Can I claim tax deductions for my parents' medical expenses abroad if they aren't US citizens?
I'm trying to figure out if I can write off the medical expenses I've been paying for my elderly parents on my taxes. They live in Thailand and are not US citizens - they don't have Social Security numbers. I've been sending money regularly for their doctor visits, medications, and I also pay for a part-time caregiver to help them. Last year I probably spent around $14,000 on their medical care and another $9,000 for caregiving expenses. Is there any way I can deduct these on my US tax return? If it is possible, what documentation would I need to keep? All their medical receipts are in Thai, and payments are a mix of bank transfers and some cash that my sister (who lives there) handles for me. Any advice would be appreciated. Tax season is coming up and I want to be prepared.
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Liv Park
Yes, you may be able to deduct some of these expenses, but there are specific requirements you need to meet. First, to claim medical expenses for anyone, you need to itemize deductions on Schedule A rather than taking the standard deduction. Medical expenses are only deductible to the extent they exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income. For your parents to qualify as your dependents (which allows you to deduct their medical expenses), they must meet several tests: 1) They don't need to be US citizens or have SSNs, but they do need ITINs (Individual Taxpayer Identification Numbers) 2) You must provide more than half of their support for the year 3) Their gross income must be below the exemption amount 4) They cannot file a joint return except in certain circumstances. For documentation, keep all receipts translated to English, records of money transfers, and a log connecting payments to specific medical expenses. Have your sister keep detailed records of how cash was spent.
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Charlee Coleman
•Thanks for the detailed response! I didn't know about the ITINs - how do I go about getting those for my parents if they're not in the US? And would I still qualify if my sister also contributes to their care, but I provide the majority (like 70%)? Also, what counts as "support"? Does that include just medical and caregiving, or also their housing, food, etc.?
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Liv Park
•To get ITINs for your parents, they'll need to complete Form W-7 (Application for IRS Individual Taxpayer Identification Number). This can be done without them being present in the US. You'll need to submit this form along with documentation proving their identity (such as a certified copy of their passport) and your tax return when you file. Yes, you would still qualify if you provide more than half (over 50%) of their total support. So if you're providing 70%, that definitely meets the requirement, even with your sister contributing. Support includes the total cost of keeping up a home, so that counts housing, food, clothing, medical expenses, transportation, recreation, and other necessities. You'll need to calculate the total cost of your parents' support from all sources and then determine if your contribution exceeds 50% of that total.
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Leeann Blackstein
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Ryder Greene
•Does it work with non-Latin alphabets too? My parents are in Korea and all their receipts use Korean characters. I've been taking pictures and trying to translate each one manually which is a nightmare.
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Carmella Fromis
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Leeann Blackstein
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Ryder Greene
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Theodore Nelson
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Ellie Simpson
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Arjun Kurti
Something important nobody's mentioned yet - make sure you're only claiming expenses YOU actually paid for. If your sister in Thailand is using her own money for some costs (not just distributing cash you send), you can't claim those portions. Also, keep in mind that certain traditional or non-western medical treatments might not qualify as deductible medical expenses under IRS rules. The IRS has a pretty specific definition of what counts as medical care.
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Charlee Coleman
•That's a great point. My sister does contribute some money, so I'll make sure to only claim what I've directly paid for. Do you know if things like traditional Thai massage therapy would count? My mom gets it for her arthritis since it's much more affordable there than conventional physical therapy.
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Arjun Kurti
•The IRS generally allows deductions for treatments that are considered legitimate medical care, even if they're alternative. If the Thai massage therapy was prescribed by a medical practitioner for a specific medical condition like arthritis, it might qualify. The key is having documentation showing it was prescribed for a medical purpose, not just for general wellness. It helps if you can get a letter from a doctor stating that this treatment is necessary for your mother's arthritis. Keep receipts that clearly indicate it's therapeutic massage for a medical condition, not just spa services. The more documentation connecting the treatment directly to a diagnosed medical condition, the better your case if questioned.
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Raúl Mora
Just adding that if your parents live in a country that has a tax treaty with the US, there might be additional considerations. Worth checking if Thailand has specific provisions that could affect your situation.
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Margot Quinn
•The US-Thailand tax treaty doesn't specifically address dependent care expenses, but it's good to bring up. More relevant is that Thailand has a foreign earned income exclusion agreement with the US, which wouldn't apply here since the parents aren't earning US income.
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Malik Jenkins
One thing to be careful about is keeping very detailed records of the support calculation. The IRS may scrutinize foreign dependent claims more closely, so you'll want to document not just the medical expenses but ALL support you provide versus what your parents pay for themselves. Create a spreadsheet tracking monthly expenses: housing costs, utilities, food, medical care, transportation, etc. Include both what you send and what your sister handles on your behalf. This will help prove you're providing over 50% of their total support. Also, consider having your parents sign a statement (in both Thai and English) acknowledging that you provide their primary financial support. While not required, this can be helpful documentation if the IRS has questions about your dependent claims. The ITIN application process can take several months, so start that early. You'll need certified copies of their passports and possibly other identity documents from Thai authorities.
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CosmicCowboy
•This is incredibly helpful advice about the documentation! I'm definitely going to set up that spreadsheet system you mentioned. Quick question though - when you say "certified copies of their passports," does that mean I need to get them certified by a Thai government office, or can a US notary handle that? And do you know roughly how long the ITIN process typically takes? I want to make sure I have everything ready before next tax season.
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Ellie Lopez
•For passport certification, you'll need to get them certified by Thai authorities since they were issued there. A US notary can't certify foreign documents. Your parents can typically get certified copies from the Thai passport office or other designated government offices in Thailand. Your sister who lives there could help them with this process. The ITIN application process usually takes 7-11 weeks during peak filing season (January-April) but can be faster during off-peak times - sometimes as quick as 4-6 weeks. I'd recommend starting the process by October or November to ensure you have the ITINs before you need to file your taxes. One tip: you can actually submit the ITIN applications along with your tax return, but this means you'll need to mail your return instead of e-filing, which delays your refund. Getting the ITINs ahead of time allows you to e-file normally.
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Diego Mendoza
One additional consideration for your situation - since you're dealing with foreign medical expenses, make sure to convert all Thai baht amounts to USD using the exchange rates from the dates when the expenses were actually incurred, not just a single year-end rate. The IRS requires you to use the exchange rate from the transaction date for each expense. I'd recommend keeping a log of exchange rates alongside your expense records. You can use the IRS's yearly average exchange rates as published in their Revenue Procedures, or daily rates from sources like xe.com or the Federal Reserve. This becomes especially important if the Thai baht fluctuates significantly during the year. Also, be aware that if you're sending money through services like Western Union or bank wire transfers, those transaction fees are generally NOT deductible as medical expenses, even though they're necessary to get the money to your parents for their care. Only the actual medical and caregiving costs qualify. The good news is that caregiver expenses for your parents can be substantial and are generally deductible as long as the care includes some medical component (not just companionship). Make sure to get documentation showing the caregiver helps with medical needs like medication management, mobility assistance, or other health-related activities.
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Zara Rashid
•This is really detailed advice, thank you! The exchange rate requirement makes total sense but I hadn't thought about it. I've been sending money at different times throughout the year, so the rates definitely varied. Quick question about the caregiver expenses - my parents' caregiver mainly helps with daily activities like bathing, dressing, and making sure they take their medications on time. She's not a licensed nurse, just someone from their community who helps elderly people. Would this still qualify as medical care, or do I need someone with formal medical training for it to be deductible? Also, do you happen to know if I need to get any special documentation from the caregiver herself, or is it enough to just have receipts showing I paid for her services?
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