Made an early 403b withdrawal and now owe 10k in taxes - help!

There are a few reasons why your tax bill is so high. When you make an early withdrawal from a retirement account like a 403b, there are several tax implications: 1. The withdrawal amount gets added to your taxable income for the year. So that $23k is being taxed at your marginal tax rate, which is likely pretty high given your combined household income of $263k. 2. There's the additional 10% early withdrawal penalty if you're under 59½ (unless you qualify for an exception). 3. The withholding from your plan administrator was only about 22%, which isn't enough to cover your actual tax obligation at your income level. The withholding system for retirement distributions is standardized and doesn't account for your specific tax situation. Since you and your wife have high combined income, you're in a higher tax bracket than what the standard withholding covers.

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Have you considered filing separately instead of jointly? In some situations with big income disparities and unusual one-time events like retirement withdrawals, it can make a difference. I'm not saying it will help in your case, but it might be worth running the numbers both ways. Also, check if any part of your withdrawal might qualify as a hardship distribution. The rules are strict, but sometimes people don't realize that certain expenses can qualify for penalty exemptions.

Another thing to consider - if you haven't filed yet, you could potentially make a contribution to an IRA for 2024 to offset some of the tax impact. You can still make prior-year IRA contributions until the tax filing deadline. Might help reduce your taxable income a bit.