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Sofia Torres

Confused about EDD PFL requirements for fathers - job protection vs. eligibility?

I'm expecting to become a father in June 2025 and trying to plan ahead for baby bonding time, but I'm completely lost on how PFL works through EDD for dads. The EDD website mentions paid leave but doesn't clearly state if I need a minimum time at my job (like FMLA's 1 year requirement) or minimum work hours to qualify. Coworkers are giving me conflicting info - some say I need employer approval, others say EDD is separate from employer policies. What's really confusing me is how job protection works. If I qualify for EDD PFL benefits but not FMLA/CFRA (I've only been at my company for 8 months), can my employer legally replace me while I'm bonding with my baby? Basically, I'm trying to understand if PFL through EDD is something separate from employer leave policies, or if they're connected. Can someone explain this in simple terms? Thanks!

California PFL is totally separate from job protection. Two different things that people mix up all the time! PFL through EDD is just about wage replacement (getting paid while you're off). You qualify if you've paid into SDI through payroll deductions, typically over the past 5-18 months. No minimum hours requirement. You get 8 weeks of partial pay for baby bonding. Job protection comes from FMLA/CFRA, which DO require 1+ year at your employer and 1250+ hours. If you don't qualify for those, your job isn't legally protected during PFL. You don't need employer approval for PFL benefits - it's your right if you've paid into SDI. But your employer doesn't have to hold your position if you're not FMLA/CFRA eligible.

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Sofia Torres

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Thanks for explaining! So even though I won't have been at my job for a full year when the baby comes, I could still get the PFL payments from EDD if I've been paying into SDI? But my employer could technically let me go since I'm not covered by FMLA/CFRA? That's really important to know - changes my planning completely.

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dude the whole system is SO confusing i went thru this last year with my daughter. basically EDD doesnt care about how long youve worked somewhere, just that youve been paying SDI taxes. but ya your job isnt protected unless you qualify for FMLA/CFRA which is the year thing

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Sofia Torres

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That's what I was afraid of. Did you end up taking time off? Did your employer give you any trouble about it?

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i took 4 weeks instead of 8 cuz i was paranoid about my job. my boss was cool but HR kept sending me confusing emails. honestly wish i took all 8 weeks, really regret missing that time with my baby girl

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Ava Rodriguez

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Let me add some important nuance here: 1) California PFL provides 8 weeks of paid baby bonding at approximately 60-70% of your wages (up to a maximum) 2) You qualify for PFL if you've contributed to SDI via payroll deductions 3) Your employer CANNOT deny your PFL claim - it's between you and EDD 4) BUT your employer CAN deny you time off or replace you if you don't qualify for job protection 5) Some employers have their OWN parental leave policies that might give you protection even if you don't qualify for FMLA/CFRA I recommend checking your employee handbook for paternity leave policies and having a frank conversation with HR about your situation. Get everything in writing!

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Sofia Torres

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Thanks for the detailed explanation. I'll definitely check our handbook and talk to HR. I'm trying to find the sweet spot between maximizing time with my new baby while not putting my job at risk.

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Miguel Diaz

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Question - does anyone know how long EDD takes to process PFL claims for baby bonding? My brother applied last month and is still waiting to hear anything!

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Zainab Ahmed

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Totally off-topic but I'll bite... It took about 2-3 weeks for my claim to process last year. If he's waiting longer than that, he should definitely call EDD. The problem is actually REACHING someone at EDD - I spent days trying to get through. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an EDD agent in about 20 minutes instead of spending days redialing. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/DOLxZQb92wM?si=6N1iCQ3a8Cdb2Ay5 Worth every penny when I was desperate to get my claim unstuck. The agent told me there was a simple document missing that I hadn't been notified about.

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Miguel Diaz

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Thanks!! Will let my brother know. Sorry for the thread derail!

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**WARNING TO ALL NEW DADS** - make sure you understand exactly what you're eligible for BEFORE taking time off!!!! I got SCREWED last year because I thought PFL meant my job was protected. Came back after 8 weeks and they had "restructured" my position out of existence. TOTALLY LEGAL because I'd only been there 9 months. The EDD benefits paid about 65% of my salary but I ended up UNEMPLOYED with a newborn. California's system is BROKEN - they give benefits with one hand while letting employers fire you with the other!

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AstroAlpha

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I'm really sorry that happened to you, but I think it's important to clarify that the system isn't exactly broken - it's just two separate systems that don't fully align. PFL provides wage replacement while FMLA/CFRA provides job protection. The problem is that many people don't understand they're separate until it's too late. For anyone reading: ALWAYS check what job protections you have before taking leave. Some companies have more generous policies than the legal minimum, so talk to HR and get everything documented before going on leave.

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Call it what you want but a system that gives benefits you can't safely use IS BROKEN. What good is paid leave if using it costs your job? How is a new parent supposed to navigate all this legal complexity? The average person doesn't understand the difference between PFL, FMLA, CFRA, PDL, and all the other alphabet soup.

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OP, there's one more thing to consider - check if your employer is covered by the California Family Rights Act (CFRA). If they have 5+ employees, they're covered by CFRA, which provides 12 weeks of job-protected leave for baby bonding. The requirements are similar to FMLA (1 year at company, 1250+ hours worked). Some smaller employers are covered by CFRA but not FMLA, so it's worth checking both. Also, some cities like San Francisco have additional family leave ordinances that might help you.

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Sofia Torres

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We have about 70 employees, so sounds like CFRA would apply. But since I'll only have been there 8 months when the baby arrives, I still wouldn't qualify for the job protection part. Thanks for bringing this up though!

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Yara Khoury

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when i had my kid last year i just told my boss i was taking 8 weeks and he was fine with it even tho i wasnt eligible for fmla yet. depends on your relationship with management and how much they value you i guess. have you talked to your boss about it yet?

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Sofia Torres

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Not yet - I was trying to understand all the rules first before bringing it up. My boss is generally reasonable, but I work in a high-pressure industry where people rarely take extended time off. I'm planning to have the conversation next month after our big project wraps up.

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AstroAlpha

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I'm a HR specialist who deals with leave administration. Here's what you need to know: 1. EDD PFL eligibility is based on your contributions to SDI, not your length of employment or hours worked. If you see SDI deductions on your paystub, you likely qualify. 2. You apply directly to EDD for PFL benefits. Your employer doesn't approve/deny these benefits. 3. Job protection is completely separate. Without FMLA/CFRA eligibility (1 year, 1250 hours), your employer isn't legally required to hold your position. 4. However, many employers have separate paternity leave policies that might provide job protection even without FMLA/CFRA eligibility. 5. Replacing an employee on bonding leave (even a non-FMLA eligible one) can sometimes create legal risks for employers, so many will hold your position regardless. My advice: Review your company handbook, speak with HR about their paternity leave practices (not just policies), and get any agreements in writing.

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Sofia Torres

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Thank you for such a clear explanation! This is exactly what I needed to understand. I'll definitely check our handbook and speak with HR. I appreciate the tip about asking about their practices, not just policies - that's smart.

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Jamal Brown

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One thing that hasn't been mentioned yet - if you're planning to take PFL for baby bonding, you should also consider the timing strategically. PFL baby bonding leave must be taken within the first year after your child's birth, but it doesn't have to be taken immediately. Since you're concerned about job security, you might want to consider taking a shorter initial leave (maybe 2-4 weeks) right after birth, then saving the remaining weeks for later in the year when you've hit that 12-month employment mark and would qualify for CFRA job protection. Also, don't forget that if your partner is also eligible for PFL, you can coordinate your leaves. California allows both parents to take their full 8 weeks each - they don't have to share a combined amount like some other states. Good luck with your new addition!

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This is brilliant advice! I hadn't thought about splitting the leave like that. Taking maybe 3-4 weeks right after birth and then saving the remaining 4-5 weeks for later in the year when I'd have job protection makes so much sense. That way I get crucial bonding time early on but can take a longer stretch later without worrying about my position. Thanks for thinking outside the box on this - really appreciate the strategic approach!

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Kevin Bell

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That's such a smart strategy! I never considered that I could split up the 8 weeks like that. Taking a few weeks right after birth for the immediate bonding and adjustment period, then saving the rest for when I have job protection sounds like the perfect compromise. My partner will likely be taking some leave too, so we could really coordinate this well. Thanks for opening my eyes to this approach - it gives me a lot more confidence about planning this whole thing!

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Zara Mirza

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This is really smart advice about splitting the leave! I hadn't considered that option at all. Taking maybe 2-3 weeks right after birth for those crucial early bonding moments, then saving the remaining 5-6 weeks for later in the year when I'd qualify for CFRA protection could be the perfect solution. It lets me be there for the immediate postpartum period while minimizing job risk, then I can take a longer stretch later with full protection. Thanks for this creative approach - it's exactly the kind of strategic thinking I needed!

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NebulaNomad

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Just wanted to add another perspective as someone who navigated this situation recently. I was in almost the exact same boat - expecting my first child with only 10 months at my company when baby arrived. After reading through all the great advice here, I ended up having a very honest conversation with my manager about my situation. I explained that I understood I wasn't eligible for job protection under FMLA/CFRA, but that I wanted to take some PFL time for bonding and asked what the company's approach would be. Turns out my employer had an informal policy of treating paternity leave requests favorably even for newer employees, especially when handled transparently. I took 6 weeks total - 2 weeks right after birth, then 4 more weeks spread out over the next few months when work was slower. The key was being upfront about my situation and flexible with timing. I also made sure to document everything and had multiple conversations with both my direct manager and HR before the baby arrived. Every situation is different, but sometimes having that direct conversation can reveal options you didn't know existed. Just make sure you're prepared for any answer and have backup plans.

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Sophia Long

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This is really encouraging to hear! Your approach of being transparent and flexible sounds like exactly what I should do. I love that you found a middle ground with the 6 weeks split up over time - that seems like a win-win where you got meaningful bonding time while showing your employer you were willing to work with their needs. The point about having backup plans is important too. I think I'll prepare a few different scenarios (2 weeks, 4 weeks, split timing, etc.) before I sit down with my manager and HR. Having that documented conversation trail you mentioned also sounds crucial for protecting myself. Thanks for sharing your real-world experience - it gives me hope that there might be more flexibility than the black-and-white legal requirements suggest!

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Mateo Hernandez

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As someone who went through this exact situation two years ago, I want to emphasize something that might get overlooked - make sure you understand how PFL payments actually work before you rely on them financially. The 60-70% wage replacement sounds decent on paper, but there are some catches: 1) There's a weekly benefit cap (around $1,620/week max in 2025) 2) The percentage is based on your highest quarter of earnings in your "base period" which might be lower than your current salary 3) There's a 7-day waiting period before benefits start 4) You won't get your first payment for 2-3 weeks after filing I made the mistake of assuming I'd get exactly 65% of my current paycheck and nearly got into financial trouble. Double-check the EDD website's benefit calculator or call them to get an estimate of your actual weekly benefit amount before making any major financial commitments. Also, start setting aside some emergency savings now if you can - even with PFL benefits, those first few weeks without any income can be tight, especially with new baby expenses piling up!

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