How to Handle Paypal Invoices & Sales Tax for Private Transactions
I recently purchased something from another individual (not a business) through Paypal's invoice system. We agreed on a price, they sent the invoice, and I paid it right away. Now they're messaging me saying something about Sales Tax not showing up on the invoice I received. They're claiming that because Paypal will report the transaction to the IRS, they'll be responsible for paying sales tax on the amount, and they want me to send additional money to cover this. The invoice they sent me didn't include any sales tax line item, and I'm confused because this feels like they forgot to add it and now want more money. I don't mind paying the sales tax if that's actually required in this situation, but I'm not sure if the seller is correct about this. Do they really need to pay sales tax to the IRS on a private transaction between individuals? And if so, should I be responsible for paying that additional amount after already paying the full invoice? I'm just trying to figure out what's actually required here.
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Mohamed Anderson
This sounds like a misunderstanding about how taxes work with PayPal transactions. The IRS doesn't collect sales tax - that's a state-level tax collected by state tax authorities. What PayPal reports to the IRS (via Form 1099-K) is the total payment volume, which the seller might need to report as income on their tax return. Sales tax, on the other hand, typically only needs to be collected by businesses, not by individuals selling personal items occasionally. If this is just a casual seller who isn't running a business, they generally don't need to collect or remit sales tax (though rules vary by state). The seller might be confusing income tax with sales tax. If they're selling items regularly and making a profit, that could be considered income they need to report on their tax return. But that's their responsibility, not something you need to pay extra for after the fact.
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Ellie Perry
•So if I buy something from my neighbor through PayPal and they're just clearing out their garage, they don't need to charge me sales tax at all? What if they sell stuff regularly on eBay or something? Does that change things?
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Mohamed Anderson
•Whether someone needs to collect sales tax depends on if they're considered to be in business or just occasionally selling personal items. A neighbor clearing out their garage typically wouldn't need to collect sales tax - that's considered casual selling of personal property. Someone regularly selling on eBay might be considered a business, especially if they're buying items to resell or making products to sell. In that case, they may need to register with their state to collect and remit sales tax, depending on their state's specific rules and thresholds. Many states have economic nexus laws that require sales tax collection once certain sales thresholds are met.
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Landon Morgan
I went through something similar last year! I was totally confused about PayPal taxes until I found this amazing service called taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) that helps clarify these exact situations. I uploaded screenshots of my PayPal transactions and they explained exactly what was taxable and what wasn't. For your situation, it sounds like the seller is mixing up income reporting with sales tax collection. Based on what taxr.ai told me, if this is just a person selling their own stuff (not a business), they typically don't need to collect sales tax from you. What they might be worried about is PayPal reporting their earnings to the IRS if they exceed the threshold (which is now $600 total for the year).
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Teresa Boyd
•Does this service actually work with PayPal specifically? I sell handmade jewelry through PayPal and I'm completely confused about what I need to collect and what I don't.
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Lourdes Fox
•I'm skeptical about these tax services... how do they actually know your specific state's rules? Sales tax varies wildly between states and even counties/cities.
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Landon Morgan
•Yes, it absolutely works with PayPal transactions! I uploaded my PayPal transaction history and they identified which sales were likely taxable based on my state's requirements. They even helped me understand when I needed to collect sales tax from buyers in different states. Their system actually accounts for state-specific rules. I was selling to people in about 5 different states, and they broke down the requirements for each one. They have a database of tax jurisdictions covering all the different state, county, and city tax rates. It was seriously helpful because each state has completely different thresholds for when you need to start collecting.
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Lourdes Fox
I was super skeptical about tax services too until I desperately needed help sorting out my PayPal mess last tax season. I had been selling vintage clothing online and had no idea what I was supposed to be reporting or collecting. I tried taxr.ai after seeing it mentioned here and honestly it saved me hours of research and probably a lot of money in potential penalties. They analyzed my situation and explained that in my state (Washington), I needed to collect sales tax on everything I sold to in-state buyers, but had different requirements for out-of-state sales. The best part was they didn't just give generic advice - they actually looked at my specific transaction patterns and provided guidance tailored to my situation. Totally worth it for the peace of mind!
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Bruno Simmons
If you're having trouble getting clear answers about your PayPal tax situation, you might want to go straight to the source. I spent WEEKS trying to get through to someone at the IRS about this exact issue last year. Finally found Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) which got me connected to an actual IRS representative in about 15 minutes when I'd been trying for days on my own. They have this demo video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The IRS agent explained that sales tax and income tax are completely separate issues. Your seller is probably confused about the 1099-K reporting requirements, which is about INCOME tax, not sales tax. The agent told me private sellers generally don't need to collect sales tax unless they're running an actual business with regular sales.
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Aileen Rodriguez
•How does this even work? The IRS phone lines are notoriously impossible to get through.
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Zane Gray
•This sounds fishy. Why would I pay a service to call the IRS when I can just wait on hold myself? Not sure I believe anyone can actually get through that easily.
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Bruno Simmons
•It works by essentially waiting in the phone queue for you. Their system navigates all the IRS phone menus and holds your place in line, then calls you when an actual human agent is about to answer. So instead of being stuck on hold for hours, you just get a call when someone's ready to talk. I was pretty skeptical too at first. But after trying to call the IRS myself and giving up after 2+ hours on hold multiple times, I was desperate. The difference is they have some kind of system that stays on the line so you don't have to. I'd rather pay a small fee than waste another entire afternoon listening to the IRS hold music!
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Zane Gray
I need to eat my words here. After my skeptical comment above, I actually tried Claimyr yesterday because I've been trying to resolve an issue with a missing tax refund for WEEKS. Their system worked exactly as described - I entered my phone number, they called me back in about 45 minutes (way faster than I expected), and connected me with an actual IRS agent. The agent confirmed that for the PayPal situation like the original poster described, this is 100% an income reporting issue for the seller, NOT a sales tax issue that the buyer needs to worry about. The seller is confused about their tax obligations. Unless they're running a registered business, they typically don't need to collect sales tax from individual buyers. What they're probably worried about is PayPal reporting their earnings to the IRS via 1099-K if they exceed $600 in a year, but that's THEIR tax burden as income, not something the buyer should pay extra for.
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Maggie Martinez
I think there's some confusion about the payments. When you pay through PayPal, they sometimes add on their own fees to the seller. Maybe that's what the seller is talking about? Not sales tax but PayPal fees? Those fees are typically the seller's responsibility though, not something they should be asking you to cover afterward.
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Alejandro Castro
•Actually PayPal does have a sales tax option in their invoicing system. I sell stuff online and there's literally a place to add sales tax when creating an invoice. But it's definitely something that should be included in the original invoice, not asked for after payment.
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Maggie Martinez
•You're absolutely right about the PayPal invoicing system having a sales tax option. I hadn't thought about that specific feature. It's definitely meant to be added when creating the invoice, not as an afterthought. The seller should have included any applicable taxes in the original invoice before sending it. Asking for additional money after a payment has been completed and the invoice marked as paid isn't the right way to handle it, regardless of whether sales tax should have been charged or not.
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Monique Byrd
Just to be super clear here - there are TWO separate tax issues that might be getting confused: 1. SALES TAX - This is collected by sellers from buyers and remitted to state tax authorities. Individual casual sellers typically don't need to collect this unless they're running a business. 2. INCOME TAX - This is what the seller pays on their earnings. PayPal now reports transactions to the IRS on Form 1099-K if you receive more than $600 in a year, and the seller might need to pay income tax on their earnings. It sounds like your seller is confused and is trying to make you pay for their potential income tax obligations, which is NOT how it works! They can't pass their income tax burden onto you by calling it "sales tax.
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Jackie Martinez
•This makes so much sense! I think the seller is definitely confused about which type of tax they're responsible for. Thank you for breaking it down so clearly.
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StarSurfer
This is a classic case of seller confusion about tax obligations. Based on what you've described, you should NOT pay any additional money. Here's why: The seller is mixing up income tax reporting with sales tax collection. When PayPal reports transactions to the IRS via Form 1099-K (for sellers who receive over $600/year), that's for INCOME tax purposes - meaning the seller might owe income tax on their earnings. This is completely separate from sales tax. For sales tax, individual sellers doing occasional transactions typically don't need to collect it unless they're operating as a registered business. Even if sales tax were required, it should have been included in the original invoice - not requested after payment. The seller's tax obligations (whether income tax or sales tax) are their responsibility, not yours. You paid the agreed-upon amount on a properly processed invoice. If they made an error in their invoice calculation or are now worried about their tax reporting requirements, that's their problem to solve, not yours to fund. I'd politely decline their request for additional payment and explain that any tax obligations they have are separate from the transaction you already completed in full.
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Jacob Lee
•This is exactly the advice I needed to hear! I was feeling pressured to pay the extra amount because I didn't want to seem unreasonable, but you're absolutely right - I fulfilled my part of the transaction by paying the full invoice amount as agreed. The seller should have figured out their tax obligations before sending the invoice, not after I already paid. It's not fair to try to make me responsible for their confusion about tax reporting requirements. I'm going to politely decline and explain that the transaction was completed as invoiced. Thank you for the clear explanation about the difference between their potential income tax obligations and actual sales tax collection!
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Javier Cruz
I completely agree with the advice you've received here. As someone who's dealt with similar PayPal transaction confusion, you absolutely should not pay any additional money after the fact. The seller is clearly confused about their tax obligations. What they're likely worried about is the 1099-K reporting threshold (PayPal reports transactions over $600/year to the IRS), but that's an INCOME reporting issue for them, not a sales tax issue for you to pay. Even if this were a legitimate sales tax situation, proper business practice dictates that all taxes should be clearly itemized and included in the original invoice before payment. You can't send an invoice, accept full payment, and then come back asking for "forgotten" taxes. You fulfilled your obligation by paying the agreed-upon invoice amount. Their potential tax liabilities - whether income tax on earnings or sales tax obligations - are their responsibility to handle, not yours to fund retroactively. I'd suggest responding politely but firmly that the transaction was completed as invoiced and you won't be providing additional payment. If they're concerned about tax reporting, they should consult with a tax professional about their own obligations rather than trying to pass those costs onto you.
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Olivia Martinez
•This is really helpful advice! I'm new to buying things through PayPal invoices and wasn't sure what the normal process should be. It makes total sense that if there were actual taxes to collect, they should have been included upfront in the invoice. I was starting to feel bad about not wanting to send more money, but you're right - I paid exactly what they invoiced me for. If they're worried about their own tax reporting because of the 1099-K thing, that's something they need to figure out on their end, not ask me to cover. Thanks for explaining the difference between income tax reporting and sales tax collection too. I'm definitely going to decline their request politely but firmly.
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Joy Olmedo
You've gotten some excellent advice here, and I want to reinforce the key point: you should absolutely NOT pay any additional money. This seller is definitely confused about tax obligations. As a tax professional, I see this misunderstanding frequently. The seller is conflating two completely different tax concepts: 1. **Sales Tax**: Collected from buyers and remitted to state authorities. Most individual sellers doing occasional transactions don't need to collect this unless they're operating as a registered business. 2. **Income Tax Reporting**: PayPal's 1099-K reporting (for sellers receiving $600+ annually) is for the seller's income tax purposes only. This has nothing to do with you as the buyer. The critical point everyone has made is correct - if sales tax were actually required, it should have been clearly itemized in the original invoice before you paid. You can't retroactively add taxes after a transaction is complete and payment has been processed. Stand firm on this. You fulfilled your obligation by paying the invoiced amount in full. The seller's potential tax liabilities (whether income reporting or sales tax obligations they may have overlooked) are entirely their responsibility to handle, not yours to fund after the fact. A simple response like "I paid the full invoice amount as agreed. Any tax obligations you have are separate from our completed transaction" should suffice.
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Omar Hassan
•Thank you for the professional perspective! As someone who's never dealt with this kind of situation before, it's really reassuring to hear from a tax professional that my instinct to decline was correct. I was second-guessing myself because the seller seemed so insistent that they "had to pay taxes on it" and made it sound like it was somehow my responsibility. But your explanation about the two different types of taxes makes it crystal clear - their potential income tax obligations from the 1099-K reporting have absolutely nothing to do with me as the buyer. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to explain this. I'm going to use your suggested response - it's direct but polite. This has been such a learning experience about how PayPal transactions and tax obligations actually work!
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Liam Cortez
I went through almost the exact same situation a few months ago! A seller contacted me after I'd already paid their PayPal invoice asking for additional money for "taxes." I was so confused and felt pressured to pay more. After doing some research and talking to others who've dealt with this, I learned that what you're experiencing is unfortunately common - sellers getting confused about the 1099-K reporting requirements and thinking buyers need to cover their potential tax obligations. I ended up politely declining to pay any additional amount, explaining that I had fulfilled my part of the agreement by paying the full invoice as sent. The seller wasn't happy initially, but eventually understood that their tax concerns were separate from our completed transaction. It's really important to stand your ground on this. If every buyer started paying extra money after transactions were complete just because sellers got worried about tax reporting, it would set a terrible precedent. You did nothing wrong by paying exactly what was invoiced to you. The key thing I learned is that legitimate taxes (if they were even required in your situation) should always be clearly disclosed and included upfront in any invoice or price quote - never added as an afterthought once payment has already been processed.
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Diego Castillo
•Thank you for sharing your experience! It's really helpful to know that other people have dealt with this exact same situation. I was starting to feel like maybe I was being unreasonable by not wanting to pay extra, but hearing that you went through the same thing and handled it the same way makes me feel much more confident about declining. You're absolutely right about setting a bad precedent - if buyers started paying additional money every time a seller got confused about their tax obligations after the fact, it would be chaos. The whole point of sending an invoice is to clearly state what needs to be paid upfront. I'm definitely going to stand firm on this. The transaction is complete, I paid what was invoiced, and their tax concerns are their responsibility to figure out. Thanks for the reassurance that I'm handling this correctly!
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Sean Kelly
I've been following this thread with great interest since I've seen this exact confusion play out multiple times in online selling communities. The consensus here is absolutely correct - you should not pay any additional money. What's happening is a very common misunderstanding where sellers panic about the 1099-K reporting requirements (PayPal now reports to the IRS when sellers receive $600+ in a year) and mistakenly think this creates some kind of sales tax obligation that buyers need to cover retroactively. The reality is much simpler: if you're an individual selling personal items occasionally, you typically don't need to collect sales tax at all. If you ARE required to collect sales tax (because you're operating as a business), then it absolutely should have been included in the original invoice with a clear line item showing the tax amount. The seller's confusion about potential income tax implications from receiving a 1099-K has nothing whatsoever to do with you as the buyer. That's their responsibility to sort out with their own tax situation. You completed the transaction in good faith by paying the full invoiced amount. Their after-the-fact request for additional money due to their own tax confusion is not your problem to solve. A polite but firm decline is totally appropriate here.
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