Sole proprietor hiring children - how to properly pay my kids for work in my business?
I'm a bit confused about finding the right information for my situation. I have a small graphic design business, and my daughter (15) helps me with client organization and some basic design work. I just started bringing her in to help recently and someone mentioned I can write off these payments. It's not a huge amount of money, but she's been helping more during her school breaks. From what I've read, since she's earning less than $13.8k, my daughter doesn't have to file or pay taxes. She's definitely under 18. I'm getting conflicting information though - some websites say I don't need to issue a 1099 or W-2 for my own child, is that accurate? Do I just report her wages as an expense on my business taxes? How do I properly record these payments? Also wondering if I need to set up formal payroll if I'm just transferring money into her college savings account and regular savings account? Any guidance would be really appreciated!
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Diego Flores
This is actually a great tax planning opportunity for your family! As a sole proprietor, you can hire your children and deduct their wages as a legitimate business expense. Since you're a sole proprietorship (not an LLC taxed as a corporation), you don't have to withhold FICA taxes (Social Security and Medicare) for children under 18. You don't need to issue a 1099 since she's your employee, not a contractor. And you're right that if she earns less than the standard deduction ($13,850 for 2024), she likely won't owe federal income tax. However, you should still treat this professionally by: 1. Keeping a timesheet of hours worked and tasks performed 2. Paying reasonable wages for the work done (what you'd pay someone else for the same job) 3. Transferring money from your business account to her account (or college fund) 4. Recording these payments in your business books as "wages" expense You don't necessarily need formal payroll software, but you should maintain good records of hours, pay rates, and payments. This documentation is crucial if you ever face an audit.
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Anastasia Ivanova
•This is super helpful! One question though - does the kid need to actually have access to the money? Like can I just move it to her 529 directly or does some of it need to go to a regular account she can use?
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Diego Flores
•The money should be paid directly to your child first, just like a normal employee. Your child can then decide what to do with their earned income - spend some, save some, or contribute to their own 529 plan. If you bypass giving them the money and put it straight into a 529, the IRS could potentially view this as you making the contribution rather than legitimate wages. To strengthen your position that these are genuine wages, it's best if your child receives the money and then they (or you as their custodian) deposit a portion into savings accounts or college funds.
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Sean Murphy
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StarStrider
•Did you need to get your kid a separate tax ID number or anything? I've been paying my daughter cash for helping with my Etsy business and now I'm wondering if I've been doing it all wrong.
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Zara Malik
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Sean Murphy
•Your child should have their own Social Security Number, which serves as their tax ID. You'll use this to identify them in your records, though you don't need to file W-2s if you're a sole proprietor with a child under 18. What makes taxr.ai different is that it analyzes your specific business situation and documentation requirements. It's not just generic info - it actually helped me identify the exact records I needed to keep based on my business structure and my son's age. It also flagged that I needed different documentation than what I would've needed if I'd been an LLC taxed as a corporation.
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Zara Malik
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Aisha Rahman
I've been paying my kids in my home-based business for years, and here's what I've learned: - Keep a simple timesheet showing dates, hours, and tasks - Take pictures of them actually working (great for documentation) - Pay them reasonable wages for their age and skills - Transfer money to their accounts regularly (not just once at year-end) - Record it as "wages" in your accounting software - Include their wages on your Schedule C The IRS does look at family businesses, so good documentation is key. Also, make sure your kids are doing ACTUAL work - not just "helping" by existing. The work needs to be necessary for your business and appropriate for their age.
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CosmicCrusader
•Do you have any templates you use for the timesheets? I'm trying to be organized from the start with my 14 year old who helps with my Etsy shop.
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Aisha Rahman
•I don't use anything fancy - just a simple spreadsheet with columns for date, start time, end time, total hours, hourly rate, total pay, and a description of tasks completed. I have my kid fill it out, and then I initial it each week to confirm. For extra documentation, I occasionally take photos of the completed work or my kid actually doing the work. I store these with copies of the timesheets. It might seem like overkill, but during a business audit years ago, the IRS agent specifically commented that my documentation for my children's work was excellent and didn't question those deductions at all.
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Ethan Brown
You should all know that the rules are different if your business is an LLC or corporation! I made this mistake and got hit with penalties. If you've filed as an S-Corp or have an LLC taxed as a corporation, you DO have to withhold FICA taxes and issue W-2s, even for your kids under 18. The exemption from FICA only applies to sole proprietorships and partnerships where all partners are the child's parents. Just wanted to throw this out there since people are giving advice assuming you're a sole prop (which you are, but others reading might not be).
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Yuki Yamamoto
•Oh crap, I have an LLC taxed as an S-Corp and I've been paying my kids without withholding or W-2s. How bad were the penalties?
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Grace Thomas
•The penalties weren't terrible but definitely not fun - I got hit with failure to deposit penalties for the FICA taxes I should have withheld, plus interest. It was maybe $800 total for about 6 months of payments to my two kids. The IRS was actually pretty reasonable once I explained the mistake and caught up on the filings. You'll want to fix this ASAP though. You can file corrected payroll returns (941s) and issue W-2s for your kids retroactively. I'd recommend talking to a payroll service or tax professional to help you get caught up properly. The sooner you fix it, the lower the penalties will be.
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Rachel Tao
Just wanted to add my experience for anyone else in this situation - I've been paying my 16-year-old daughter to help with my freelance writing business for about two years now. She does research, basic editing, and manages my social media accounts. One thing I learned the hard way is to be really specific about what constitutes "work" versus just normal family responsibilities. The IRS expects the work to be legitimate business tasks that you would otherwise pay someone else to do. My daughter tracks her time using a simple phone app, and I require her to write a brief description of what she accomplished each day. Also, don't forget about state requirements - some states have additional rules about employing minors, even your own children. In my state, I had to get a work permit for her once she turned 16, even though it's my own business. The tax savings have been significant though. Not only do I get to deduct her wages as a business expense, but it's also helped teach her about work ethic and managing money. She's been saving most of her earnings for college, which works out great for the whole family. Keep those records organized and make sure the work is genuinely necessary for your business - that's the key to making this strategy work long-term.
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Jackson Carter
•This is really valuable insight, especially about the state work permit requirements! I hadn't even thought about that aspect. Quick question - when you say your daughter uses a phone app to track time, which one do you use? I'm looking for something simple that my 15-year-old can actually stick with using consistently. Also, I'm curious about the social media management piece - does the IRS consider that legitimate business work for a teenager? I was worried they might see it as too casual or not "real" enough work, but it sounds like you haven't had any issues with that?
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Caden Turner
•@Rachel Tao For time tracking apps, I d'recommend looking at Toggl Track or Clockify - both have simple mobile apps that are pretty user-friendly for teens. My nephew uses Clockify for his part-time job and finds it easier than the complicated ones. Regarding social media management - as long as your daughter is doing actual business tasks posting (content, responding to customer inquiries, creating graphics, scheduling posts ,)that s'absolutely legitimate work. The IRS cares about whether the work is necessary and ordinary for your business, not the age of the person doing it. Many businesses pay social media managers good money, so if your daughter is doing that work competently, it s'definitely real "work." Just make sure she s'documenting what platforms she manages, what type of content she creates/posts, and any measurable results like (increased followers or engagement .)That kind of documentation will support the legitimacy of the work if you re'ever questioned about it.
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Alejandro Castro
Great question! I went through this exact situation with my consulting business last year. Here are the key points that helped me get it right: Since you're a sole proprietor, you're in luck - no FICA taxes (Social Security/Medicare) need to be withheld for your daughter since she's under 18. You also don't need to issue a 1099 or W-2. The most important things to focus on: 1. **Documentation is everything** - Keep detailed records of hours worked, tasks completed, and pay rates. I use a simple timesheet that my kid fills out and I review weekly. 2. **Pay reasonable wages** - Make sure what you're paying aligns with what you'd pay someone else for similar work. Don't pay $30/hour for basic filing if that work typically pays $12/hour. 3. **Treat it like a real job** - Regular payments from your business account to her account, not just cash here and there. The IRS likes to see consistent, business-like transactions. 4. **Record as wages on Schedule C** - This goes under "wages" (line 26), not contract labor. For the college savings question - pay your daughter first, then she can decide to put money in savings. Don't bypass her and go straight to the 529, as that could look like you're making the contribution rather than paying legitimate wages. The tax benefits are real, but the documentation needs to be rock-solid. Keep photos of her actually working if possible - it really helps if you're ever audited!
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Kayla Morgan
•This is such helpful advice! I'm new to this whole situation and feeling pretty overwhelmed by all the rules. One thing I'm still confused about - you mentioned keeping photos of her working, but how much documentation is actually "enough"? I don't want to go overboard and make this feel like I'm micromanaging my daughter, but I also don't want to get in trouble with the IRS. Should I be taking photos every time she works, or just occasionally? And what about the timesheet - does it need to be super detailed with every single task, or can it be more general like "client file organization" and "basic design work"? Also, when you say "regular payments," how often is regular? Weekly? Monthly? I was thinking of paying her at the end of each month when I do my other business accounting, but I want to make sure that looks legitimate.
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