Federal Audit - What to do about incorrectly claimed medical expenses?
I just found out I'm being audited by the IRS and I'm freaking out. The main issue is that for the past few years, I had a tax preparer who apparently claimed ALL of my medical expenses on my tax returns - including the portions that my insurance company paid - not just the out-of-pocket expenses I actually paid myself. When I questioned her about this, she insisted it was completely legal to do it this way. But now that I'm looking at the actual tax form instructions, it clearly states you can only deduct the medical expenses YOU paid, not what insurance covered. I'm seriously worried about how bad this is going to be. My financial situation is already tough - I've been unemployed for about 5 months now and there's no way I can afford to hire a tax attorney to help sort this mess out. The timing couldn't be worse. Anyone been through something similar or have advice on what my next steps should be? Am I looking at huge penalties here? Is there any way to fix this without it costing a fortune? Thanks for any help - really stressed about this.
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Darcy Moore
Take a deep breath first. While this is definitely a concerning situation, it's not the end of the world. Your tax preparer was incorrect - you can only deduct medical expenses that you personally paid out-of-pocket, not amounts paid by your insurance company. This is a pretty clear rule in tax law. Since you're being audited, you'll need to respond honestly. Gather all your medical receipts and insurance statements from the years in question. Calculate what you actually paid versus what your insurance covered. You'll likely need to file amended returns showing the correct deduction amounts. The good news is that the IRS generally recognizes honest mistakes, especially when you're forthcoming. Since you relied on a paid preparer, you might qualify for penalty abatement, though you'll still owe the additional tax plus interest. The IRS also offers payment plans if you can't pay the full amount immediately.
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Dana Doyle
•Would the tax preparer be liable for any of this since they're the ones who made the mistake? Like could OP make the preparer pay for penalties or something? And doesn't the tax preparer sign something saying the return is accurate?
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Darcy Moore
•The tax preparer does share some responsibility here. They sign the return as the preparer, confirming they've examined the return and it's correct to the best of their knowledge. You could potentially pursue the preparer for the cost of penalties through small claims court, especially if you can document that you questioned this approach and they insisted it was correct. Many preparers carry professional liability insurance for exactly these situations. I'd recommend contacting them directly first to see if they'll help cover any penalties that result from their error.
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Liam Duke
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Manny Lark
•Does it really work with something this complicated though? Like can it actually help if you've already been contacted by the IRS for an audit? I'm skeptical about AI tools handling something this serious.
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Rita Jacobs
•How does the system know which expenses were actually paid by you vs. insurance? I have hundreds of medical transactions from last year and sorting through insurance EOBs is a nightmare.
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Liam Duke
•It absolutely works for active audits. The tool specializes in analyzing documentation and preparing proper responses to the IRS. It doesn't just give general advice - it reviews your specific documents and creates customized responses for your situation. The system actually extracts data from your EOBs, medical bills, and bank statements to differentiate between what insurance paid and what you paid out-of-pocket. You upload your documents (it handles PDFs, images, even screenshots) and it compares the information across all sources to determine the exact amounts you personally paid. It's specifically designed to handle exactly the complicated sorting nightmare you're describing - I had over 200 medical transactions last year and it organized everything perfectly.
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Rita Jacobs
Just wanted to update that I tried taxr.ai after posting my question. It was honestly a game-changer for sorting out my medical expenses mess. I uploaded all my EOBs and medical statements (which was a TON of documents) and it automatically separated insurance payments from my out-of-pocket costs. The tool generated a detailed letter explaining my situation to the IRS, showing I had relied on preparer advice but was now correcting the error. It even calculated what I actually owe with the proper deductions. My situation was similar to the original poster's, and the documentation it created was exactly what I needed. I'm still working through my audit, but having everything organized properly has made the process much less terrifying.
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Khalid Howes
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Ben Cooper
•How does this even work? The IRS phone system is basically designed to be impossible to get through. I'm calling BS on this.
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Naila Gordon
•I spent 4 hours on hold with the IRS last month only to have the call dropped. How much did this service cost you? Sounds too good to be true.
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Khalid Howes
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Ben Cooper
I have to admit I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I was desperate enough to try it since I was also dealing with the IRS about some misreported income. I got connected to an IRS agent in about 45 minutes when I had previously spent THREE DAYS trying to get through. The agent I spoke with explained exactly what documentation I needed to provide for my case and even helped me understand the penalty abatement options that might apply to the original poster's situation. For medical expense audit issues specifically, they told me what forms to file and the best approach to explain reliance on a tax preparer. For anyone facing an IRS audit like the original poster, being able to actually talk to the IRS directly makes a massive difference in understanding your options. I'm still annoyed at how impossible it is to reach them normally, but this solution actually worked.
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Cynthia Love
I think you should definitely report this tax preparer to the IRS. Use Form 14157 (Complaint: Tax Return Preparer). What they did was either incompetence or fraud. Either way, you shouldn't be the only one facing consequences for their actions. This form lets the IRS know about preparers who are filing incorrect returns.
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Edward McBride
•Thanks for telling me about that form. I had no idea I could report her. Do you think filing this complaint might help my case at all with the audit? And has anyone had experience with what happens after reporting a preparer?
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Cynthia Love
•Filing the complaint probably won't directly impact your audit case, but it does create a record showing you're acting in good faith to correct the situation. This can sometimes help with penalty abatement requests. After reporting a preparer, the IRS investigates independently. They won't tell you the outcome due to privacy laws, but problematic preparers may face penalties, injunctions, or even criminal charges in serious cases. I've heard from clients that some preparers offered to cover penalties after learning they'd been reported, though that's not guaranteed. The most important thing is protecting yourself by being proactive and transparent with the IRS about the error and your reliance on professional advice.
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Darren Brooks
Word of advice, NEVER go back to that tax preparer. I'm shocked they would claim that including insurance-paid expenses is legal. That's like Tax 101 stuff. For your audit, be super cooperative with the IRS and explain that you relied on your preparer's expertise. You should definitely request penalty abatement under "reasonable cause" since you hired a professional and had no reason to doubt their work.
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Rosie Harper
•This happened to my cousin last year. She ended up owing about $3500 in back taxes plus interest, but they waived most penalties because she could prove her preparer told her everything was fine. Make sure you save any emails or texts where you questioned the preparer about this!
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Ava Garcia
Edward, I completely understand your stress about this situation. The good news is that medical expense audit issues are actually quite common and the IRS sees them frequently. Since you questioned your preparer about this approach and she insisted it was correct, you have a strong case for reasonable cause penalty relief. Here's what I'd recommend doing immediately: 1) Gather all your medical bills, insurance EOBs, and payment records from the audit years, 2) Calculate your actual out-of-pocket expenses (what YOU paid after insurance), 3) Prepare amended returns showing the correct deduction amounts, and 4) Write a detailed explanation letter describing how you relied on your preparer's professional advice. The IRS typically works with taxpayers who are cooperative and honest about mistakes, especially when a paid preparer was involved. You'll likely owe additional tax plus interest, but penalties can often be waived or reduced significantly. If you can't pay the full amount, the IRS offers installment agreements - don't let the fear of a large bill prevent you from responding promptly. Also, definitely document any communications you had with your preparer about questioning this deduction method. That evidence will be crucial for your penalty abatement request.
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