mom and now I'm panicking about bills while trying to finish my online college courses.
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Diego Fernández
You actually might have a decent chance at approval. PA unemployment considers "necessitous and compelling" reasons for quitting, and childcare issues can sometimes qualify. Since you made repeated documented attempts to resolve the situation with your employer before quitting, that helps your case tremendously. Make sure you emphasize that you exhausted all options before quitting - the schedule accommodation requests, the 20+ internal job applications, and the fact that your childcare provider became abusive leaving you with no alternatives. Document EVERYTHING when you file your claim. Keep copies of those emails with management, the job applications, and any evidence of your mom's behavior toward the children. I've seen similar cases get approved, but be prepared for them to initially deny you and then have to appeal.
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Chloe Martin
•Thank you for this! I've been so worried. Do you know what kind of timeline I should expect? I uploaded all the email screenshots when I filed last week but haven't heard anything yet. Do I need to keep filing my weekly claims while I wait for a decision?
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Anastasia Kuznetsov
idk i think youll prolly get denied tbh... pa unemployment is super strict about "voluntary quits" even with good reason. my friend quit after her daycare closed and she got denied cuz they said she shouldve found another option b4 quitting
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Chloe Martin
•Well that's terrifying to hear :( I really did try everything possible before quitting. The daycare situation in my county is awful - there's literally a 2-year waiting list for the other facilities that are all 45+ minutes away anyway.
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Sean Fitzgerald
I successfully won my UC case after quitting for childcare reasons, but I had to APPEAL first. They almost always deny these cases initially, but appeals have a better chance if you have documentation. The key regulation is that you must prove you made "reasonable efforts to preserve the employment relationship" before quitting. Your 20+ internal job applications and requests for schedule accommodation should help tremendously. During my hearing, I provided: 1. Emails with my boss showing attempts to resolve the issue 2. Application confirmations for other positions 3. Documentation about local childcare availability 4. A timeline showing I quit as a last resort And YES, you absolutely must continue filing your weekly claims while waiting for a decision! This is critical. Even if they deny you initially, keep filing while you appeal. If you win the appeal, they'll only pay for weeks you properly filed claims.
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Zara Khan
•This is really good advice. I went through something somewhat similar and won on appeal. Just make sure you meet the work search requirements while filing those weekly claims (apply to at least 2 jobs and do 1 work search activity each week).
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MoonlightSonata
Dealing with PA UC is incredibly frustrating when you're already stressed about childcare and finances! Have you tried getting through to an actual person at the UC office? I was stuck in limbo for WEEKS until I finally got to speak with a real agent. If you're struggling to reach someone, I found this service called Claimyr that helps you get through to an unemployment representative much faster than calling yourself and waiting on hold for hours. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video demo at https://youtu.be/CEPETxZdo9E?si=WL1ZzVZWG3KiHrg2 that shows how it works. Talking to an actual person made a huge difference in my case - they could see all my documentation and explain exactly what else I needed to provide for my "compelling reason" quit.
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Chloe Martin
•I haven't been able to get through at all! The phone just disconnects after the automated message about high call volume. I'll check out that service because I really need to talk to someone and find out if I'm missing anything in my application.
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Mateo Gonzalez
THE UC SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO REJECT YOU!!!!! They make it IMPOSSIBLE for people with legitimate reasons to get benefits. I had to quit my job after my abusive ex found out where I worked and they STILL denied me initially even though I had a PFA!!! The whole system is RIGGED against workers. You basically have to APPEAL EVERYTHING and fight like hell. It's not fair that parents with no childcare options are treated like we're just lazy. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING and don't give up!!!
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Nia Williams
•Seriously, the system is so broken. My cousin went through something similar with childcare issues and got denied twice before finally winning on the second appeal. Its ridiculous what they put people through.
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Sean Fitzgerald
Just to clarify some information about UC eligibility when quitting for childcare reasons: 1. Under PA UC law, you need to prove that you had a "necessitous and compelling" reason to quit 2. You must demonstrate you made reasonable efforts to maintain the employment relationship before quitting 3. The childcare issue must have been created by circumstances beyond your control (your mom becoming abusive would qualify) 4. Your efforts to find alternative solutions must be well-documented Since you have documentation of trying to solve this through schedule changes and internal job transfers, you've built a decent case. When speaking with UC representatives, use these specific terms - "necessitous and compelling" and "reasonable efforts to preserve employment" - as these are the exact legal standards they use to determine eligibility.
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Chloe Martin
•This is incredibly helpful - thank you for the specific terminology. I'll make sure to use those exact phrases if I need to appeal. I had a feeling they might deny me initially just based on the "voluntary quit" classification.
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Zara Khan
just went thru this!!! got denied first then appealed n got approved. heres wut happened - i quit cuz my babysitter moved away n i couldnt find anyone else n my boss wouldnt let me switch to night shift when my husband was home. they denied me sayin i should of tried harder to find childcare. i appealed n sent them a list of EVERY daycare in 30 mile radius with their waitlists n prices. i won! make sure u have proof u tried EVERYTHING
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Diego Fernández
•This is excellent advice. When I worked for the unemployment office years ago, this kind of thorough documentation of childcare availability (or lack thereof) was exactly what would sway a referee during an appeal hearing.
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Chloe Martin
Update: I just got a letter saying my claim is "under review" with an "open issue" regarding my job separation. There's a questionnaire asking for more details about why I quit. Should I call them before filling it out? I'm nervous about saying something wrong that might hurt my case.
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MoonlightSonata
•Definitely fill out the questionnaire with as much specific detail as possible about your childcare situation and all the steps you took before quitting. Use the exact terms mentioned above ("necessitous and compelling"). Then try to reach a UC agent to discuss your case further - that's where Claimyr really helped me get past the busy signals.
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Sean Fitzgerald
•This is completely normal in cases involving voluntary quits. Be extremely detailed in your questionnaire response - mention every single date you requested accommodation, every job you applied for, when your childcare situation changed, etc. Stick to facts rather than emotions. After submitting it, you'll likely have a phone interview scheduled to go over your case.
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Anastasia Kuznetsov
why didnt u jst ask to switch to evenings or weekend shifts? seems like that woulda been the ez solution with ur ex working diff hours
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Chloe Martin
•I DID ask multiple times to switch to evenings! That was one of the schedule accommodations I requested. I even offered to work weekends only. They refused all my requests because of "staffing needs" and then later blamed it on the union negotiations freeze. Trust me, I tried EVERYTHING before quitting.
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Diego Fernández
Make sure when you're explaining your case that you emphasize the timeline and sudden nature of your childcare crisis. PA UC regulations recognize that unforeseen emergencies (like your mother becoming abusive to your children) can create legitimate reasons to quit. The fact that you continued working for weeks/months while actively seeking solutions (internal transfers, schedule changes) shows good faith on your part. During your fact-finding interview, be very clear about the immediate safety concerns for your children that forced your hand - this isn't just about convenience but about protecting your kids from harm when no other options existed.
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Chloe Martin
•Thank you - that's a really good point about emphasizing the safety aspect. I do have text messages where I told my mom I couldn't bring the kids back after what happened. Would that be helpful to submit as evidence too?
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Diego Fernández
•Absolutely submit those texts! Any documentation showing the sudden change in your childcare situation and the safety concerns will strengthen your case significantly. The more evidence you have showing this was a crisis situation with no viable alternatives, the better your chances.
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