Taxes on temporary rent collection - is it income if I'm saving it for someone else?
I'm in a bit of a tax dilemma that I never thought about until recently. My daughter lives with me, and I've been charging her rent since the beginning of this year. The thing is, she has no idea that I'm actually just putting all that money into a savings account for her to use when she eventually moves out on her own. Now I'm worried about the tax implications of this arrangement. Since I plan to give all this money back to her eventually, I never really considered it as income for myself. But I'm not sure if the IRS would see it that way. I've thought about a few possibilities: 1. Maybe it's like a loan from her that I'll be paying back? But since she doesn't know about this arrangement, there's no documentation if the IRS ever questioned it. 2. Perhaps I could just consider it as splitting living expenses, and then the money I give back later is simply a gift? 3. Or do I need to report it as straight income on my taxes? I don't want to accidentally commit tax fraud, even on a small scale! Just looking for some guidance on the proper way to handle this situation come tax time. Anyone have experience with a similar situation or know what the right approach is?
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Kai Rivera
This is actually a really thoughtful thing you're doing for your daughter! From a tax perspective, though, you're right to be thinking about this. The rent payments are technically income when you receive them. The fact that you're saving them doesn't change that - it's what you're doing with the income after you receive it. However, there might be some nuance here depending on your specific situation. If you're just holding the money temporarily with a clear intention to return it (like you are), it could potentially be treated as a custodial arrangement rather than income. The challenge, as you noted, is documentation since your daughter doesn't know. The safest approach would be to report the rental income on your tax return (Schedule E if it's significant), but you might also be able to offset some of this with expenses related to her portion of the home.
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Anna Stewart
•What if they just gifted the money back to her each year instead of saving it all up? Would that change the tax situation at all? I'm thinking about the annual gift tax exclusion.
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Kai Rivera
•If you gift the money back each year, you'd still need to report the rental income, but you'd be taking advantage of the annual gift tax exclusion (currently $17,000 per person per year) to return the funds to her. This would be cleaner from a documentation perspective, but you'd still have the rental income to report. The annual gift exclusion means you can give up to that amount to any individual without having to file a gift tax return, so it simplifies things on that end.
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Molly Chambers
My accountant told me that this is actually pretty straightforward. It IS income in the year you receive it, despite your intentions. What you do with the money afterward (saving it, spending it, giving it back) doesn't change the fact that it's income when received. But if you're planning to give it back as a gift later, just make sure you stay under the annual gift tax exclusion amount (currently $17,000) when you do give it to her, and you won't have any additional tax implications on that end.
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Ian Armstrong
•Does it matter if they're tracking it separately in a dedicated account? I've heard that can sometimes make a difference with the IRS if the money is clearly segregated.
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Molly Chambers
•Keeping the money in a separate account is good practice and helps demonstrate your intent, but unfortunately it doesn't change the fundamental tax treatment. The IRS generally looks at the nature of the transaction when it occurs, not what you intend to do with the proceeds later. Having a separate account does provide a clear paper trail though, which is always helpful if questions ever arise. It shows you weren't trying to hide anything and had a specific purpose for the funds.
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Eli Butler
Has anyone considered setting up a 529 college savings plan with this money instead? If your daughter might use it for education in the future, you'd still need to report the rental income BUT the money could grow tax-free if used for education expenses later. Might be a win-win?
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Marcus Patterson
•This is actually brilliant! My sister did something similar with her kids' "chore money" - she reported it properly as rental income but then put it in 529s for them. The growth being tax-free for education expenses made it really worthwhile.
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