Can someone claim tax deductions on my property when only my name is on the deed?
My ex-husband is claiming property tax deductions on our old house that's only in my name. We divorced in April 2023 and I got the house in the settlement. He moved out in June 2023 but I just found out he's trying to claim the property tax deductions on his 2024 tax return. I'm 100% positive only my name is on the deed - we refinanced right before the divorce and put it solely in my name. I've been paying all the property taxes since we split up. Can he legally claim these deductions when he's not on the deed and didn't pay the taxes? What documentation do I need to prove to the IRS that he's filing incorrectly if they come asking questions?
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Logan Chiang
If his name is not on the deed and he didn't pay the property taxes, then no, he cannot legally claim the property tax deduction. Only the legal owner who actually paid the expense can claim it. For documentation, you should have: - A copy of the deed showing only your name - Proof of property tax payments (receipts, bank statements, etc.) showing you made the payments - Your divorce decree that shows the house was awarded to you If you're concerned about a potential audit, just keep these documents organized. You might want to attach a note with your return explaining the situation. The IRS systems will likely flag the duplicate claim since you'll both be trying to deduct the same property taxes. If he files first, your e-filed return might be rejected. In that case, you'd need to paper file and include an explanation letter with your documentation.
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Abigail Spencer
•Thank you for this detailed answer. I have all the documentation you mentioned. Do I need to contact the IRS proactively about this or just wait and see if they question my return?
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Logan Chiang
•Generally it's better to wait for the IRS to contact you. Include the deduction correctly on your return, and if there's an issue, they'll send you a letter. No need to poke the bear unnecessarily 😉
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Isla Fischer
•This happened to me! My ex tried claiming our old house too and I got a letter from the IRS asking for proof. Just sent in the deed and my payment records and it was resolved in my favor. Took about 3 months tho.
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Abigail Spencer
•That's reassuring to hear it got resolved, even if it took a while. Divorce tax issues are such a headache 😩
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Owen Devar
Actually, he might be able to claim it if he can prove he paid the taxes, even if he's not on the deed. The IRS cares about who PAID not whose name is on a piece of paper. Did he contribute to any of the payments? If you're using joint funds to pay, that could complicate things.
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Abigail Spencer
•He definitely didn't pay any of the property taxes since our divorce. I have all the bank statements showing the payments came from my personal account that he has no access to.
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Daniel Rivera
•Then you're good. He's trying to pull a fast one and it'll backfire on him when the IRS asks for proof of payment. My ex tried this and got hit with penalties.
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Sophie Footman
exs are the worst. mine tried to claim our kids the year after divorce even tho they lived with me full time. the audicity of some people 🙄
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Connor Rupert
check the divorce decree! sometimes there are specific clauses about who gets to claim what tax benefits. if there's nothing specifying he can claim property taxes, and your name is the only one on the deed, AND you paid all the taxes... then he's 100% in the wrong. but save all documentation just in case.
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Abigail Spencer
•The decree explicitly states the house is mine and all expenses/deductions related to it. He's just trying to squeeze out extra money on his return and hoping I won't notice.
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Connor Rupert
•Ugh, typical. Keep that decree handy - it's your golden ticket if the IRS comes knocking. Maybe send him a friendly "cease and desist" text reminding him of the decree terms? Sometimes they back down when called out.
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Molly Hansen
I would immediately file Form 14039 (Identity Theft Affidavit) with the IRS!!! This is fraud and could mess up your return and credit!!
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Brady Clean
•This is not identity theft. It's a dispute over who can claim a deduction. Form 14039 would be rejected. OP should just file correctly and let the IRS handle it.
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Molly Hansen
•It absolutely is a form of tax fraud tho. He's claiming deductions he has no right to. But ur right maybe not the identity theft form specifically.
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Skylar Neal
Does your ex have any ownership interest in the property at all? Even if his name isn't on the deed, if he contributed to the purchase or has some equitable claim under your state laws, things could get complicated. You might want to consult with a tax attorney to be safe.
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Abigail Spencer
•No ownership interest at all. The divorce settlement was very clear - I got the house and all related tax benefits in exchange for letting him keep his 401k without splitting it.
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Vincent Bimbach
In addition to what others said, if you both try claiming the same property tax deduction, there's a good chance the IRS computers will flag both returns for review. When that happens, whoever has the documentation will win. Just make sure to respond quickly to any IRS notices.
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Kelsey Chin
•this happened to my sister and her return was delayed by 8 MONTHS while they sorted it out. eventually she got her refund but what a nightmare. document everything!!!
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Norah Quay
Have u tried talking to ur ex about this? Sometimes a simple conversation can prevent tax headaches. If he knows ur aware of what he's doing, he might back down.
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Leo McDonald
I work in real estate and see this all the time after divorces. If your name is the only one on the deed AND you paid the property taxes from your own separate account, then legally the deduction belongs to you alone. Your ex is trying to pull a fast one.
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Jessica Nolan
•I second this. As a tax preparer, I've seen this exact scenario multiple times. The IRS will side with whoever has proof of legal ownership AND proof of payment. Make sure you have your receipts in order.
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Angelina Farar
If you're really worried about this, you could get your property tax transcript from your local tax assessor's office. It will show exactly who paid the taxes and when. This plus the deed should be all you need if questioned.
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Abigail Spencer
•That's a great suggestion - I didn't know I could get a transcript like that. I'll contact my county assessor tomorrow.
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Sebastián Stevens
The IRS rules are super clear on this. Publication 530 states that you can only deduct property taxes you actually paid on property you own. If you meet both criteria and he meets neither, there's no grey area here. He's flat out wrong.
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Bethany Groves
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KingKongZilla
•How did you get through to someone at the IRS? I've been trying for weeks!
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Rebecca Johnston
the irs is so broken man. you and your ex both gonna be fighting over whos right while the irs just sits on your returns for 9 months doing nothing 😂
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Nathan Dell
•facts 💯 my cousin and his ex had a similar situation and both their returns got stuck in limbo for almost a year
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Omar Mahmoud
I'm a tax professional and see this scenario frequently. Since you have sole ownership (deed in your name only), paid all the taxes from your personal account, and your divorce decree explicitly awards you the house and related tax benefits, your ex has absolutely no legal basis to claim those deductions. The IRS will require proof of both ownership AND payment. You have both - he has neither. Keep your documentation organized: the deed, divorce decree, and payment records (bank statements, canceled checks, etc.). If both of you claim the same deduction, the IRS computers will likely flag it and send correspondence to both parties requesting documentation. Respond promptly with your proof and his claim will be denied. Don't worry about filing first - just file correctly and let the system work. One tip: consider adding a brief explanatory statement to your return noting the divorce and that you're the sole owner/payor to help prevent any confusion during processing.
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Aisha Mahmood
•This is exactly the kind of professional advice that's so helpful! I really appreciate the tip about adding an explanatory statement to my return. Should I include that statement as an attachment or is there a specific section where I should add it? Also, do you think I should send my ex a certified letter letting him know I'm aware of his attempt to claim the deduction, or is it better to just let the IRS handle it without any direct contact?
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Maya Patel
•For the explanatory statement, you can attach it as a separate sheet to your paper return or include it in the "Additional Information" section if filing electronically. Just a brief note like "Taxpayer is sole owner of property per divorce decree dated [date]. Ex-spouse has no ownership interest or payment responsibility." As for contacting your ex - I'd recommend against it. Direct contact could escalate the situation unnecessarily. Let the IRS handle it through their normal process. If he files an incorrect claim, the system will catch it when you both claim the same deduction, and the documentation will speak for itself. Keep things professional and let the facts do the talking. The most important thing is that you file your return correctly and keep your documentation organized. You're clearly in the right here based on ownership and payment records.
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NeonNova
This is such a frustrating situation! I went through something similar during my divorce where my ex tried to claim deductions he wasn't entitled to. From what you've described, you're absolutely in the right here - you have sole ownership via the deed, you've been making all the payments from your personal account, and your divorce decree explicitly gives you the house and related benefits. I'd recommend keeping a file with all your key documents together: the deed showing only your name, your divorce decree (especially the section about the house), and all your property tax payment records from 2024. If the IRS flags both returns for review, having everything organized will make the resolution much faster. One thing that really helped me was getting a property tax payment history from my county assessor's office. It shows exactly who made each payment and when, which was ironclad proof when the IRS reviewed our case. Don't stress too much about this - the IRS deals with these post-divorce disputes all the time, and they're pretty good at sorting them out when the facts are clear. Just file your return correctly and keep your documentation handy. Your ex is going to have a very difficult time explaining why he thinks he can claim deductions on property he doesn't own and taxes he didn't pay!
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Dmitry Ivanov
•This is really helpful advice! I especially appreciate the suggestion about getting the property tax payment history from the county assessor - I hadn't thought of that but it sounds like bulletproof documentation. Did you have to pay anything for that records request, or was it free? Also, how long did it take to resolve your case once the IRS started reviewing both returns? I'm trying to prepare myself for potential delays in getting my refund if this becomes a bigger issue.
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