How should I pay estimated taxes for spouse who supports my Single Member LLC business?
Hey tax folks, I'm in a bit of a bind here trying to figure out the right way to handle taxes for my wife who helps with my LLC. I set up a Single Member LLC last year and I'm the only official owner (so it's a disregarded entity on my taxes). My wife doesn't have any ownership stake on paper, but she puts in about 20 hours a week helping with customer service, some accounting stuff, and general admin work. I've been paying her about $2,400 a month for her help (straight from the business account), but I haven't been withholding any taxes or treating it like formal employment. Now I'm getting worried about estimated tax payments and whether I'm doing this all wrong. Should I be paying her as an employee with proper payroll? Or can I treat this as some kind of spousal income sharing? We file our taxes jointly if that makes any difference. I really don't want to mess this up and get hit with penalties. Any advice would be super appreciated!
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Amara Nnamani
This is a really common situation for small family businesses. Since your LLC is a disregarded entity (meaning it's treated as a sole proprietorship for tax purposes), the IRS views all the business income as belonging to you personally. When you pay your spouse who works in your disregarded entity LLC, you have two main options: 1. Hire her as a W-2 employee. This means setting up proper payroll, withholding taxes, paying employer taxes, filing quarterly payroll returns, etc. This creates more administrative work but gives her documented income for Social Security credits and potential retirement contributions. 2. Since you file jointly, technically the income from the business is already considered "both of yours" for tax purposes. The payments you're making to her aren't really necessary from a tax perspective since you'll report all the business income on your joint return anyway. The problem with what you're currently doing (paying her without any tax treatment) is that it doesn't fit neatly into either category. Those payments aren't deductible business expenses the way you're handling them.
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Giovanni Mancini
•Quick question - if they decide to go the W-2 route, would they need to get an EIN for the LLC first? And would the spouse's income still need to be reported on Schedule C or would it become a business expense?
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Amara Nnamani
•Yes, if you decide to hire your spouse as a W-2 employee, you would need to obtain an EIN for your LLC if you don't already have one. This is required for any business with employees, even if the business is a disregarded entity for income tax purposes. The spouse's wages would become a legitimate business expense that would be reported on your Schedule C, reducing your net profit from the business. This means those wages would be deductible from your business income, but then they'd be reported as W-2 income for your spouse on your joint tax return.
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
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Dylan Cooper
•Did you have to set up payroll software for this? That seems like such a hassle for just one employee. Also, did you end up owing any penalties for the time you weren't doing it correctly?
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Sofia Morales
•I'm skeptical about these online tools - did it actually provide specific instructions for your state too? Because employment laws vary a lot between states and I've found most online advice totally ignores that.
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•I did set up payroll software, but I went with one of the smaller providers that's built for tiny businesses - it was much less complicated than I expected. I just enter hours once a month and it handles everything else. No penalties because I fixed it going forward rather than trying to amend past returns, though the tool did give me that option too. I was impressed that it actually did provide state-specific guidance for my situation in Colorado. It flagged specific state filing requirements I wouldn't have known about, including some small business exemptions that saved me money. Every state has different rules for micro-employers and the tool knew all the details for my location.
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Sofia Morales
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Miguel Silva
Has anyone considered the Qualified Joint Venture election? My accountant suggested this for our situation. If both spouses materially participate in the business, you can elect to be treated as a qualified joint venture instead of a disregarded entity. This lets you split the income between spouses without setting up formal employment. You'd each file a separate Schedule C and split the income according to your ownership interests (could be 50/50 or whatever split makes sense). Each spouse gets credit for Social Security and Medicare. This avoids payroll taxes and quarterly filings but still gives both spouses credit for working.
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GalacticGuru
•I actually hadn't heard about this Qualified Joint Venture option before. Would this mean we'd need to change our LLC registration with the state too? Or is this just a tax election? Also, would we still get the liability protection of an LLC this way?
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Miguel Silva
•This is just a tax election, so you wouldn't need to change your state LLC registration. You'd still maintain the liability protection of the LLC. The Qualified Joint Venture election is made simply by filing your tax return as a QJV - you file a joint return, but each spouse files a separate Schedule C, Schedule SE, and any other required schedules. The main requirement is that both spouses must materially participate in the business, you must be the only owners, and you must file jointly.
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Zainab Ismail
Quick question - I'm using TurboTax for my taxes and have a similar situation with my single-member LLC and spouse helping out. Does anyone know which option is easier to handle in tax software? W-2 employee vs. Qualified Joint Venture?
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Connor O'Neill
•In my experience, the W-2 route is more straightforward in TurboTax. The Qualified Joint Venture requires more manual manipulation in the software. TurboTax asks if you want to report a business, then you'd need to create two separate Schedule Cs manually and split everything correctly yourself. With W-2, the software handles everything through the normal employment sections.
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