After Divorce, Who Claims the Mortgage Interest (1098) When Ex-Husband Was Awarded the Property?
I'm trying to figure out something with my taxes after my divorce. We have a house in Nevada that I purchased before we got married - only my name is on the mortgage and it wasn't considered community property. After our divorce last year, my ex was awarded the house in the settlement as long as he can refinance it into his name by the deadline in our decree. If he can't do that, we have to sell it and split the proceeds. Since I had to relocate to another state to help my son who's having health issues, I let my ex stay in the house as long as he made the mortgage payments. He's been making them (though he did miss a few payments that almost led to foreclosure, but that's another whole mess). Here's my problem - the Form 1098 for mortgage interest is still coming to me since the loan is in my name only. Do I claim the mortgage interest deduction on my taxes even though I don't live there and he's the one making the payments? Or is this something I need to ask a lawyer about? The IRS instructions aren't clear for our specific situation, and I don't want to mess up my filing.
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Annabel Kimball
This is actually a tax question more than a legal one. The general rule is that mortgage interest can only be deducted by the person who both: 1) is legally obligated to pay the mortgage, and 2) actually makes the payments. In your case, you're legally obligated (since the loan is in your name), but your ex-husband is actually making the payments. Since both conditions aren't met by either of you, it gets tricky. The IRS typically considers the person making the payments to be paying them on behalf of the person legally responsible for the debt. The proper approach would be for you to report the 1098 mortgage interest on your Schedule A (if you itemize), but also report the amount your ex paid as "income" since it's essentially a third-party payment of your debt. Your ex wouldn't get to claim that interest deduction because he's not legally liable for the loan.
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PaulineW
•Thanks for explaining that. So if I understand correctly, I would need to claim the mortgage interest on my Schedule A, but I'd also need to report the amount he paid toward the mortgage as income? That seems like I'm being penalized twice - paying taxes on "income" I never received and getting a deduction that doesn't really benefit me since I don't live there. How would I even calculate how much of his payments were interest vs. principal for reporting purposes? The 1098 only shows the total interest for the year.
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Annabel Kimball
•You're right that it feels like a double hit, but tax law doesn't always align perfectly with personal situations. For the calculation, you don't need to separate principal and interest yourself - the 1098 shows the total interest paid for the year, and that's what you'd report as both income and a deduction if you itemize. The income and deduction would essentially cancel each other out in terms of tax impact, assuming you itemize deductions. If you take the standard deduction instead, then yes, you'd be recognizing income without the offsetting deduction benefit. Another option is to contact a tax professional to see if your divorce decree might allow for an alternative treatment in your specific situation.
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Chris Elmeda
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Jean Claude
•How exactly does this work? Do they just explain the tax rules or do they tell you specifically what to put on which forms? I'm dealing with a similar situation where my ex got our rental property in the divorce but the mortgage is still in my name until she refinances.
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Charity Cohan
•I'm skeptical about these kinds of services. What makes them any more reliable than just asking a CPA? And how do they handle state-specific issues like community property rules that vary by state?
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Chris Elmeda
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Jean Claude
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Josef Tearle
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Shelby Bauman
•Does this actually work? I've tried calling the IRS multiple times about a similar issue and got disconnected every time after waiting for hours. How much does this service cost?
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Quinn Herbert
•This sounds like a scam. How can they possibly get through the IRS lines when everyone else has to wait? And I'd be worried about giving my personal tax details to some random service.
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Josef Tearle
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Quinn Herbert
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Salim Nasir
Have you checked your divorce decree carefully? Sometimes there are specific provisions about who gets to claim mortgage interest deductions during this transition period. In my divorce, we had a clause that specifically stated my ex would get to claim the interest deduction even though the mortgage remained in my name temporarily. If your decree doesn't address this, then follow the advice about reporting both the income and deduction. But if there is language about it, that might change how you need to handle it.
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PaulineW
•That's a good point - I'll need to dig through the decree again. It's about 30 pages of legal language, and I honestly haven't re-read all the details since signing. I was focused more on the property division and custody arrangements. Do you know what section this kind of tax provision would typically be under?
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Salim Nasir
•In my decree, it was in a section called "Tax Provisions" or "Tax Matters" toward the end of the document. Sometimes these provisions are also included in the property division section, especially if there's a paragraph specifically about the handling of the house during the transition period before refinancing. Look for any language about "tax deductions," "mortgage interest," or "temporary arrangements." If you can't find anything specific, it's worth asking your divorce attorney if this was addressed but just not clearly spelled out.
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Hazel Garcia
Just to add another perspective - I've been through this exact situation in Texas. Technically, the IRS rule is that the person legally obligated on the loan (you) would claim the interest. However, if your divorce decree specifically orders your ex to make the payments, there's an argument that he's making them on his own behalf, not on yours. If there's no specific language in your decree about who gets the tax deduction, you might consider filing Form 8822 with the IRS to change the address where the 1098 is sent. That way, your ex could at least have the documentation he needs if he tries to claim it.
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Laila Fury
•This is bad advice. Changing the mailing address for the 1098 doesn't change who's legally entitled to claim the deduction. The mortgage company reports the 1098 to the IRS under the social security number of the person legally responsible for the loan, not whoever's address is on file.
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Hazel Garcia
•You're right that changing the address doesn't legally change who can claim it. I should have been more clear. My point was more about making sure both parties have the documentation they need for their respective tax filings, especially if they're going to coordinate who claims what based on their decree. The key is really what's in the divorce decree. If it specifies that the ex gets to claim the interest deduction despite the loan being in OP's name, having the documentation helps facilitate that arrangement.
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