Shocked at our high federal tax bill this year - need help understanding why

This situation is actually pretty common, especially with two-income households. Let me break down what might be happening here. The big jump in what you owe could be from a few things. First, check if your withholdings changed from last year - sometimes employers adjust their withholding tables or payroll systems make changes. Also, did either of you get raises, bonuses, or have investment income that wasn't properly withheld from? As for why your withholdings are less than your husband's despite making more - this often happens when both spouses select the "Married filing jointly" option on their W-4 forms. The withholding tables assume your household has one primary earner and adjusts accordingly. Since you both earn significant incomes, the tables don't withhold enough for your combined tax bracket. The W-4 changes you made should help for next year. The "two-earner/multiple jobs" section of the W-4 is specifically designed to address this issue. Regarding the state tax being so low while federal is high - different tax structures. VA state tax rates are fairly flat compared to the progressive federal system, so additional income doesn't bump you into dramatically higher state brackets like it does federally.

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One thing nobody's mentioned yet - did either of you have any side income or freelance work that wasn't having taxes withheld? Even a small amount of 1099 income can result in a surprisingly large tax bill because you're paying both the employee and employer portions of FICA taxes (an extra 7.65%). Also, check if your employer changed payroll providers. My company switched last year and something got messed up in the transition, resulting in significantly lower withholding for several pay periods before it was caught.

Has anyone actually compared 2023 vs 2024 tax brackets? They were adjusted for inflation but the withholding tables that employers use don't always perfectly match your actual tax situation, especially with two high incomes. Also check if either of you maxed out Social Security tax at different times. If one of you hit the SS wage cap earlier in the year, you'd see more take-home pay for those months but it wouldn't change your total tax liability.