sign up for those email alerts they mentioned! thats how i knew exactly when mine was approved last year

I've been through this exact same situation! Filed through Cash App for NY state taxes last year and got the same "processing" message. It's totally normal - that's just their standard first status for all returns. The fact that you can see your tax year (2024) and form type (IT-201) displayed correctly means Cash App transmitted everything properly to NY state. I'd definitely recommend signing up for those email alerts like others mentioned - that's how I found out when mine was approved. NY typically takes 2-3 weeks to process, sometimes longer during busy periods. Cash App is legit for tax filing, so don't worry about that part!

Have you checked if there were any math errors on your return? Sometimes that can cause major delays.

I feel your pain! I'm actually going through something similar - been waiting 10 months for my 2023 refund. After reading through all these comments, I'm definitely going to check my tax transcript like Nick suggested. That breakdown of the codes to look for is super helpful. I had no idea about the Taxpayer Advocate Service either - might be worth looking into if this drags on much longer. It's frustrating how inconsistent the whole process seems to be. Some people get their refunds in weeks, others wait over a year. Hang in there, Ryan! 🤞

Just to add another perspective - while it's definitely good to correct mistakes, don't overthink this too much. The Child and Dependent Care Credit is one that the IRS sees errors on constantly. The documentation requirements are confusing, and providers often make mistakes. As long as you did actually pay for childcare (even if the amount was lower than what was reported), this is really just a matter of filing the 1040-X with the correct amounts. Given that you're voluntarily correcting this before any IRS contact, they're extremely unlikely to view this as anything but a good-faith correction. Don't let anxiety about this consume you - it's a relatively minor correction in the grand scheme of tax issues.

I went through almost the exact same situation two years ago with my daycare provider inflating numbers on their year-end statement. The guilt and anxiety were eating me alive, but the process was much smoother than I expected. Here's what worked for me: I filed Form 1040-X and in the explanation section wrote something like "Correcting Child and Dependent Care Credit based on actual amounts paid rather than inflated documentation provided by care provider." I included my bank statements and receipts showing the actual payments I made. The IRS processed my amended return without any issues - no audit, no penalties, just had to pay the additional tax owed plus a small amount of interest (maybe $18 on a $800 difference). The whole thing was resolved in about 8 weeks. The fact that you're coming forward voluntarily before they discover it shows good faith. Don't torture yourself over this - you trusted documentation that was provided to you, which is completely reasonable. File the 1040-X with the correct amounts and put this behind you. You're doing the right thing.

Make sure to check your credit report ASAP!!! When my ex controlled our finances, he also opened credit cards in my name that I didn't know about. Financial abuse often extends beyond just taxes. Get free reports from all three bureaus through annualcreditreport.com and look for any accounts you don't recognize.

I'm so sorry you're going through this - financial abuse is real and the tax implications can be overwhelming. Beyond the excellent advice about innocent spouse relief, I want to emphasize that you should act quickly. There are time limits for filing Form 8857, and the sooner you start the process, the better your chances of success. Document everything you can remember about being excluded from financial decisions. Screenshots of texts, emails, or even diary entries from that time period can help establish the pattern of control. The IRS needs to see that you had no reasonable opportunity to know about the fraudulent items on your joint returns. Also, don't let fear paralyze you. Yes, joint filers are generally liable for the entire tax bill, but innocent spouse relief exists specifically for situations like yours. The IRS has seen cases of financial abuse before, and they have procedures in place to help victims. You took the hardest step by leaving that relationship - now take the next step to protect yourself financially.

Heads up - calling the IRS is basically impossible rn. I tried for 2 weeks straight and couldn't get through. Save yourself the headache

I'm in a similar situation - filed early and have been stuck in "processing" limbo for weeks now. One thing that helped me understand what might be happening is that the IRS has been dealing with some system upgrades and staffing issues that are causing longer processing times than usual this year. The fact that both your federal and state returns show as "accepted" is actually a good sign - it means there were no immediate red flags that would cause an outright rejection. The processing delay could be due to several factors: identity verification reviews, earned income credit verification, or just general backlog. Since you're past your estimated deposit date of 02/12, you might want to wait another week or two before taking action. If you're still stuck in processing by early March, you could try calling the taxpayer advocate service - they're sometimes easier to reach than the main IRS line and can help with extended delays. Also double-check that your bank account info matches exactly what you put on your return, including account type (checking vs savings). Sometimes even small discrepancies can cause delays.