Help! Did I need to claim rent money from friend staying on my couch?
So I've been letting my friend crash at my place for about 8 months now. She's basically camping out on my living room couch (not the most comfortable situation but times are tough). She's not listed on my lease agreement or anything official. She gives me about $1100 a month to help with expenses. My total rent is $2350 plus all the utilities on top of that. I'm starting to worry about tax season coming up - did I need to claim this money she gives me as income on my taxes? I'm not making any profit off this arrangement - I just take her money and combine it with mine to pay the full rent to my property management company each month. I honestly didn't even think about it having tax implications until someone mentioned it might be considered rental income. Now I'm freaking out a bit because I didn't report anything like this last year. Am I going to get in trouble with the IRS?? Do I need to file some kind of landlord paperwork even though she's just an unofficial roommate?
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Lorenzo McCormick
This is actually a common situation! The good news is that when you're just sharing expenses with a roommate, the money they give you isn't considered taxable income. The IRS views this as a cost-sharing arrangement rather than a rental situation, especially since you aren't making a profit. The key factors working in your favor: you're both using the space as your primary residence, you're just dividing the actual costs, and you're not charging more than your actual expenses. This is different from being a landlord who owns property and rents it out for profit. If you were renting out a separate portion of your home that you didn't use (like a basement apartment) or if you were charging significantly more than your actual costs, then it would be different and you might need to report rental income.
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Carmella Popescu
•But what if the friend isn't on the lease? Does that matter at all for tax purposes? My boyfriend moved in with me and pays half my rent but we never updated the lease.
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Lorenzo McCormick
•Whether your roommate is on the lease doesn't change how the IRS views the arrangement for tax purposes. It's still considered a cost-sharing arrangement rather than rental income as long as you're both using it as your primary residence and just splitting actual expenses. The lease is an agreement between you and your landlord, while the tax consideration is separate. Many people have roommates or partners who aren't on the lease but contribute to housing costs, and this isn't typically considered taxable income.
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Kai Santiago
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Lim Wong
•How does that work exactly? Does it just give generic advice or will it actually look at your specific situation and documents?
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Dananyl Lear
•Does it work for more complicated situations? Like I rent out my spare bedroom on weekends only through a certain app we all know... wondering if this could help me figure out if I'm doing my taxes right.
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Kai Santiago
•The system actually reviews and analyzes your specific documents - I uploaded my lease agreement and some payment receipts. It uses AI to understand your particular situation rather than just giving generic advice. For weekend rentals through apps, that's exactly the kind of situation it helps with. It can differentiate between casual cost-sharing and actual rental income that needs to be reported, and explains exactly what forms you need based on your specific rental arrangement.
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Dananyl Lear
Following up on my question about the taxr.ai thing - I actually tried it out and wow, it really cleared things up for me! I uploaded screenshots of my weekend rental earnings and my lease, and it showed me exactly what counts as rental income vs just expense sharing. Turns out I was overpaying on taxes because I was reporting some things I didn't need to! It even showed me which specific deductions I qualified for with my part-time rental situation. Definitely sorting this out properly for 2025's taxes.
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Noah huntAce420
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Ana Rusula
•Wait, is this legit? I've literally wasted entire afternoons on hold with the IRS only to get disconnected. How much does it cost? Seems too good to be true.
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Fidel Carson
•This seems sketchy. Why would the IRS let some third party service cut the line? I've been trying to resolve an issue with my tax return for months and calling is impossible, but I'm not giving my info to some random service.
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Noah huntAce420
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Fidel Carson
Ok I owe everyone an apology. I was so skeptical about that Claimyr service that I almost didn't try it. But I was desperate after spending ANOTHER 90 minutes on hold with the IRS yesterday before getting disconnected again. Gave it a shot today and... I'm still in shock. They actually got me through to a real IRS person in about 15 minutes! The agent clarified my whole situation about claiming rental income vs just having someone contribute to expenses. Sometimes being proven wrong feels pretty damn good. Sorry for doubting!
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Isaiah Sanders
I think it also matters if your friend has their mail delivered to your address or uses it as their official address on government documents. That could strengthen the argument that they're a resident sharing expenses rather than you being their landlord. Might be worth checking if they've updated their ID or voter registration to your address? This helped me when I had a similar situation with a cousin staying with me.
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Ayla Kumar
•That's a good point I hadn't thought about! My friend does get some mail here and she did update her address with the DMV to my place. She's been here long enough that it definitely feels more like a roommate situation than a rental, even without the formal lease. Sounds like that would strengthen the case that we're just sharing living expenses rather than me being a landlord. I'm feeling a lot better about not having claimed her payments as income. Thanks for the additional perspective!
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Xan Dae
Honestly, the IRS has bigger fish to fry than someone splitting rent with a friend. As long as you're not making profit (charging more than your actual costs) or trying to claim rental loss deductions, they really don't care. I've had roommates for years who aren't on my lease and just Venmo me for their portion. Never reported it, never had an issue.
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Fiona Gallagher
•Be careful giving advice like this. While the IRS might not catch this particular situation, saying "they don't care" or "they have bigger fish to fry" isn't great tax advice. Tax laws apply regardless of how likely enforcement is, and encouraging people to ignore reporting requirements isn't helpful.
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Chloe Anderson
Just wanted to add some reassurance here - you're definitely not in trouble! The distinction between rental income and cost-sharing is pretty clear in tax law, and your situation sounds like textbook cost-sharing. Since she's living there as her primary residence and you're just splitting actual expenses (not making profit), this isn't considered rental income. The fact that she's paying $1100 toward your $2350+ total housing costs shows you're not profiting - you're actually still covering more than half yourself. This is exactly what the IRS expects to see in legitimate roommate arrangements. For future peace of mind, you might want to keep some basic records showing the split of expenses (like rent receipts and maybe a simple text/email trail of her payments), but you definitely don't need to file any landlord paperwork or claim this as income. You're just two people sharing living expenses, which is completely normal and not taxable.
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Sofia Ramirez
•This is such a relief to read! I've been in a similar situation with my roommate for the past year and was starting to worry I'd been doing something wrong. Your explanation about keeping records is really helpful - I've just been relying on Venmo transactions but maybe I should start keeping track of our actual rent receipts too. It's good to know that as long as we're both living here and just splitting real costs, the IRS treats it as expense sharing rather than me being a landlord. Thanks for the clear breakdown!
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Justin Trejo
I went through almost exactly the same situation last year! My friend stayed on my couch for about 6 months and contributed $900 toward my $2200 rent. I was so worried about the tax implications that I actually consulted with a tax professional, and they confirmed what others are saying here - this is definitely cost-sharing, not rental income. The key thing that put me at ease was learning that the IRS looks at whether you're making a profit and whether the person is living there as their primary residence. Since your friend is paying less than half your total housing costs and is using your couch as her main living situation, you're clearly just splitting expenses rather than running a rental business. I kept simple records (just screenshots of her Venmo payments and copies of my rent receipts) but never had to report anything as income. The fact that you're still covering the majority of the costs yourself makes it pretty clear this isn't a profit-making rental arrangement. You should be totally fine!
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CosmicCaptain
•This is so helpful to hear from someone who actually went through the same thing! I'm curious - when you consulted with the tax professional, did they mention anything about needing to document the arrangement in writing? Like, did they recommend having any kind of informal agreement about the cost-sharing, or were the payment records and rent receipts enough? I'm wondering if I should write up something simple with my friend just to have it on file, even though it sounds like our situation is pretty straightforward.
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Benjamin Kim
•The tax professional I spoke with said that while a written agreement isn't required for the IRS, it can be helpful documentation if you ever need to explain the arrangement. They suggested something really simple - just a basic note or text exchange that shows you're splitting actual living expenses rather than charging rent. Something like "Hey [friend's name], just to keep things clear - your $1100 monthly contribution goes toward our shared housing costs of $2350 rent plus utilities, so we're splitting expenses as roommates." Even a text like that can help establish the cost-sharing nature if anyone ever questions it. The payment records and rent receipts are definitely the most important documentation though. The written agreement is more of a "nice to have" than a requirement. Your situation sounds exactly like mine was - totally legitimate cost-sharing that doesn't need to be reported as income!
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