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Something nobody's mentioned yet - even if your cousin was technically allowed to claim her for 2024 taxes, you should be documenting EVERYTHING now for your 2025 taxes. Save receipts for: - Clothing/school supplies - Medical expenses - Food costs - Portion of rent/utilities - Transportation costs - Any activities or lessons The more documentation you have showing you're providing over 50% of support, the stronger your case will be next year. Also, make sure your sister is registered at school with your address! That's a big one the IRS looks at.
Thanks for this advice! I've already started keeping receipts but I didn't think about the school registration part. Her school still has my cousin's address listed as her home address. Should I get that changed right away or wait until the start of next semester?
Definitely get the school address updated immediately. Don't wait for next semester. This is one of the strongest pieces of documentation the IRS considers when determining where a child actually lives. While you're at it, make sure any doctor's offices, dentists, and other official records have your current address too. Also, if your sister sees any kind of therapist or counselor, having them document that she lives with you can be extremely helpful. The more official records showing she's under your care, the better position you'll be in for next year's taxes.
I actually work at a tax prep office and see this kind of thing all the time. One thing to consider - if your sister is over 17, the child tax credit wouldn't apply anyway. Make sure she's actually eligible before pursuing this.
Good point. The post doesn't mention the sister's age. For 2024/2025 taxes, the child tax credit is only for kids under 17 at the end of the tax year. If she's older, this would be about the dependent exemption, not the child tax credit.
She's 14, so definitely eligible for the child tax credit. I should have mentioned that in my original post, sorry for the confusion! Good to know there's an age cutoff though.
Have you checked your IRS online account? Go to irs.gov and set up an account if you don't already have one. Sometimes the online system shows more up-to-date information than what phone reps can see. You should be able to see your transcripts there and confirm if your return was processed and what payments have been applied. Also, did you file electronically or by mail? If by mail, there's still a huge backlog and your return might be sitting in a pile somewhere while your payments are being processed separately.
Thanks for this suggestion. I did try to check my online account before calling, but it shows the same thing - no 2023 return on file, but it does show the installment payments coming out. We filed electronically through our tax preparer, and I even have the acceptance confirmation she forwarded to us. That's what makes this so confusing!
That's definitely strange that you have an electronic acceptance confirmation but the return isn't showing up in their system. This sounds like it could be a case where the return was accepted for transmission but then got flagged for some reason during processing. Since you have the acceptance confirmation, that's incredibly important evidence. Make sure to have that document number ready when you call again. You might need to request that they research the specific transmission using that acceptance code, as it proves the return was at least initially received by their system.
Make sure to check if your preparer actually e-filed your return or just prepared it! I had a similar issue where I THOUGHT my return was filed, but the preparer had only prepared it and given me a copy without actually transmitting it to the IRS. Embarrassing situation but it happens more than you'd think.
This happened to my sister too! Her preparer had her sign the authorization to e-file, but then never actually submitted it. She only found out when she got a failure-to-file notice. Always get that acceptance confirmation!
I'm pretty sure our preparer did file it because I have an email with the acceptance confirmation from the IRS that she forwarded to us. It has a submission ID number and everything. That's what makes this extra confusing - if the IRS accepted it, why isn't it showing up in their system now?
Another resource worth mentioning is your local library. Many libraries offer free tax help programs during filing season. The volunteers are certified by the IRS through the VITA program and can handle returns with self-employment income up to a certain amount. They might also have hard copies of all the forms and instruction booklets you need.
This is a great suggestion, thank you! Do you know if these volunteers can handle questions about investment income too? And do I need to make an appointment or can I just walk in?
Most VITA volunteers are trained to handle basic investment income like interest, dividends, and simple capital gains. They might not be able to help with very complex investment situations though. You'll definitely want to make an appointment - these services get booked up quickly during tax season. Call your local library or check their website to see when they offer tax help and how to schedule. Some places also require you to bring specific documents, so ask about that when you call.
I've been filing paper returns for 10+ years with side income. My best advice is to look at last year's tax return if you have one, and use it as a template. The forms barely change year to year. For the new stuff, grab the specific form instructions (not the giant publications) from irs.gov. If you're doing DoorDash, just google "Schedule C example for delivery driver" and you'll find tons of examples showing exactly what expenses you can claim. Same for investments - search for examples of filled out Schedule B and Schedule D forms.
This is solid advice. I did DoorDash last year and the biggest thing was tracking mileage - you can deduct $0.67 per mile for 2023 which adds up quick! Make sure you have some kind of mileage log if you get audited.
Another thing to consider is your friend's situation. While it doesn't affect YOUR tax deduction, they probably should know that income received through payment apps over $600/year will be reported to the IRS starting with 2025 filing season. The rules changed recently. So while you can claim your legitimate business deduction, your friend might want to consider setting up a proper business structure if they're going to continue selling food regularly. Just a heads up that might be helpful to pass along!
Thanks for bringing this up - I hadn't considered this angle. Do you know if there's some kind of threshold before someone needs to officially register as a business? My friend is really just testing the waters with occasional food sales.
There's no specific threshold for when someone needs to register as a business - that varies by state and local regulations for food service. However, for tax reporting purposes, any income earned (even from a hobby) needs to be reported regardless of business registration status. The $600 threshold is just about when payment apps are required to send 1099-K forms. Your friend should be reporting the income even below that amount, but many people don't realize this. They might want to look into a Sole Proprietorship at minimum since it's the simplest business structure and would allow them to deduct legitimate business expenses against that income.
Has anyone actually had the IRS question a business meal deduction because the vendor wasn't a formal business? I've been in business 5 years and have never had this come up in my annual tax filings.
I actually had this exact issue come up during a business audit last year. The IRS didn't care at all that some of our business meals were from non-traditional vendors (food trucks, pop-ups, farmers market vendors). What they focused on was whether we had proper documentation of the business purpose, who attended, and proof of payment.
Lena Mรผller
Make sure you also request a "Taxpayer Assistance Order" using Form 911 if your situation is causing significant financial hardship (which it sounds like it is). This is an emergency procedure through the Taxpayer Advocate Service that can expedite release of your funds when you're facing hardship. Also document EVERYTHING. Every call, every person you speak with, every reference number. The IRS system is incredibly fragmented and you often need to refer to previous conversations. Ask for confirmation numbers for any action they promise to take.
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Dmitri Volkov
โขThank you! Just looked up Form 911 and it definitely applies to my situation. Does filing this form actually speed things up significantly? And should I submit it online or take it to an IRS office in person?
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Lena Mรผller
โขFiling Form 911 can definitely accelerate resolution, especially for bank levy situations. The Taxpayer Advocate Service has authority to intervene when there's financial hardship. The fastest approach is to fax it directly to your local Taxpayer Advocate office (find the number on the IRS website), then follow up with a phone call the next day. In-person delivery to an IRS office can also work, but many offices now require appointments which could delay things. Be sure to clearly document the immediate hardship (risk of eviction, inability to buy medication, etc.) as this affects how quickly they act on your case.
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TechNinja
One important thing no one's mentioned - immediately request a "trace" on your SSN with the IRS. I went through something similar and discovered someone had created a fraudulent connection between my SSN and their business tax issues. Call the IRS Identity Protection Specialized Unit at 800-908-4490 specifically. They can place an identity theft marker on your account which prevents future mix-ups. Also check your credit report immediately in case this is part of a larger identity theft issue.
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Keisha Thompson
โขWould this actually help if it's just a mix-up rather than identity theft? I think OP's issue is just the IRS confusing them with their relative, not actual fraud.
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