How do regular people get 25k tax return checks? Do you need a crazy high income for that kind of refund?
So my cousin just mentioned she got a $25,000 tax return check this year and I'm honestly floored. I had no idea that was even possible for normal people! She doesn't seem super wealthy or anything, works as a nurse and has 2 kids. I'm lucky if I get like $2,300 back each year. Is this something that only happens if you make tons of money? Like do you have to be earning six figures to get a refund that big? Or is it more about how much you overpay throughout the year? I'm so confused because I always thought big refunds meant you were just giving the government an interest-free loan all year. What kind of tax situations would lead to someone getting a $25k tax return check? I'm genuinely curious if this is something that could happen to regular folks or if my cousin is leaving out some important details.
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Keisha Taylor
Large tax refunds like $25k don't necessarily mean someone has a huge income. In fact, it's often more about specific tax credits and life circumstances rather than income level. The most common reasons for large refunds include: - Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) for lower to moderate-income workers, especially with children - Child Tax Credit, which can be worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child - American Opportunity or Lifetime Learning credits for education expenses - Significant tax withholding throughout the year (essentially overpaying) - Self-employment situations where quarterly estimated payments were too high Your cousin being a nurse with two kids might qualify for several of these credits. Additionally, if she purchased a home last year, made energy-efficient improvements, or had substantial medical expenses, these deductions could increase her refund. Remember though, a large refund essentially means you've been giving the government an interest-free loan. Some financial advisors recommend adjusting your withholding to get smaller refunds but larger paychecks throughout the year.
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StardustSeeker
•This is really helpful info. But I'm still confused about how these credits could add up to $25k? Like the child tax credit is $2k per kid, so that's only $4k for two kids. Where would the other $21k come from? Is it possible she had some kind of unusual situation like selling a house or something?
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Keisha Taylor
•You're right that standard tax credits alone typically wouldn't reach $25k. The child tax credits would contribute $4k as you noted. If she qualifies for the EITC with two children, that could add another $6,164 maximum in 2025. There are definitely other factors likely at play. She may have significantly overpaid through withholding throughout the year. Perhaps she had qualified business income deductions if she does independent nursing work. Medical professionals sometimes have complex tax situations with educational credits, loan repayment programs, or relocation expenses. Some healthcare workers also received special pandemic-related credits in recent years that might still be affecting amended returns.
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Paolo Marino
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Amina Bah
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Paolo Marino
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Amina Bah
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Natasha Petrova
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Javier Hernandez
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Oliver Becker
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Natasha Petrova
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Oliver Becker
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Emma Davis
Just to add something no one's mentioned yet - sometimes massive tax refunds happen because of amended returns for multiple years. My colleague discovered he qualified for the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion for the 3 years he worked overseas, which he hadn't claimed originally. He filed amended returns for all three years and got a combined refund of about $32k. So your cousin might have had some kind of multi-year correction situation rather than just a single year huge refund. It's worth asking her if she filed any amendments or had refunds from previous years finally process.
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Yara Khoury
•Whoa I hadn't even considered that possibility! That makes a lot more sense honestly. She did mention something about "finally getting everything sorted out" which I didn't think much about at the time. I'm going to ask her if this was multiple years' worth of refunds. Thanks for this perspective!
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Emma Davis
•Happy to help! That "finally getting everything sorted out" comment definitely suggests there was some ongoing issue that got resolved. There are lots of situations where the IRS holds refunds - identity verification issues, mismatched information, audits, or even simple processing delays that have gotten worse since the pandemic. If she does confirm it was multiple years combined, you might want to check your own past returns to make sure you didn't miss anything. The IRS only lets you amend returns for the past three years, so it's worth reviewing them periodically.
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LunarLegend
From my experience as a small business owner, there are situations where you might get an unusually large refund. Last year, I estimated my quarterly tax payments based on the previous year's income, but then had a significant business loss in Q4. I had already paid in about $22k in estimated taxes throughout the year but ended up owing much less due to the business loss, resulting in a large refund. Another possibility: if your cousin bought a house last year, there are substantial first-time homebuyer credits in some states that can be combined with federal credits, especially for energy-efficient improvements. These can add up quickly.
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Malik Jackson
•What tax software would you recommend for someone with a small business and rental properties? I've been using TurboTax but feel like I'm missing a lot of potential deductions, especially for my rentals.
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Angelina Farar
•For small business and rental properties, I'd recommend FreeTaxUSA or TaxAct over TurboTax - they're much better at handling Schedule E rental income/losses and business deductions without forcing you into expensive upgrade tiers. Make sure you're tracking ALL rental expenses: repairs, maintenance, property management fees, insurance, property taxes, depreciation, travel to the property, and even office supplies for rental management. The depreciation deduction alone can be substantial - you can depreciate the structure (not land) over 27.5 years. For business deductions, don't forget home office expenses if you work from home, vehicle mileage, business meals (50% deductible), professional development, and equipment purchases. The Section 179 deduction lets you write off up to $1.16M in equipment purchases in the year you buy them instead of depreciating over time.
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