Our daughter lives with me about 70% of the time, and I'm the custodial parent according to our divorce decree. My ex was supposed to claim her last year because we verbally agreed to alternate years, but apparently he never did. We don't have anything formal like Form 8332 filed. Does that mean I should definitely file the amendment then?

Yes, you should definitely file the amendment. Since you're the custodial parent with the child living with you 70% of the time, and you didn't sign Form 8332 to release the claim, you have the legal right to claim your daughter as a dependent. Without Form 8332, a non-custodial parent cannot claim the child regardless of verbal agreements. The IRS follows the documentation, not verbal agreements between parents. You're potentially leaving significant money on the table by not claiming her, especially with the expanded Child Tax Credit.

I used TurboTax to amend my return last year when I forgot to claim my son's college expenses. It was surprisingly easy - you just start an amended return and it walks you through what you want to change. For something like adding a dependent, it should recalculate everything including any credits you might be eligible for.

Do they handle multi-state employees? I have people working remotely from different states now and it's becoming a nightmare with my current system.

Thanks for sharing your experience! It's reassuring to hear from someone using it long-term. Does it handle tip reporting well? That's something we need to manage for our groomers. OnPay does handle multi-state employees really well according to their website. My brother mentioned they actually specialize in that since they work with a lot of construction companies that cross state lines. You can apparently set up unlimited state tax accounts without extra fees.

Oh man, I feel this comment in my SOUL. Did the same thing with my first business and ended up with a similar mess. Tax agencies have zero sense of humor about payroll mistakes.

That's exactly what I'm trying to avoid! I've been doing contract-only up until now, but as we're growing I'm bringing on more permanent staff. Did you end up with a software solution you liked after your spreadsheet disaster?

Is there any advantage to them putting themselves on actual payroll instead of just taking draws? I've heard something about S-corps saving on self-employment taxes but I'm fuzzy on the details.

There can be significant tax advantages to electing S-corporation status and putting yourself on payroll, but it comes with more complexity and costs. With an S-corp, you can pay yourself a "reasonable salary" subject to employment taxes, then take additional money as distributions that aren't subject to self-employment tax. This can save thousands in self-employment taxes depending on your profit level, but you'll have additional costs: payroll processing, employment tax filings (including Forms 940 and 941), workers' comp insurance, and additional accounting complexity. Generally, businesses making $40,000+ in profit might benefit from this structure, but it's very situation-dependent and requires professional guidance to do correctly.

Thanks for the practical advice! We're definitely keeping track of all our expenses. Is there anything specific to the cleaning business that people commonly miss as legitimate deductions? We're currently using our personal cars to get to jobs.

Thanks for bringing this up. We've been keeping personal and business finances separate, but we haven't been holding any formal meetings or keeping minutes. For board meetings, is this something we need to do monthly? And what kind of documentation should we keep for distributions?

You should hold and document board meetings at least quarterly, though monthly is better when you're making regular financial decisions. The minutes don't need to be elaborate - just record date, who attended, key decisions made (especially about finances), and have them signed. For distributions, create a simple corporate resolution for each one stating the amount, distribution date, and that it was approved by the board. Make sure distributions are proportional to ownership (51/49) unless you have specific documentation justifying otherwise. We got flagged because our distributions weren't matching our ownership percentages, which raised red flags with the IRS.

This is huge. I missed my first quarterly payment because I didn't understand S-Corp taxation and ended up with penalties. Talk to your accountant about setting up proper tax planning from day one.

Thanks for confirming this. When my S-Corp started making real money, I had no idea about estimated taxes and ended up with a huge tax bill plus penalties the following April. It's especially important with your 51/49 split - both of you will need to make individual quarterly payments based on your share of the profits, even before you take distributions.

This is exactly what I'm afraid of. Did you try calling the IRS beforehand to discuss settlement options, or did you go straight to representing yourself in court?

I tried calling the IRS multiple times but could never get through to anyone helpful. I just got transferred around and eventually disconnected. That's part of why I decided to fight it in court. Looking back, I should have been more persistent about reaching someone at the IRS who could discuss my case before the court date. Many cases get settled before court through their appeals process if you can actually reach the right person.

This is great advice! Do you need to qualify based on income to use these services? And how did you find them - did you just call the law school directly?