Help! Can my mom still claim me as a dependent after I filed taxes with my first W2?
So I just turned 19 in December and started my first job a few months ago! Super excited to be adulting and all that jazz. I got my W2 and was like "cool, I'm gonna file my taxes like a real grown-up!" But now I'm freaking out because I didn't know this might mess up my mom claiming me as a dependent on her taxes. We really need that tax break since I'm still living at home and she pays for pretty much everything - my food, housing, bills, you name it. I only made about $6,700 last year, and my refund is only going to be like $112, which isn't life-changing money for me. I feel terrible thinking I might have screwed up her tax situation when I'm still totally dependent on her. Can I still be claimed as her dependent even though I filed my own taxes? Is there a way to fix this if I messed up? Any help would be sooo appreciated!
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Zainab Ibrahim
You're fine! Your mom can still claim you as her dependent even if you file your own tax return. These are two separate issues. Here's what matters for dependency status: For a parent to claim their child as a dependent, you need to meet these tests: 1) You must be under 19 at the end of the tax year (or under 24 if a full-time student), 2) You must have lived with your parent for more than half the year, 3) You must not have provided more than half of your own support, and 4) You generally can't file a joint return with a spouse. The fact that you made less than $6,700 doesn't disqualify you from being claimed as a dependent. When you file your own return, there should actually be a question asking if someone else can claim you as a dependent - you should check "Yes" for that question.
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Miguel Ramos
•Thank you so much for explaining! So just to make sure I understand correctly - I can file my own taxes AND still be claimed as her dependent since I'm under 19 and she provides more than half my support? I was so worried I messed everything up. Do I need to do anything special when I file my taxes to make sure this works correctly?
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Zainab Ibrahim
•Yes, that's exactly right! You can absolutely file your own tax return to get your refund AND your mom can still claim you as her dependent. The key is that you meet all those tests I mentioned. When you file your return, just make sure you check the box that says someone else can claim you as a dependent. This is usually one of the first questions in tax software. If you've already filed but didn't check this box, you might need to file an amended return (Form 1040-X) to correct it, but talk to your mom first to see if there's any issue with her return.
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StarSailor
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Connor O'Brien
•Does it actually check both returns to make sure they're consistent? My daughter just started working and I'm worried about us submitting conflicting information.
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StarSailor
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Yara Sabbagh
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Keisha Johnson
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Paolo Rizzo
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Connor O'Brien
•This sounds like a scam tbh. No way some random service can magically get you through to the IRS when millions of people can't get through. Plus why would you need to talk to the IRS just to fix a dependent situation? Couldn't you just file an amended return?
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Keisha Johnson
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QuantumQuest
Don't forget about the other dependency tests! If OP's mom didn't provide more than half of their support for the year, she might not be able to claim them regardless of age and income. Support includes housing, food, education, medical expenses, clothing, etc. Since you made under $7000, it's almost certain your mom provided more than half your support, but it's something to be aware of if your situation changes. I've seen so many families mess this up.
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Miguel Ramos
•This is super helpful, thank you! My mom definitely provides way more than half my support. She pays the mortgage, all groceries, my cell phone, and even my car insurance. The money I made mostly went to save for college and some fun stuff.
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QuantumQuest
•That's perfect then - you absolutely qualify as her dependent. Just make sure when you file your return that you check the box saying someone else can claim you as a dependent. She'll get a much bigger tax benefit from claiming you than you would from claiming yourself.
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Amina Sy
Is nobody gonna mention that if you claim yourself as independent when your mom could legally claim you, you're both potentially getting audited? Don't mess around with dependency status - the IRS has automated systems that flag returns when two people try to claim the same person.
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Oliver Fischer
•This is important! My brother and I both claimed our mom one year (miscommunication) and we both got letters from the IRS within weeks. They flagged it immediately and it was a huge hassle to fix.
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