Can I claim my non-resident dependent child on taxes as a resident alien?
I've been living in the US for a few years now and I'm considered a resident alien for tax purposes. So I recently found out that my wife (who still lives abroad) can choose to be treated as a resident alien and we can file taxes together as married filing jointly. What I'm confused about is our daughter's situation. She lives with my wife overseas and hasn't passed the substantial presence test yet. Is there any way we can treat her as a resident alien too (similar to what my wife can do) and claim her as our dependent on our tax return? And if that's possible, can we apply for an ITIN for her? I'm trying to figure out the best way to handle our family taxes since we're split between two countries right now. Any guidance would be super helpful!
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Zoe Dimitriou
You actually have a few options here. As a resident alien, you're right that your spouse can make an election to be treated as a resident for tax purposes even while physically living outside the US, allowing you to file jointly. For your daughter, the rules are a bit different. Since she doesn't meet the substantial presence test, she's considered a nonresident alien. However, you may still be able to claim her as a dependent if she meets the qualifying child or qualifying relative tests. The good news is that residency status doesn't prevent you from claiming a dependent - citizenship/residency tests for dependents are separate from tax residency. And yes, you can and should apply for an ITIN for her using Form W-7 if she doesn't have an SSN. You'd attach this to your tax return when claiming her as a dependent. Make sure you have documentation proving your relationship (birth certificate) and that she meets the dependent requirements.
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QuantumQuest
•Wait, I'm confused about this. I thought dependents had to be US citizens, resident aliens, or US nationals? How can someone claim a nonresident alien child who lives overseas as a dependent?
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Zoe Dimitriou
•That's a common misconception. For qualifying children, they must be US citizens, resident aliens, US nationals, OR residents of Canada or Mexico. So if your daughter is a resident of Canada or Mexico, you can claim her regardless of her US residency status. If your daughter doesn't meet those geographic requirements, you could potentially claim her under the qualifying relative test if she meets other criteria. There's actually a special exception for certain nonresident alien dependents if they're your children. The IRS allows this specifically for situations like yours where families are split across borders.
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Jamal Anderson
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Mei Zhang
•How exactly does this work? Does it just give general advice or does it actually help with the forms? I'm in a similar situation but my spouse and kids are in the Philippines.
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Liam McGuire
•Sounds interesting but I'm skeptical. Did it actually help with the ITIN application process? That's the part I found most confusing when dealing with my overseas dependents.
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Jamal Anderson
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Liam McGuire
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Amara Eze
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Giovanni Ricci
•How does this actually work? Do they have some special connection to the IRS or something? Seems weird that they could get through when regular people can't.
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Amara Eze
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NeonNomad
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Fatima Al-Hashemi
Just want to add another perspective. I went through this process last year. If your daughter is from certain countries, you might need to get her birth certificate translated and certified. The ITIN application can be picky about documentation. Also, depending on which country your spouse and daughter are in, look into whether there's a tax treaty that might affect your situation. Some treaties have special provisions for families split between countries.
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Andre Lefebvre
•Thank you for bringing this up! My family is from Brazil - do you know if I'll need certified translations for all her documents? And how long did the ITIN process take for your family member?
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Fatima Al-Hashemi
•Yes, for Brazil you'll definitely need certified translations of the birth certificate and any other Portuguese documents. Don't use an online translation service - the IRS requires a certified translator. The ITIN process took about 8-10 weeks for us once we submitted everything correctly. But that was during a non-peak time. If you submit during tax season (January-April), it can take 12+ weeks. One tip: if possible, use an IRS-authorized Certifying Acceptance Agent rather than mailing original documents to the IRS. It's faster and safer than sending original documents.
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Dylan Mitchell
Don't forget to check if your daughter qualifies for the Child Tax Credit! There are special rules for children who are non-resident aliens. If she has an ITIN and meets the other tests, you might still qualify for the credit even if she lives abroad.
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Sofia Martinez
•Actually this isn't correct. For the Child Tax Credit, the child MUST be a US citizen, US national, or US resident alien. Having just an ITIN doesn't qualify if they don't meet the residency test. There was a temporary exception during COVID but that's expired.
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LilMama23
I went through this exact same situation a couple years ago! Here's what I learned that might help you: Since you're a resident alien and your wife can elect to be treated as one for tax purposes, you're on the right track with married filing jointly. For your daughter, even though she's a nonresident alien, you can still claim her as a dependent if she meets the qualifying child or qualifying relative tests. The key thing to know is that for qualifying children, they need to be US citizens, resident aliens, nationals, OR residents of Canada/Mexico. If your daughter doesn't fall into those categories, you might still qualify under the qualifying relative rules. You absolutely can get an ITIN for her using Form W-7. I'd recommend working with a Certifying Acceptance Agent if possible rather than mailing original documents - it's much safer and faster. One heads up though - while you can claim her as a dependent for the dependency exemption, she won't qualify for the Child Tax Credit since that requires US citizenship or resident alien status. But the dependency deduction itself can still provide significant tax savings. Make sure you have all her documentation ready (birth certificate, proof of relationship) and get any foreign documents certified and translated if needed. The whole process took about 10 weeks for us during non-peak season.
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Scarlett Forster
•This is really helpful, thank you! I'm dealing with a similar situation and had no idea about the Certifying Acceptance Agent option. Is there a way to find these agents in my area? Also, when you mention the dependency deduction - I thought that was eliminated with the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act? Are you referring to something else, or has that changed recently?
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