Filing MFS with Dependent Care FSA - Tax Implications and Questions

You've got some good questions about the Dependent Care FSA while filing MFS! Here's what you need to know: 1. There can definitely be complications when the person with the Dependent Care FSA isn't claiming the child as a dependent. The IRS typically expects the person claiming the FSA benefits to also claim the dependent. While not strictly prohibited, it can raise red flags and potentially trigger questions. 2. With MFS, each spouse is limited to $2,500 for Dependent Care FSA (instead of the $5,000 for joint filers). So your understanding is correct - if you contributed the full $5,000, you would potentially be taxed on the excess $2,500. This would be reported as taxable income on your W-2. 3. Going forward, yes, technically each of you could contribute $2,500 to separate Dependent Care FSAs. However, the IRS has a rule that the total benefits claimed can't exceed the actual expenses incurred. Also, the person claiming the child as a dependent (your husband in this case) generally should be the one using the Dependent Care FSA. I'd strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional who can review your specific situation before finalizing your decision. The PSLF benefits are significant, but you want to make sure you're handling the dependent and FSA situation optimally.

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Another option to consider is splitting the FSA contributions next year. My spouse and I are also MFS due to student loans, and we each contribute $2,500 to separate Dependent Care FSAs (the max for MFS filing status). Our daughter attends a daycare that costs more than $5k annually, so we still use the full amount. One thing to watch out for - make sure you're not double-dipping by claiming the same expenses for both FSAs. We keep careful records showing which parent paid for which weeks of childcare to avoid this issue. For this current year, you might just have to take the tax hit on the extra $2,500 you contributed above your MFS limit. It's frustrating but sometimes the student loan savings outweigh this one-time tax cost.

Something nobody's mentioned yet - there's a specific form you need for the Dependent Care FSA when filing MFS: Form 2441. Make sure you fill this out correctly to show how the expenses were allocated if you're splitting them. The software I used last year (TurboTax) actually had trouble handling this specific scenario and I had to manually override some fields. Also, don't forget that with MFS, if one spouse itemizes deductions, the other MUST also itemize even if taking the standard deduction would be better. This can sometimes offset any student loan payment savings, so run the numbers carefully.

I went through this exact situation last year and learned some hard lessons! Here's what I wish I'd known: The biggest issue isn't just the tax implications - it's the timing. Since you've already contributed $5,000 to your FSA, you're locked into that for this tax year. Your employer will indeed report the excess $2,500 as taxable income on your W-2, so budget for that extra tax hit. For the dependent claim vs FSA holder mismatch - while it's not technically illegal, it creates a paper trail that could trigger IRS questions. The safest approach is usually to have the person with the FSA claim the dependent, but I understand that conflicts with optimizing your husband's student loan payments. One thing that helped me was documenting EVERYTHING. I kept detailed records showing: - All daycare payments with dates and amounts - Which parent made each payment - FSA reimbursement requests with supporting receipts - A simple spreadsheet tracking it all Going forward, definitely consider the split FSA approach others mentioned ($2,500 each), but make sure your daycare expenses actually support both accounts. And yes, Form 2441 can be tricky with MFS - I ended up working with a tax preparer who specialized in these situations. The student loan savings might still be worth the tax complexity, but get professional help to make sure you're doing it right!