Can I claim Earned Income Credit (EIC) even if my ex claims Child Tax Credit (CTC) this year?
So I've got a confusing tax situation with my ex and was hoping y'all could help me figure this out. It's my ex's year to claim our daughter for taxes according to our custody agreement. He makes too much to qualify for the EIC, but he'll definitely be claiming the Child Tax Credit. When I was working on filing my own taxes using an online tax program, I discovered I could actually add my daughter to my return and check a box saying that while she lived with me for more than 6 months, I'm not claiming her as a dependent because of our parenting agreement. The weird thing is, even after checking that box saying I'm not claiming her, the tax software still calculated an Earned Income Credit for me. I had a tax preparer review everything (though I'm not sure she was familiar with US tax law), and she told me I couldn't claim the EIC in this situation but couldn't really explain why not. Can I legally claim the EIC if my ex is claiming the CTC? I just don't want to end up with problems with the IRS down the line, but that extra money would really help me right now.
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Logan Stewart
You actually CAN claim the Earned Income Credit even if your ex claims the Child Tax Credit for the same child, as long as your child lived with you for more than half the year. The EIC is a "custodial parent" benefit while the CTC can be transferred to a non-custodial parent through Form 8332 or a similar declaration. The key factor for EIC eligibility is that the qualifying child must have lived with you for more than half the year (over 6 months), regardless of who claims them as a dependent. This is why your tax software is still calculating EIC for you even after you indicated you weren't claiming the child as a dependent. You should make sure to properly document that your child lived with you for more than half the year. The IRS might question this if both parents are claiming tax benefits for the same child.
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Mikayla Brown
•Thanks for this info! I'm in a similar situation with my ex. Quick question - do I still need to list my son on my return somehow to get the EIC, even though I'm not claiming him as a dependent? And does this also apply to the head of household filing status?
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Logan Stewart
•Yes, you do need to list your child on your return to claim the EIC, even if you're not claiming them as a dependent. You'll provide their information in the EIC section of your return. For Head of Household filing status, you can still qualify if your child lived with you for more than half the year, even if you've agreed to let your ex claim the child as a dependent for the Child Tax Credit. The requirements for Head of Household are similar to EIC in that they're based on where the child actually lived, not who claims them as a dependent.
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Katherine Hunter
Just wanted to add that I've been a tax preparer for 11 years, and this is one of the most common misconceptions I see with divorced parents. The IRS distinguishes between "dependency" benefits (like the Child Tax Credit) and "custodial" benefits (like EIC and Head of Household). You must be the custodial parent (child lived with you more than half the year) to claim EIC, regardless of any divorce agreement. These agreements can legally transfer the dependency exemption and Child Tax Credit to the non-custodial parent, but cannot transfer EIC rights. If you're the custodial parent, you should: 1. List the child on your return 2. Indicate you're not claiming them as a dependent 3. Still claim EIC if you qualify based on income
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Lucas Parker
•This is super helpful! What about filing status? If I'm letting my ex claim our kid as a dependent this year per our agreement, can I still file as Head of Household since my daughter lives with me most of the time?
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Katherine Hunter
•Yes, you can still file as Head of Household even if you're not claiming your child as a dependent, as long as they lived with you for more than half the year and you paid more than half the cost of maintaining the home. This is another custodial benefit that remains with the parent the child actually lives with, regardless of who claims the dependency exemption. Many tax professionals get this wrong because they assume all tax benefits move together, but the IRS clearly separates them in their regulations.
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Donna Cline
Anyone know if this applies to ACTC (Additional Child Tax Credit) too? My tax software is giving me both EIC and ACTC even though my divorce decree says my ex claims our son this year.
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Katherine Hunter
•No, you cannot claim the Additional Child Tax Credit (ACTC) if you're not claiming the child as a dependent. The ACTC is directly tied to the Child Tax Credit, which goes to whoever claims the child as a dependent. Unlike EIC, the ACTC is not based on where the child lived but on who has the right to claim the dependency exemption. If your divorce decree gives your ex the right to claim your child this year, then both the CTC and ACTC belong to your ex, not you.
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Carmen Diaz
This is exactly the kind of confusion that trips up so many divorced parents! Your tax software is actually correct - you CAN claim the Earned Income Credit even though your ex will be claiming the Child Tax Credit for your daughter. The key thing to understand is that the IRS treats these as completely different types of benefits. The EIC is what's called a "custodial benefit" - it goes to the parent the child actually lived with for more than half the year, regardless of any custody agreements about who claims the child as a dependent. Since your daughter lived with you for more than 6 months, you qualify for EIC based on your income. Your ex can still claim the Child Tax Credit because your custody agreement gives him the right to claim her as a dependent, but that doesn't affect your EIC eligibility at all. Make sure you keep good records showing your daughter lived with you for more than half the year (school records, medical records, etc.) in case the IRS ever questions it. But you're absolutely entitled to that EIC - don't leave money on the table because of bad advice!
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Omar Zaki
•Thank you for breaking this down so clearly! I'm dealing with a similar situation and was worried I might be doing something wrong. One question - when you mention keeping records that show the child lived with you for more than half the year, what specific documents does the IRS typically look for? I have school enrollment records showing my address, but I'm wondering if there are other types of documentation I should be collecting just in case.
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