Best Way to Pay My Mom Through My LLC for Content Creation Help?
Hey everyone! I have a content creation LLC (focused on wellness videos and recipes) and my mom has been helping me quite a bit with the business. She helps brainstorm content ideas, shares her knowledge on wellness topics I cover in my videos, and assists with filming, setup, and cleanup. I want to start paying her properly through my LLC at around $850/month. I'm trying to figure out the best way to handle this from a tax perspective, and I have a few questions: 1. Should I classify her as a contractor or set her up as an employee with payroll? 2. If I go the contractor route, what's the correct payment method? Is Zelle okay? And should payments come from my LLC checking account? I've been paying her from my personal account so far this year but that feels wrong since this is for my LLC work. 3. My LLC might not even bring in enough revenue to cover what I'd pay her in a year. How do I handle paying her if my business isn't profitable enough to cover her compensation? For context, I also work a full-time job (my main income source), and the LLC is a side business that I'm hoping to grow over the next few years. I do have a CPA but with tax season in full swing, he's pretty much impossible to reach right now. I know you all are likely swamped too, but any guidance would be super appreciated! I can discuss the details more with my CPA once he's available.
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Caesar Grant
Based on what you've described, it sounds like your mom is functioning more as an independent contractor rather than an employee. The distinction matters for tax purposes. As a contractor: She would be responsible for her own self-employment taxes, and you'd need to issue her a 1099-NEC if you pay her $600+ in a calendar year. This is generally simpler for small businesses than setting up payroll. For payments: You should absolutely pay her from your LLC bank account, not your personal account. This maintains the separation between personal and business finances, which is crucial for maintaining your liability protection. Zelle is fine as a payment method, but keep good records of all transactions. If your LLC doesn't make enough revenue: You can still pay her as planned, but it would effectively mean you're personally capitalizing the business. This is completely legal, but may affect how profitable your business looks on paper, which can have implications if you're claiming business losses. Since this is a family relationship, make sure everything is well-documented. Have a simple contract outlining her duties and compensation, keep receipts of all payments, and track hours worked. The IRS sometimes scrutinizes family business arrangements more closely.
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Philip Cowan
•Thank you so much for this breakdown! Few follow-up questions: 1) For issuing the 1099-NEC, is that something I should set up now or just when I file taxes for 2023? 2) Also, for tracking purposes, would a simple spreadsheet work for documenting hours, or should I use specific software? She's pretty flexible with her time and sometimes helps a little here and there throughout the week.
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Caesar Grant
•You don't actually issue the 1099-NEC until January 2026 for work performed in 2025, but you should collect a completed W-9 form from her now before making payments. This gives you her taxpayer information needed for the 1099 later. For tracking hours, a spreadsheet is perfectly fine for your situation. Since her work is intermittent, consider having her keep a simple log of dates, hours, and tasks performed. This doesn't need to be complex - just enough documentation to show the work was legitimate if questions ever arise. Many small family businesses use simple documentation systems like this. The important thing is consistency and having some record of the work performed.
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Lena Schultz
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Dallas Villalobos
One thing to consider that hasn't been mentioned yet - if your LLC is taxed as a sole proprietorship (which is default for single-member LLCs), your mom would be considered a statutory employee rather than an independent contractor if you control not just what work she does but how she does it. I went through this exact situation with my dad helping in my consulting business. Initially had him as a contractor but my tax guy said that was risky given how integrated he was in daily operations. Switched to paying him as an employee with proper payroll. The key factors: Do you control when and how she works? Does she work exclusively for your business? Does she use your equipment? If yes to these, she might legally need to be classified as an employee regardless of what's more convenient. Also worth noting - misclassification penalties can be steep if audited! Better to get it right from the start.
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Philip Cowan
•This is really helpful context - thank you! She definitely uses my equipment (camera, lights, props) and I do direct how and when she works. She doesn't work exclusively for me though - she has her own separate job too. Does that mix of factors still lean more toward employee classification? I'm worried about the complexity of setting up payroll for just one part-time person.
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Dallas Villalobos
•Based on what you're describing, it does sound like she leans more toward being an employee than a contractor. Using your equipment and you controlling how/when she works are big factors the IRS looks at. The fact that she has another job doesn't automatically make her a contractor for your business - plenty of people have multiple employers. What matters is the nature of her relationship with YOUR business specifically. I totally understand the payroll setup concern - it felt like overkill for my situation too. But there are affordable payroll services like Gusto or Square Payroll that make it pretty simple and handle all the tax filings for you. They're designed for small businesses with just a few employees. The peace of mind knowing I'm compliant has been worth the extra cost for me. Some of these services are only $35-45/month for your first employee.
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Reina Salazar
Don't overcomplicate this! I pay several family members through my LLC and simply issue 1099s at the end of the year. Super easy. Just make sure payments come from your business account (not personal), have them fill out a W-9, keep basic records of what they're doing, and you're good to go. At tax time, these are just business expenses. The whole employee vs contractor thing is overblown for family helping with small businesses. As long as you're not trying to avoid taxes and the work is legitimate, you'll be fine issuing a 1099.
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Saanvi Krishnaswami
•This is dangerously incorrect advice. The IRS has very specific tests for determining contractor vs employee status, and "being family" or "small business" doesn't exempt you from those rules. Misclassification can result in back taxes, penalties, and interest. The IRS looks at behavioral control, financial control, and relationship factors - not how convenient it is for the business owner. Please don't spread information that could get people in trouble.
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