Just FYI for anyone else in this situation - if you're filing an extension, you don't actually NEED to use the online system. You can mail in Form 4868 or even have your tax preparer e-file the extension for you. Don't stress if you can't access the online system!

I'm glad to see you got some good solutions here! Just wanted to add that if you're still having trouble with identity verification, you can also try calling the IRS Taxpayer Assistance Center at 844-545-5640. They have specific protocols for helping people who can't access their online accounts due to identity verification issues. Another quick tip - if you remember roughly what year you filed (even if you're not 100% sure), you can try different years when the system asks for previous return information. Sometimes people forget they filed a simple return years ago, maybe when they were a student or had a part-time job. Also, don't forget that you might have received IRS correspondence in the mail over the years that could help jog your memory about when you last filed. Check any old mail or documents you might have kept - sometimes there are clues there about your tax filing history.

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this family tax drama - it's incredibly stressful when what should be a straightforward legal issue becomes an emotional family conflict. I went through something very similar last year when I got married, and I can tell you that standing your ground on the tax law is absolutely the right thing to do. The dependency rules are crystal clear: if you're married and filing jointly with your spouse, you cannot be claimed as a dependent on anyone else's return, period. This isn't a matter of opinion or interpretation - it's federal tax law under the Joint Return Test. Your mom's accountant should know this basic rule, and frankly, it's concerning that they're advising otherwise. Here's what worked for me: I approached it as helping my parents get the tax benefits they deserved through the correct legal channels rather than making it seem like I was fighting them. Your mom can likely claim education credits (like the Lifetime Learning Credit) for the tuition she paid directly to your school, even without claiming you as a dependent. In many cases, these credits can actually provide better tax savings than the dependency exemption would have. I'd suggest printing out IRS Publication 501 (the dependency rules) and sitting down with your mom to show her the official documentation. Frame it as "let's make sure we're both maximizing our tax benefits legally" rather than "you're wrong." Also consider helping her find a more knowledgeable tax preparer if her current accountant continues to give incorrect advice about such fundamental tax rules. Stay strong - following tax law correctly is non-negotiable, even when family relationships make it complicated.

I'm really sorry you're going through this stressful situation with your family! As someone who works in tax compliance, I can confirm what everyone else has said - if you're married and filing jointly, you absolutely cannot be claimed as a dependent on your mother's return. The Joint Return Test under IRC Section 152 is crystal clear on this. What's particularly troubling is that your mom's accountant is either unaware of or willing to ignore basic dependency rules. This kind of error could trigger an audit for both you and your mother, and the IRS doesn't take kindly to incorrect dependency claims. Here's my suggestion: Focus on the education credit opportunity for your mom. If she paid qualifying tuition expenses directly to your school, she may be eligible for the Lifetime Learning Credit (up to $2,000) or other education benefits on her own return. This could actually provide better tax savings than claiming you as a dependent would have. Also, given your spouse's situation with work authorization from Belarus, make sure you have a plan for the ITIN application if they don't have an SSN yet. The processing time can be 7-11 weeks, so you might need to file an extension. I'd recommend sitting down with your mom with IRS Publication 501 and approaching it as "let's find the best legal way to maximize both our tax benefits" rather than making it confrontational. Sometimes reframing the conversation around helping her get legitimate credits works better than just saying "no" to the dependency claim.

I went through this exact same confusion last year! After reading through all these comments, I want to add that if you're still unsure about your specific situation, you can also check your final paystub from December. It should show year-to-date totals for various deductions including health insurance premiums. Compare what's shown on your paystub for health insurance deductions with what's in Box 14 of your W-2. If they match, then your employer is correctly reporting your pre-tax premium contributions in Box 14. This is totally normal and legitimate - you're not getting "screwed over" as someone mentioned earlier. The key thing to remember is that pre-tax health insurance premiums actually SAVE you money on taxes because they reduce your taxable income. So whether it's in Box 12 or Box 14, as long as those premiums were deducted pre-tax from your paycheck, you're benefiting tax-wise.

This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm a CPA and want to emphasize a few key points for anyone still confused about Box 14 reporting: 1. Box 14 is NOT an error box - it's specifically designed for additional information that doesn't have a dedicated spot elsewhere on the W-2. 2. Health insurance premiums in Box 14 typically indicate they were deducted pre-tax from your paycheck, which actually BENEFITS you by reducing your taxable income. 3. The location of the reporting (Box 12 vs Box 14) doesn't change your tax liability. What matters is whether the premiums were deducted pre-tax or post-tax. 4. If you want to verify everything is correct, compare your Box 1 wages (federal taxable income) with your gross pay from your final paystub. The difference should include your pre-tax deductions like health insurance. For the original poster - your employer is likely doing everything correctly. Box 14 reporting for insurance premiums is very common and completely legitimate. You're not losing money on your taxes because of this reporting method.

This is a great question and totally understandable confusion! As others have mentioned, the difference between Box 1 and Box 5 is usually due to pre-tax deductions. Since you mentioned this is the first year you've seen this difference, it sounds like you may have started or increased contributions to things like a 401(k), health insurance, or flexible spending account. To verify everything is correct, I'd recommend checking your final paystub from December 2024. Look for any "pre-tax" deductions and add them up - that total should roughly match the $5,800 difference between your boxes. Common culprits are: - Traditional 401(k) contributions (very common if you got a raise and decided to save more) - Health/dental/vision insurance premiums - Flexible Spending Account (FSA) or Health Savings Account (HSA) contributions - Dependent care assistance If the math doesn't add up or you can't find deductions that explain the difference, then it would be worth contacting HR. But in most cases, this difference is completely normal and actually beneficial since those pre-tax deductions reduce your federal income tax liability!

I just wanted to add that this exact scenario happened to me two years ago when I started contributing to an HSA for the first time. The $3,000 annual HSA contribution I made showed up as the difference between Box 1 and Box 5, and I panicked thinking my employer made an error. What helped me understand it was realizing that HSA contributions are "triple tax advantaged" - they reduce your federal income tax (hence lower Box 1), but you still pay Medicare tax on that income (hence it stays in Box 5). Same principle applies to traditional 401(k) contributions and most other pre-tax benefits. If you started any new benefits this year or increased existing contributions, that's almost certainly what you're seeing. The good news is this difference typically means you're saving money on your federal taxes! Just double-check your final paystub to make sure the pre-tax deductions add up to roughly that $5,800 difference.

Pro tip: if u have access to your last years tax return, the IP PIN should be on there. check line 6 of form 1040

Check if you have any IRS notices from this year - they sometimes include the new IP PIN. Also, if you filed through a tax preparer last year, they might have a copy of your PIN. Another option is to try the IRS2Go mobile app - sometimes it works when the website doesn't. Good luck!