How to legally employ my child in a partnership business?
Title: How to legally employ my child in a partnership business? 1 I have a small business that I run as a partnership with my brother. My daughter just turned 6, and she's been showing interest in earning some money by helping out. She actually enjoys doing simple office tasks like putting labels on our direct mail and adding stamps. I'd really like to officially employ her and pay her a wage, but I've been looking into the rules and hit a roadblock. From what I can tell, you need to be a sole proprietor to employ your own children under 14, and since we're in a partnership, that doesn't apply to us. The standard age seems to be that kids need to be at least 14 to be legally employed otherwise. Is there any workaround for this situation? I'd love to give my daughter this opportunity to learn about work and responsibility. Plus, I was hoping it might help with reducing our business taxes by paying her a legitimate wage for actual work. Has anyone dealt with this before or know if there's a solution?
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Ava Rodriguez
18 While I understand your desire to involve your daughter and potentially gain some tax benefits, there are specific rules regarding children working in family businesses that you need to follow. In a partnership where one of the partners is not the child's parent, your daughter would be subject to standard child labor laws. Federal law generally prohibits employment of children under 14, with limited exceptions for certain agricultural work, entertainment, and family-owned businesses where only the parents are the owners. Since you're in a partnership with your brother, the parental exemption doesn't apply. The reason for this rule is that when there's another partner involved, your child is technically working for your brother too (a non-parent), which removes the exemption. However, there are a few potential approaches: You could pay her an allowance from your personal funds (not a business expense), create a separate sole proprietorship for work appropriate for her, or formally document her as a volunteer gaining educational experience (though this doesn't help with tax deductions).
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Ava Rodriguez
•7 Thanks for the detailed explanation. Could you elaborate on the "separate sole proprietorship" option? How would that work exactly? And would that actually help with reducing our tax burden or just be a way to legally give her work experience?
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Ava Rodriguez
•18 Creating a separate sole proprietorship would mean establishing a completely different business entity that you alone own (not with your brother). This business could then contract with your partnership for specific services that your daughter could help with. For the tax benefits, yes, this arrangement could potentially help. As a sole proprietor, you could employ your child under 18 without paying FICA taxes (Social Security and Medicare) on their wages, and a child under 21 wouldn't be subject to Federal Unemployment Tax Act (FUTA) taxes. Your child can also earn up to the standard deduction amount ($14,600 for 2025) without owing income tax, while you get a business deduction for their legitimate wages. Remember that the work must be: age-appropriate, necessary for the business, paid at reasonable market rates, and properly documented with timesheets. This isn't a tax loophole - your daughter must actually perform real, needed work.
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Ava Rodriguez
15 I was in a similar situation last year and discovered taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) which really helped me navigate this complex situation with my 7-year-old son and our family business. I uploaded my partnership documents and got a detailed analysis of my options for legally employing my child while staying compliant with tax regulations. What I found most helpful was that they explained exactly what kind of documentation I needed to keep and how to structure payments to maximize tax benefits while avoiding any potential red flags with the IRS. They even provided templates for tracking hours and services that my son provided to the business.
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Ava Rodriguez
•9 That sounds promising! Did they actually give you a way to employ your child in a partnership? Or did they just tell you it wasn't possible? I'm also wondering if there are any ongoing fees for using the service or if it's a one-time thing?
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Ava Rodriguez
•6 I'm a bit skeptical about these kinds of services. How do you know the advice is actually legally sound? Has anyone ever had their arrangement audited after using their recommendations?
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Ava Rodriguez
•15 They actually showed me several options, including creating a separate sole proprietorship for specific tasks that could contract with my partnership, which worked really well for our situation. They don't just tell you what you can't do - they focus on finding legal ways to accomplish your goals. For your question about fees, they offer different service levels depending on your needs. I initially used their document analysis for my specific situation, and later upgraded for some additional support when tax season came around. They were transparent about all costs upfront.
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Ava Rodriguez
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Ava Rodriguez
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Ava Rodriguez
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Ava Rodriguez
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Ava Rodriguez
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Ava Rodriguez
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Ava Rodriguez
22 One thing nobody's mentioned yet is to check your state's child labor laws too. Even if you find a federal workaround, states often have their own restrictions that might be even stricter. For example, in my state, the minimum age for employment is 14 regardless of who owns the business, with the only exception being farm work or entertainment. So even if you created a sole proprietorship, you might still have state-level compliance issues.
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Ava Rodriguez
•4 Good point! Do you know if these state laws would still apply if the child is an "owner" rather than an employee? What if you set up a family LLC and gave the child a small percentage of ownership?
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Ava Rodriguez
•22 That's an interesting angle. If the child has an ownership interest rather than employment status, different rules would apply. However, there are complex tax implications with giving ownership to minors. A family LLC with the child as a member could potentially work, but there are several considerations. First, minors can't directly own LLC interests in many states - you'd need to set up a custodial arrangement under UTMA/UGMA laws. Second, giving an ownership interest triggers gift tax considerations. Third, the child would receive a K-1 and potentially owe self-employment taxes on their share of profits. Most importantly, any arrangement must have economic substance - meaning it can't just be a paper arrangement to shift income. The IRS looks closely at family business arrangements to ensure they reflect economic reality.
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Ava Rodriguez
10 Has anyone considered the "modeling exception" for child labor laws? My accountant mentioned that children of any age can work as models or performers. Maybe if your daughter is helping with advertising materials for the business (like appearing in photos for marketing), that could qualify under this exception?
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Ava Rodriguez
•19 That's creative thinking, but be careful. The entertainment/modeling exception is quite specific and regulated. It's not as simple as just taking photos of your kid for marketing materials and calling them a "model." Many states require permits, limited working hours, supervision requirements, and sometimes even trust accounts where a portion of earnings must be set aside for the child. For it to qualify as modeling work, it would need to be legitimate modeling - not just a workaround to employ your child in regular business activities.
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Ava Rodriguez
23 One missed tax advantage to employing your child - funding a Roth IRA for them! If you can find a legitimate way to pay your 6-year-old for actual work (like through a separate sole proprietorship), you could help them start a Roth IRA with those earnings. The contribution limit would be the amount they earned or the annual IRA limit, whichever is less. With 60+ years of tax-free growth ahead of them, even small contributions now could be worth a fortune by retirement age. It's one of the best possible financial head starts you could give them. Just another angle to consider as you figure out the employment structure!
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Fatima Al-Qasimi
This is such a thoughtful question! As a parent myself, I really appreciate your desire to teach your daughter about work ethic and responsibility at a young age. I've been following this thread and wanted to add something that might help: before you go down the route of creating a separate sole proprietorship (which seems like the most viable option based on the discussion here), you might want to consider starting with informal documentation of her work to see if this arrangement actually works for your family. Track her hours, the specific tasks she does, and pay her a reasonable rate from your personal funds for now. This will help you determine if she's consistently interested and capable of the work, and give you real data on what her contribution is worth. If it works well over a few months, then you'll have a solid foundation for formalizing the employment structure. Also, don't forget to involve her in understanding what she's earning and maybe help her set savings goals. At 6, this could be as much about financial literacy as it is about work experience. The tax benefits are nice, but the life lessons might be even more valuable!
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Oliver Fischer
•This is excellent advice! Starting with informal tracking is so smart before jumping into complex business structures. It would also help establish a paper trail showing legitimate work patterns if you do decide to formalize things later. I love the point about financial literacy too - at 6, teaching her to track earnings, set savings goals, and understand the value of work might be even more beneficial than any tax advantages. Plus, if she loses interest after a few weeks (as kids sometimes do), you haven't gone through all the hassle of setting up a separate business entity for nothing. The documentation approach could also help if you ever need to justify the arrangement to the IRS - showing consistent work patterns, reasonable pay rates, and actual business value over time.
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Ryan Young
As someone who's dealt with similar challenges, I'd strongly recommend consulting with a tax attorney or CPA who specializes in family business structures before implementing any of these suggestions. While the advice here is helpful, employment law and tax regulations around children working in family businesses are incredibly nuanced and vary significantly by state. The separate sole proprietorship approach mentioned earlier is probably your best bet, but you'll need to ensure it has legitimate business purpose beyond just employing your daughter. The IRS scrutinizes family employment arrangements closely, especially when they seem designed primarily for tax benefits. A few additional considerations: make sure any work is truly age-appropriate and documented properly, consider workers' compensation insurance requirements even for family members, and remember that paying your child wages means they may need to file a tax return depending on the amount. The informal tracking approach suggested by others is wise - start there, then formalize if it makes sense for your situation long-term.
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Avery Saint
•Absolutely agree on consulting with a professional! I learned this the hard way when I tried to set up something similar without proper guidance and ended up with a mess during tax season. One thing I'd add to your excellent points - make sure to document not just the hours and tasks, but also the business necessity of the work. The IRS wants to see that you're paying for legitimate business services, not just finding ways to shift income to a lower tax bracket. For a 6-year-old, tasks like putting labels on mailers and adding stamps could be legitimate if you can show it's work you'd otherwise have to do yourself or pay someone else to do. Keep records of how much time it saves you or what it would cost to hire someone else for similar tasks. The workers' comp point is crucial too - many people forget about this requirement even for family members in some states.
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Mateo Lopez
This is such a great discussion! I'm new to this community but facing a very similar situation with my 8-year-old who wants to help with our family business. After reading through all these responses, I'm leaning toward the separate sole proprietorship approach, but I have a practical question: how do you handle the transition of work between the partnership and the sole proprietorship? For example, if your daughter is helping with direct mail for your partnership business, would you have the sole proprietorship "contract" with the partnership for marketing services, then have your daughter do the actual work under the sole proprietorship? I'm trying to understand how to structure this so it's legitimate and not just moving money around on paper. Also, has anyone who's implemented this approach had any issues during tax season? I want to make sure I'm not setting myself up for problems down the road. The informal tracking suggestion is brilliant - I'm definitely starting there while I figure out the legal structure. Thanks to everyone who's shared their experiences!
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Aidan Percy
•Great question about structuring the work flow! You're absolutely right to think through the practical mechanics. For the separate sole proprietorship approach to work legitimately, you'd essentially create a service agreement where your sole proprietorship contracts with the partnership for specific marketing services (like direct mail preparation, labeling, etc.). The partnership pays your sole proprietorship for these services at market rates, and then your sole proprietorship pays your daughter for her portion of that work. The key is making sure this reflects real economic substance - your sole proprietorship should actually be providing valuable services that the partnership would otherwise need to handle internally or outsource anyway. Document everything: the service agreement, invoices between entities, timesheets for your daughter's work, and market rates for similar services. As for tax season complications, the main things to watch are: keeping detailed records that show legitimate business purpose, ensuring wages are reasonable for the work performed, and being prepared to justify the arrangement if questioned. Many families successfully use this structure, but documentation is absolutely critical. I'd definitely recommend starting with informal tracking like you mentioned - it'll give you great data to build the formal structure around later!
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Sean Matthews
This has been such an informative thread! I'm dealing with a similar situation but with a twist - my 7-year-old is actually really good with computers and has been helping me organize digital files and basic data entry for our partnership business. Reading through all the advice here, it sounds like the separate sole proprietorship route is the most viable option, but I'm wondering if anyone has experience with digital/computer work specifically? I'm thinking tasks like organizing digital photos for marketing, simple data entry, or even basic website maintenance tasks that are age-appropriate. The documentation aspect seems crucial from what everyone's saying. For computer-based work, I could easily track screen time, specific tasks completed, and even before/after screenshots to show the work was actually done. Has anyone successfully set up this kind of arrangement for tech-related tasks? I'm particularly curious about how to determine fair market rates for this type of work when done by a child - obviously they're not as efficient as an adult, but the work does get done and saves me time. Also appreciate all the reminders about state laws and professional consultation - definitely planning to talk to our CPA before formalizing anything!
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