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How many allowances should I claim on my W4 form with 3 kids and non-working spouse?

I'm pretty confused about filling out my W4 and could use some guidance. I've tried using the tax estimator calculator but don't have all my exact information handy. My situation: I'm married with 3 children, my wife doesn't work, and we pay around $1350 monthly for our mortgage. I think I want to claim 4 allowances since I don't mind owing a small amount at tax time. From what I understand, the updated W4 automatically gives you 2 allowances when you fill it out normally. So does that mean to get to 4 allowances, I should just put $8600 in section 4b? But then I read something else saying that for someone married with 3 kids, filling out the form normally would automatically give me 3 allowances? In that case, would I only need to put $4300 in section 4b to reach 4 allowances? Really confused about this whole allowance thing and would appreciate any help figuring this out!

The new W4 form doesn't actually use "allowances" anymore - that system was replaced in 2020 with a different approach. The current W4 has you claim tax credits and deductions directly rather than converting them to allowances. For your situation (married, 3 kids, non-working spouse), here's what you should do: First, check "Married filing jointly" in Step 1. Then in Step 2, you can skip this since you only have one job. For Step 3, you'll claim your children by multiplying $2000 by 3 kids, so enter $6000 there. Step 4 is where you can make adjustments - if you want to have less tax withheld (similar to claiming more "allowances" in the old system), you would put an amount in 4b for deductions. Your mortgage interest might be deductible if you itemize, but you'd need to estimate your total itemized deductions versus the standard deduction to know if that's beneficial.

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Romeo Barrett

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So if there are no more allowances, how do I make sure I'm not getting too much withheld? With the old system it was easy to understand that more allowances = less withholding. Is there some formula to figure out the equivalent on the new form?

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The new system is actually more straightforward once you get used to it. Instead of the abstract "allowances" concept, you directly enter dollar amounts. To reduce withholding (equivalent to more allowances), you can add deductions in Step 4b. A rough estimate is that each $4,300 in deductions is similar to an additional "allowance" in the old system. So if you want the equivalent of 4 allowances, and the standard parts of the form already give you the equivalent of 3 (your filing status plus child credits), you could add about $4,300 in Step 4b. But remember, this is just a very rough conversion - the new system is designed to be more accurate when you enter your actual expected deductions.

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I tried that estimator and it kept giving me weird results. It told me to put like $500 in extra withholding every paycheck which seemed way too high. Did anyone else have problems with it?

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Remember that your W4 settings can be changed throughout the year if needed! I usually start conservative (withhold a bit more) at the beginning of the year, then around September I'll check where I stand and adjust if I'm over-withholding.

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Do you actually have to submit a new W4 form every time you want to make changes? Seems like a hassle to keep bothering HR.

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Just to add some perspective from someone who's been through this transition - the new W4 system is actually much better once you understand it, even though it seems confusing at first. For your specific situation (married, 3 kids, non-working spouse), here's a simple approach: Fill out Steps 1-3 normally (married filing jointly, claim your 3 children for $6,000 in Step 3). Then for Step 4, if you want less withholding, you can estimate your itemized deductions. With a $1,350 mortgage payment, you're probably paying around $16,000+ annually in mortgage interest, which along with state/local taxes might put you above the standard deduction ($27,700 for married filing jointly in 2024). If you're comfortable owing a small amount, you could put something like $5,000-8,000 in Step 4b as an estimate of deductions above the standard deduction. This would reduce your withholding similar to claiming additional allowances in the old system. Start conservatively and adjust later in the year if needed!

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This is really helpful! I like the approach of starting conservatively and adjusting later. One question though - how do I know if my mortgage interest plus other deductions will actually exceed the standard deduction? Is there an easy way to estimate this without doing a full tax calculation? I don't want to put too much in 4b and end up owing a lot more than I'm comfortable with.

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Lucas Adams

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Great question! Here's a quick way to estimate if you'll exceed the standard deduction: Your mortgage interest is probably around $12,000-15,000 annually based on your payment amount. Add your state and local taxes (property taxes plus state income tax, capped at $10,000 total). If you have significant charitable donations, add those too. For most people with a $1,350 mortgage payment, you're looking at roughly $20,000-25,000 in potential itemized deductions. Since the standard deduction for married filing jointly is $27,700 in 2024, you might not actually benefit from itemizing unless you have substantial charitable giving or other deductions. My suggestion: Start by just filling out Steps 1-3 normally without adding anything to Step 4b. See how your first few paychecks look, then use the IRS withholding calculator mid-year to fine-tune. This way you avoid the risk of under-withholding while you figure out your actual deduction situation.

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As someone who recently went through this same confusion, I can share what finally clicked for me. The key insight is that the new W4 is designed to be more precise than the old allowance system, but it requires you to think differently. For your situation, here's what I'd recommend: Start with the basics - married filing jointly in Step 1, skip Step 2 since you're the only worker, and definitely claim your $6,000 for three kids in Step 3. That's already going to significantly reduce your withholding compared to someone without children. For Step 4, here's the thing about your mortgage - with a $1,350 monthly payment, you're likely paying around $12,000-14,000 in interest annually. However, with the current standard deduction being $27,700 for married filing jointly, you'd need over $27,700 in total itemized deductions to benefit from itemizing. Unless you have high state taxes, significant charitable donations, or other major deductions, you'll probably take the standard deduction anyway. My advice? Start by filling out just Steps 1-3 and see how your paychecks look. The child tax credits alone will reduce your withholding substantially. You can always adjust later if you're getting too big of a refund. This approach has worked well for me and eliminates the guesswork about deductions you may not even use.

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Ethan Taylor

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This is exactly the kind of step-by-step guidance I was hoping to find! I really appreciate you breaking down the mortgage interest calculation - I had no idea that with the higher standard deduction, I might not even benefit from itemizing despite having a mortgage. Your approach of starting with just Steps 1-3 makes so much sense. I was getting overwhelmed trying to figure out all the deductions upfront when the child tax credits alone will probably get me close to where I want to be. I think I'll follow your advice and fill out the basic form first, then check my paychecks after a month or two to see if I need to make adjustments. One follow-up question - when you say "see how your paychecks look," what should I be comparing them to? Should I be looking at how much federal tax is being withheld compared to my previous W4, or is there a better way to gauge if I'm on track?

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