How to avoid owing taxes on dual income with side jobs
My husband and I file taxes as married filing jointly and we're constantly getting hit with a huge tax bill every year. Our combined income is pretty solid - I make around $235k and he brings in about $210k. His income includes his regular job plus a side gig ($40k) and a small consulting business ($45k). We tried using the W-4 tax withholding estimator since we're worried we're not having enough taken out of our paychecks. It's saying we need an additional $3500 withheld from EACH pay period! That's absolutely insane! After taxes, insurance and 401k contributions, my take-home is about $5100 and his is around $6300. We have two kids in daycare, and if we had that much extra withheld, we literally couldn't afford childcare. But owing $18k in taxes every April isn't sustainable either. We're both really frustrated because we thought higher salaries would make life easier, but it's just creating more financial stress. Any advice on how we can reduce our tax liability? We're desperate for solutions here!
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Megan D'Acosta
When you have multiple income sources like this, withholding calculations get tricky! The W-4 calculator is showing you need more withheld because your side income doesn't have automatic withholding like your main jobs. You have a few practical options to avoid that big tax bill without destroying your monthly cash flow: 1. Make quarterly estimated tax payments on the side income instead of increasing regular withholding. This spreads the pain throughout the year rather than hitting your regular paychecks. 2. Look into increasing retirement contributions - maxing out both 401ks would reduce your taxable income significantly. 3. Consider a dependent care FSA to pay for some childcare expenses with pre-tax dollars (up to $5,000). 4. Check if your consulting business qualifies for additional deductions or if forming an S-Corp might help reduce self-employment taxes. The key is balancing withholding with tax-reducing strategies rather than just withholding more!
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Sarah Ali
•This is super helpful! For the quarterly payments, how do you figure out how much to pay? Is there some form or calculator for that? And if we started doing that now, would it help for this year's taxes or just next year?
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Megan D'Acosta
•For quarterly payments, you can use Form 1040-ES which has a worksheet to calculate your estimated payments. Take last year's income from the side gigs, calculate roughly 25-30% of that (depending on your tax bracket), and divide by 4 for each quarterly payment. If you start now, it absolutely helps for this tax year - the IRS wants to see you paying as you earn income. For the S-Corp question, consult with a tax professional, but generally once your business income exceeds $40,000-50,000, it's worth looking into because you can pay yourself a reasonable salary and take the rest as distributions which aren't subject to self-employment taxes.
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Ryan Vasquez
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Avery Saint
•How exactly does it work? Do you just upload your tax docs and it tells you what to do? I'm worried about privacy with these kinds of services.
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Taylor Chen
•I've tried other tax tools before and they were useless for our situation with multiple incomes. Does this actually work for people with side gigs or does it just give generic advice?
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Ryan Vasquez
•You just upload last year's returns and any pay stubs/1099s, and it builds a personalized tax strategy. They use bank-level encryption and don't store your actual documents after analysis, so privacy is solid. It's specifically designed for complex situations like multiple income streams. For our side business, it identified specific deductions like home office, vehicle expenses, and business equipment that applied to our exact situation - not just generic advice. It even calculated how restructuring some income as an S-Corp would impact our overall tax burden.
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Taylor Chen
Just wanted to follow up - I finally tried taxr.ai after my skeptical comment and wow, I'm actually impressed. I've been doing our taxes for years but missed so many deductions on my husband's consulting income! It found nearly $9k in legitimate deductions we hadn't been taking and gave us a quarter-by-quarter tax plan that keeps us from owing at tax time without killing our monthly cash flow. Wish I'd known about this sooner instead of stressing every April!
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Keith Davidson
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Samantha Howard
•Wait, someone actually answers at the IRS? I thought that was just a myth lol. How much does this service cost? My time is worth something but not if it's crazy expensive.
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Ezra Bates
•Yeah right. There's no way anyone is getting through to the IRS that fast. I spent 3 hours on hold last month and got disconnected. This sounds like a scam to me.
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Keith Davidson
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Ezra Bates
Coming back to say I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After my skeptical comment, I decided to try it because I was desperate to figure out our withholding situation. Got connected to an IRS agent in about 20 minutes (while I was grocery shopping, not sitting on hold). The agent actually gave me specific guidance for our situation with side income and consulting fees! They explained exactly how to calculate quarterly payments so we don't have to adjust our regular paycheck withholding. Honestly shocked this actually works.
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Ana Erdoğan
Don't forget to look at the business structure for the consulting income. We were in a similar boat and switching to an S-Corp saved us about $7k in self-employment taxes. You'll need to pay yourself a reasonable salary but the rest can be taken as distributions which aren't subject to SE tax. You'll have a bit more paperwork but the tax savings are usually worth it once you're making over $40k from the business.
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Samantha Howard
•We've actually been thinking about this! When you switched to an S-Corp, did you have to hire an accountant or could you handle it yourself? And do you still do quarterly estimated payments?
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Ana Erdoğan
•We hired an accountant for the initial setup and first year's taxes - it was definitely worth the money. After that, I handle most of it myself using QuickBooks and meet with the accountant just once a year. You still need to make quarterly estimated tax payments, but they're much more predictable. You'll pay yourself a salary with regular payroll taxes withheld (which satisfies the IRS requirement), and then you can take distributions throughout the year for the rest. The big advantage is those distributions aren't subject to the 15.3% self-employment tax, just regular income tax.
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Sophia Carson
Has anyone tried adjusting their W-4 to increase withholding on just one person's paycheck instead of both? My wife and I found it easier to have extra withholding from just the higher income so we could better track it, rather than messing with both paychecks.
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Elijah Knight
•Yeah, we do this! We have the extra withholding come out of my husband's check since it's bigger, and mine stays the same. Makes it easier to budget since only one paycheck changes. Just make sure the total additional withholding covers what you need across both incomes.
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Yara Khoury
One strategy that's worked really well for us is maxing out HSA contributions if you have access to a high-deductible health plan. It's triple tax-advantaged (deductible going in, grows tax-free, tax-free withdrawals for medical expenses) and can really help reduce your taxable income. With two kids, you probably have plenty of medical expenses to justify it. Also, don't overlook the Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit - it phases out at higher incomes but you might still qualify for some benefit. And if your employer offers dependent care FSA, you can set aside up to $5,000 pre-tax for childcare expenses. For the side income withholding issue, consider setting up a separate business checking account and automatically transferring 25-30% of each payment into a "tax savings" account. Then make quarterly estimated payments from there. It helps psychologically because you never see that money as "yours" to spend.
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