Can I claim EDD unemployment after quitting my job to care for my baby due to childcare issues?
I've been with my employer for just over 4 years and recently had a baby. I took my full maternity leave (SDI) and then used all of my Paid Family Leave benefits. My leave ended last month, but I'm facing a serious childcare crisis. After calling 15+ daycares in my area, the cheapest option is $2,400/month and has a 6-month waitlist! My husband works night shifts (4pm-1am) and I was working 8am-5pm, so our schedules barely overlapped. I ultimately made the difficult decision to resign from my position to care for my baby while I search for a job with hours that better align with my husband's schedule so we can tag-team childcare. I'm actively applying for remote positions and jobs with flexible scheduling, but nothing has panned out yet. Would I qualify for unemployment benefits during this transition period? I didn't want to quit, but I literally had no viable childcare options that worked with our schedules and budget.
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Demi Hall
Generally, when you voluntarily quit a job, you don't qualify for unemployment benefits unless you can prove you had "good cause" for leaving. In California, EDD evaluates each case individually. Childcare issues CAN sometimes qualify as good cause, but you'll need to show that: 1) You had a genuine childcare problem 2) You took reasonable steps to preserve your employment before quitting 3) You had no reasonable alternatives Did you discuss alternative scheduling options with your employer before resigning? Did you request part-time work, flexible hours, or remote work? EDD will want to see that you tried to resolve the situation before quitting.
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•Thanks for the detailed response. I did speak with my manager about flexible scheduling options. They were sympathetic but said my role as an executive assistant required on-site presence during regular business hours. I asked about part-time but was told they needed someone full-time. I even proposed a job-share arrangement, but HR said that wasn't possible for my position. I have emails documenting these conversations - would those help my case with EDD?
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Mateusius Townsend
ur gonna get denied 100%. my sister had almost the exact same thing happen and edd said she voluntarily quit so no benefits. doesnt matter what the reason is, if u quit ur done. they dont care about childcare problems.
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Kara Yoshida
•This is not entirely accurate. While EDD does often deny claims when someone voluntarily quits, there are numerous situations where quitting WITH GOOD CAUSE can qualify you for benefits. Lack of childcare can absolutely be considered good cause depending on the circumstances. The key is documentation and showing you tried to preserve your employment before resigning.
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Philip Cowan
I went through something similar last year. When you file your claim, you'll have an eligibility interview scheduled where you explain your situation. Be prepared with documentation showing: 1) Proof you searched for childcare (emails to daycares, quotes showing costs) 2) Documentation of conversations with your employer about alternative arrangements 3) Financial calculations showing childcare would consume an unreasonable percentage of your income In my case, I was initially denied, but I appealed and won because I could prove I had no reasonable alternatives. The judge considered the fact that the cheapest childcare would have consumed over 60% of my take-home pay unreasonable. Keep detailed records of your job search efforts too. You'll need to certify that you're looking for work and available to accept suitable employment that accommodates your childcare situation.
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•This is incredibly helpful! I've saved all my emails with daycares showing their rates and waitlists. The cheapest option would have been about 65% of my take-home pay which just wasn't feasible. For the eligibility interview, should I mention that I'm specifically looking for jobs that accommodate my childcare situation, or will that make EDD think I'm not truly available for work?
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Philip Cowan
You should be honest about your job search parameters. Being available for work doesn't mean you have to be available for ANY job at ANY hours - you can have reasonable restrictions. Just make sure you're applying to enough positions that match your availability to show you're seriously looking for work. When you have your eligibility interview, keep your explanation clear and focused on the facts. Explain that you're available for work during specific hours that accommodate your childcare situation. The interviewer will document your availability limitations, and as long as there's sufficient labor market for the jobs you're qualified for during those hours, you should be considered available for work.
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•Thank you so much for this advice. I've been documenting everything and applying to at least 5 jobs per week that match my availability constraints. One more question - how long did your appeal process take after the initial denial? I'm trying to plan financially for all possibilities.
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Philip Cowan
My appeal took about 7 weeks from filing to hearing, and then another 10 days for the decision. That's pretty standard, though timelines can vary. Make sure you continue certifying for benefits every two weeks even during the appeal process - if you win, they'll pay all the back weeks you certified for. One thing that really helped me was getting through to an actual person at EDD before my interview. I waited on hold for hours with no luck, then I found this service called Claimyr that got me through to an EDD rep in under 25 minutes. It basically keeps dialing EDD for you until it gets through. Talking to a live person beforehand helped me understand exactly what documentation they needed for my specific situation. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video demo here: https://youtu.be/JmuwXR7HA10?si=TSwYbu_GOwYzt9km
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Caesar Grant
•I used claimyr too wen i had issues with my claim!! best $20 i ever spent cuz i was able to fix my pending payments instead of waiting months. but i think the OP shud jus be honest about everything and have all docs ready. EDD always asks for proof
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Lena Schultz
THEY LIE!!!!! I know someone who tried the "childcare" reason and EDD denied them TWICE even with so-called "good cause" documentation!!!! The system is RIGGED against mothers. They expect us to work AND somehow magically take care of our kids with no support!!!! Don't get your hopes up...
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Gemma Andrews
•While I understand your frustration, outcomes vary significantly case-by-case. I've worked with several clients who successfully received unemployment benefits after quitting due to childcare issues. The key differentiator was typically having clear documentation of: 1) attempts to resolve the issue with the employer, 2) proof of genuine childcare difficulties, and 3) continued availability for suitable work. The system isn't perfect, but it's not universally rigged against parents either.
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Kara Yoshida
One important detail that hasn't been mentioned: when you file your claim, DO NOT just say you "quit to take care of your child." That will trigger an automatic denial. Instead, select the option that says you had a compelling reason to leave employment, and then be prepared to explain the full situation in your eligibility interview. Also, you mentioned you're looking for remote jobs. Make sure you're applying to a reasonable number of positions and documenting everything. EDD requires 2-3 job contacts per week, but I recommend doing more (5+) to show good faith in your job search. Good luck with your claim!
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•Thank you! This is really helpful advice about how to file the initial claim. I've been keeping a detailed spreadsheet of all my job applications with dates, company names, position titles, and application methods. I'm averaging about 6-7 applications per week, so hopefully that shows I'm serious about finding new employment that works with my situation.
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Demi Hall
Something else to consider: make sure you're applying for the right program. Regular UI is for people who lost work through no fault of their own. Since you resigned, even with good cause, your case might be more complex. When you have your eligibility interview, be very clear about the timeline: when your leave ended, what steps you took to preserve your job, when you made the decision to resign, etc. And don't be discouraged if you get denied initially. Many legitimate claims are denied at first but approved on appeal. The appeal judges often have more time to review the nuances of situations like childcare issues than the initial claims processors.
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Mateusius Townsend
•wait I thought UI and unemployment were the same thing?? what other program would she apply for if not regular UI? im confused
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Demi Hall
UI (Unemployment Insurance) is the regular unemployment program. I was just emphasizing that she needs to make sure she's applying for UI specifically and not conflating it with other EDD programs like SDI or PFL, which she's already used. Since her situation involves a voluntary quit with mitigating circumstances, I wanted to make sure she understood she's still applying for regular UI but will need to clearly explain her good cause reason during the eligibility determination process.
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•Yes, I understand I need to apply for regular UI. My SDI and PFL benefits are completely used up and those were tied to having a baby and bonding. This would be a separate claim for unemployment while I search for new work. I appreciate everyone's detailed advice! I'll gather all my documentation, be honest about my situation, and hope for the best. I'll update this thread after my eligibility interview to let everyone know how it went.
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Taylor To
As someone who went through a similar situation, I wanted to add that when you have your eligibility interview, be prepared to explain your husband's work schedule in detail. EDD needs to understand that your childcare situation isn't just about cost, but also about availability. The fact that your husband works 4pm-1am and you worked 8am-5pm shows there was literally no overlap for childcare coverage. Also, I'd recommend calling around to a few more daycares if possible and documenting those calls too. The more evidence you have of genuinely trying to find affordable, available childcare that fits your schedule, the stronger your case will be. Even if they're all booked or too expensive, having that documentation shows you exhausted your options before resigning. One last tip: if you do get denied initially, don't give up. The appeals process exists for situations exactly like yours where there are legitimate extenuating circumstances. Good luck!
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Nia Johnson
•This is really solid advice! I hadn't thought about emphasizing the schedule mismatch aspect - you're absolutely right that it's not just about cost but also about the complete lack of coverage overlap. I'll make sure to clearly explain our work schedules during the interview. I've actually called a few more daycares since posting this and it's the same story everywhere - either months-long waitlists or rates that would eat up most of my salary. I'm keeping detailed notes on every call. Thanks for the encouragement about the appeals process too. It's reassuring to know that people in similar situations have successfully navigated this system.
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Amina Toure
I want to add something that might help your case - document any additional expenses that would come with returning to work. Beyond the $2,400/month daycare cost, factor in things like transportation, work clothes, meals out, etc. When EDD evaluates "good cause," they look at whether continuing employment would be economically unreasonable. Also, since you mentioned your husband works nights, make sure to document how his sleep schedule would be impacted. If he needs to sleep during the day to work nights, that creates an additional childcare coverage gap that standard daycare hours don't address. I'd also suggest reaching out to any local childcare resource and referral agencies in your area. Even if they can't help you find immediate care, having documentation that you contacted these resources shows you were proactive in trying to solve the problem before resigning. The fact that you have 4+ years with the same employer actually works in your favor - it shows you're a stable employee who didn't quit lightly. Make sure to mention your employment history during your interview to demonstrate this wasn't a rash decision.
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Genevieve Cavalier
•This is excellent advice about documenting the full financial picture! I hadn't considered all those additional work-related expenses. You're absolutely right about my husband's sleep schedule too - he gets home at 1:30am and needs to sleep until at least 11am to function safely at work. Standard daycare hours of 7am-6pm would leave us with zero coverage from 6pm-11pm when he needs to sleep before his shift. I'll make sure to explain this coverage gap clearly during my interview. I did contact our county's childcare resource center and they confirmed what I already knew - there's a severe shortage of infant care in our area with most centers having 6+ month waitlists. Having their official confirmation of the shortage should help my case. Thanks for the reminder about emphasizing my employment stability - you're right that 4+ years shows this wasn't an impulsive decision.
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Alana Willis
I'm new to this community but wanted to share what I learned when I was in a similar situation. One thing that really helped my case was getting a letter from my pediatrician explaining that consistent caregiving is important for infant development and that frequent caregiver changes (which would happen with unreliable childcare) could be detrimental. Also, if you haven't already, document the timeline of when you first started looking for childcare versus when your leave was ending. EDD wants to see that you weren't procrastinating but genuinely couldn't find viable options despite reasonable efforts. Another tip: when you describe your job search during the eligibility interview, emphasize that you're looking for "suitable work" that accommodates your childcare constraints. California law recognizes that parents can have reasonable limitations on work availability and still be considered "able and available" for work. The documentation everyone mentioned is key - I created a binder with everything organized by category (childcare search, employer communications, financial calculations, job applications) which made the interview much smoother. Best of luck with your claim!
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Amara Eze
•Welcome to the community! This is incredibly helpful advice about getting a pediatrician's letter - I hadn't thought of that angle but it makes perfect sense. My pediatrician has actually mentioned during visits how important consistent caregiving is for my baby's development, so getting that documented professionally could really strengthen my case. You're also right about the timeline documentation. I actually started calling daycares during my maternity leave (around 8 weeks before I was supposed to return) because I knew infant spots fill up quickly. I have a spreadsheet showing when I first contacted each facility versus my return-to-work date, which clearly shows I wasn't leaving this to the last minute. The binder organization idea is brilliant - I've been keeping everything in random folders on my computer and phone. Having it all organized by category will definitely make me feel more prepared and professional during the interview. Thanks for the tip about emphasizing "suitable work" language too - I want to make sure I'm using the right terminology that EDD recognizes.
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StarStrider
I'm going through a very similar situation right now and this thread has been incredibly helpful! I wanted to add one more piece of advice that my case worker mentioned during my eligibility interview - make sure you can clearly articulate why remote work or flexible scheduling wasn't a viable solution with your previous employer. In my case, I had to explain that my role required physical presence for tasks like managing mail, greeting clients, and handling confidential documents that couldn't be accessed remotely. EDD needed to understand that I didn't just choose to quit instead of working from home - it genuinely wasn't an option for my specific position. Also, if you do end up appealing an initial denial, consider getting a brief consultation with an employment attorney who handles UI appeals. Many offer free 15-minute consultations and can help you frame your case using the specific legal language that appeals judges look for. The California code sections around "good cause" can be pretty nuanced. One last thing - keep copies of EVERYTHING you submit to EDD. I learned this the hard way when they claimed they never received some of my documentation. Having backup copies saved me weeks of delays in my appeal process. Your situation sounds very legitimate based on everything you've described. The fact that childcare would consume 65% of your income combined with the schedule impossibility should definitely qualify as good cause. Hang in there!
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Kaylee Cook
•This is such valuable advice about explaining why remote work wasn't viable! I'm actually in a very similar boat - just joined this community after finding this thread through a Google search. My situation is almost identical to the original poster's, except I'm dealing with a toddler instead of an infant. The point about keeping copies of everything is so important - I've already had EDD "lose" paperwork once during my initial application process. Now I scan everything and keep both digital and physical copies. I'm curious for anyone who's been through this - how specific do you need to be about your job search restrictions? I'm only applying to jobs that end by 3pm so I can pick up my daughter from daycare (the few spots I could find have strict pickup times). Should I mention this specific time constraint in my eligibility interview, or just say I'm looking for positions compatible with my childcare responsibilities? Also, has anyone had success with documenting the emotional/developmental impact on their child as part of their good cause argument? My pediatrician mentioned that the stress of our childcare situation was affecting my daughter's sleep patterns and behavior.
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Giovanni Ricci
I just wanted to jump in as someone who's currently navigating a similar situation. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful - this community really knows their stuff! One thing I'd add based on my recent experience: when you have your eligibility interview, be prepared to explain not just what you tried, but also WHY each option didn't work. For example, don't just say "daycare was too expensive" - explain that at $2,400/month it would consume 65% of your take-home pay, leaving your family financially worse off than if you weren't working at all. Also, I noticed you mentioned applying to remote positions. Make sure you're also documenting applications to in-person jobs that have schedules compatible with your childcare situation (like 9am-3pm positions, weekend work, etc.). EDD wants to see you're not just limiting yourself to one type of work arrangement. The emotional toll of this situation is real, but try to keep your interview focused on the practical/financial impossibility of your previous work arrangement rather than the stress aspects. EDD responds better to concrete numbers and logistics than emotional arguments, unfortunately. You've got this! The fact that you tried so many solutions with your employer before quitting shows you made a good faith effort to preserve your job. That's exactly what EDD looks for in "good cause" determinations.
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Zainab Ismail
•Thank you for this perspective! You're absolutely right about focusing on the concrete numbers rather than just saying something was "too expensive." I've actually calculated that after childcare, transportation, work clothes, and increased food costs, I would have been bringing home less than $500/month - which obviously makes no financial sense. I appreciate the advice about diversifying my job applications beyond just remote work. I have been applying to some part-time positions with school-hour schedules, but I should probably expand that search more. Do you think it's worth mentioning in my interview that I'm open to weekend work or evening shifts that align with my husband's days off? I want to show flexibility without making EDD think I'm being too picky. The practical approach definitely makes sense - I tend to get emotional about this situation because it's so stressful, but you're right that EDD will respond better to hard facts and numbers. I'll practice keeping my explanations focused on the logistics and financial impossibility rather than the emotional impact on our family.
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Ava Kim
As someone who successfully obtained UI benefits after quitting due to childcare issues, I wanted to share a few additional tips that really helped my case: First, create a detailed financial breakdown showing your net loss if you had continued working. Include not just childcare costs, but also commuting expenses, work lunches, professional clothing, and any overtime childcare fees. In my case, I would have actually lost $300/month by continuing to work - this concrete number was crucial during my appeal. Second, document your husband's work schedule with his employer if possible. I got a letter from my spouse's HR department confirming his shift times, which helped EDD understand why standard daycare hours (7am-6pm) left us with zero coverage gaps. Third, when describing your job search, use the phrase "suitable employment" - this is the legal standard EDD uses. You can have reasonable restrictions on work hours/location and still be considered available for work as long as there's sufficient job opportunities within your parameters. Finally, if you get denied initially (which is common), file your appeal immediately. I was denied at first but won on appeal because the judge had more time to review all my documentation. The appeals process took about 8 weeks but I received back pay for all the weeks I certified. Your situation sounds very similar to mine and you've done everything right by trying to work with your employer first. Stay organized with your documentation and don't give up if you get an initial denial!
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