Can I deduct my child's college tuition as a business expense if they work for my small business?
So I've been wondering about this tax situation with my daughter. She works for my small business doing data entry, bookkeeping, and general admin tasks - putting in about 20 hours a week (roughly 1000 hours per year). Instead of paying her a regular salary, I've been thinking about covering her college tuition directly which would be around $45k per year. Would this be something I could legitimately deduct as a business expense? She's genuinely working for the business and providing real value. I'm just trying to figure out if paying for her education instead of cutting her regular paychecks would be kosher with the IRS. Has anyone done something similar or know the tax implications here? I want to help with her education but also make sure I'm handling this correctly from a tax perspective.
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Butch Sledgehammer
While I understand wanting to help with your daughter's education, there are several important tax considerations here. The IRS is very particular about family business arrangements. First, paying your child's tuition directly isn't the same as paying them a salary. For a legitimate business expense, you need to pay your daughter actual wages with regular payroll like any other employee - documented with timesheets, job duties, and reasonable compensation for the work performed. Then she can use that money however she wants, including for tuition. Your daughter's wages would be a deductible business expense, but only if they're reasonable for the work performed. The $45k for 1000 hours (about $45/hour) might raise flags if that's above market rate for the type of work she's doing. The IRS scrutinizes family employment arrangements closely. If you directly pay her tuition instead of wages, that looks more like a personal expense (education support for your child) rather than a business expense, regardless of her work. The IRS would likely consider this a non-deductible personal expense and possibly a gift.
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Freya Ross
•Thanks for the info. Would it be better to just put her on payroll officially and then gift her money separately for school? Or would that still look suspicious to the IRS? What if her job genuinely justifies that pay rate?
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Butch Sledgehammer
•Putting her on an official payroll with proper documentation is definitely the right approach. Pay her reasonable wages for the actual work performed, with all the normal tax withholdings. This creates a clean business expense. If you want to help with her education, you can certainly gift her money separately, but understand this is a personal transaction. The annual gift tax exclusion is $17,000 per recipient for 2025, meaning you can give that much without filing a gift tax return. Gifts aren't tax-deductible, but they're not income to your daughter either.
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Leslie Parker
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Esteban Tate
One thing nobody has mentioned yet is the educational assistance program option. A business can provide up to $5,250 per year in educational assistance to employees (including family members who are legitimate employees) tax-free under Section 127. You'd need a formal written plan that meets specific requirements, but it might be worth looking into as part of your strategy. The rest would still need to be regular wages.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•Does this educational assistance program work for college tuition specifically? And do I need a certain size business to qualify? I'm just a sole proprietor with 2 employees.
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Esteban Tate
•Yes, it absolutely works for college tuition! The $5,250 can be used for tuition, fees, books, supplies and equipment. It doesn't matter what size your business is - even sole proprietors can set this up as long as you have a formal written plan that follows the rules. The plan needs to be in writing, can't favor highly compensated employees, and can't give employee-owners (or their family) more than 5% of the annual benefits. You also can't offer it as an alternative to other compensation. But for a small business with just a few employees, it can be a nice additional benefit that gives you a legitimate way to help with some education expenses.
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Elin Robinson
Omg i had this exact question last year! my daughter works in my pet grooming business and i wanted to help with her community college. my accountant told me to just put her on regular payroll and pay her fairly for the ACTUAL work she does. he said if i tried to deduct tuition directly id be asking for an audit. i now pay her $22/hour (what i pay my other grooming assistant) for about 15 hrs/week. she gets a regular paycheck with taxes taken out and everything. then what she does with her money is her business. yeah i still help her with tuition but thats just me being a mom lol.
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Atticus Domingo
•Totally agree with your accountant. My sister tried to get cute with this kind of arrangement in her business with my nephew and ended up getting audited. The IRS disallowed all the "tuition payments" as business expenses and she had to pay back taxes plus penalties. Just not worth the headache!
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AstroAdventurer
Just wanted to chime in as someone who went through this exact situation with my son last year. The bottom line is that the IRS treats family employment arrangements with extra scrutiny, so you really need to do everything by the book. Here's what I learned: Pay your daughter actual wages through regular payroll (W-2, tax withholdings, the whole nine yards) for legitimate work performed. Document everything - hours worked, job duties, market rate justification for her pay. The $45k for 1000 hours ($45/hour) might be high depending on what kind of work she's actually doing. Research what similar positions pay in your area. Once she's getting regular paychecks, what she does with that money is her business. You can still help with tuition separately as a parent, but that's a personal expense, not a business deduction. Don't try to get creative by paying tuition directly as a "business expense" - that's a red flag for the IRS and could trigger an audit. Keep your business expenses and personal family support completely separate. It's cleaner, safer, and will save you headaches down the road.
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Julia Hall
•This is really helpful advice! I'm in a similar situation with my daughter who helps with my consulting business. One question though - when you say "research what similar positions pay in your area," where did you actually find reliable data for that? I'm having trouble finding good benchmarks for part-time admin/bookkeeping work to make sure I'm not over or underpaying her.
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