Can I quit toxic job at 21 weeks pregnant and still get EDD maternity benefits?
I'm really struggling with my current work situation and need advice ASAP! I'm 21 weeks pregnant and my work environment has become increasingly toxic (micromanaging boss, unreasonable deadlines, subtle pregnancy discrimination). I'm seriously considering quitting before my due date for my mental health and baby's wellbeing. My question is: If I voluntarily leave now, will I still qualify for pregnancy disability and PFL baby bonding benefits later? I've worked at this company for 15 months and have definitely been paying into CA SDI the whole time (I check my paystubs). Has anyone quit during pregnancy and still successfully claimed benefits? Any experiences or advice would be so appreciated!
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Hunter Brighton
This is an important question that comes up often. The short answer is that quitting voluntarily can potentially affect your benefits, but it's not a simple yes/no. Here's what you need to know: 1. Pregnancy Disability Leave (PDL) benefits through SDI are based on medical necessity, not employment status. If your doctor certifies you're disabled due to pregnancy (typically 4 weeks before birth and 6-8 weeks after), you can still qualify even if you quit. 2. For Paid Family Leave (PFL) baby bonding, you technically don't need to be employed, but you must have earned enough wages during your base period (usually 5-18 months before your claim). 3. The potential issue is that EDD might investigate why you left your job. If they determine you quit without "good cause," they could potentially disqualify you from certain benefits. I'd recommend speaking with your doctor about documenting any pregnancy-related health impacts from your work stress. This documentation can help establish medical necessity if needed later.
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Grace Thomas
•Thank you so much for this detailed response! So even if I quit, as long as my doctor certifies that I'm disabled due to pregnancy later on, I could still get the PDL benefits? That's a huge relief. Do you know if workplace stress affecting my pregnancy would count as "good cause" for quitting? My blood pressure has actually been elevated at my last two appointments which my doctor noted could be stress-related.
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Dylan Baskin
hi i went thru something similar last year!! quit my job at 24 wks bc my boss was AWFUL. got my benefits no problem but make sure u have ur doctor document EVERYTHING about ur stress levels and bp etc. my dr wrote a note saying the job stress was harmful to my pregnancy and that helped alot
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Grace Thomas
•That's such a relief to hear! Did you just go through the normal application process? Did EDD ever question you about why you left your job during the application process?
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Lauren Wood
THE EDD SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO DENY YOU!!!! I quit at 19 weeks for similar reasons and they initially DENIED my claim saying I "voluntarily quit without good cause" even though I had DOCUMENTED HARASSMENT. I had to appeal and wait MONTHS while 9 months pregnant with no income!!! Make sure you document EVERYTHING and get your doctor to explicitly state the job is affecting your health and pregnancy. Don't trust what anyone at EDD tells you on the phone either - I got different answers from EVERY person I talked to (when I could even reach someone)!!!
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Ellie Lopez
•This happened to me too! 3 different EDD reps gave me 3 completely different answers about quitting while pregnant. I finally used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual EDD specialist who knew the pregnancy rules. They got me connected in like 10 mins when I'd been trying for days. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/DOLxZQb92wM?si=6N1iCQ3a8Cdb2Ay5. The specialist explained exactly what documentation I needed from my doctor to qualify despite quitting. Totally worth it cuz my claim eventually got approved.
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Chad Winthrope
I'm an HR benefits specialist who deals with these situations often. Let me clarify a few important points: 1. Pregnancy Disability Leave benefits come through State Disability Insurance (SDI), which is separate from unemployment benefits. The eligibility rules are different. 2. You can absolutely receive SDI benefits even after voluntarily quitting IF your disability (medical condition related to pregnancy) is certified by your doctor. Your work separation reason primarily affects unemployment benefits, not disability benefits. 3. For Paid Family Leave baby bonding benefits, you need to have contributed to SDI during your base period and have a qualifying event (birth of your child). You don't need to be currently employed when you apply for PFL. 4. Documentation is key. Have your doctor document any pregnancy complications related to workplace stress (elevated blood pressure, anxiety, etc.). 5. File your DE2501 (disability claim) form when your doctor certifies you're disabled due to pregnancy, typically 4 weeks before your due date.
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Grace Thomas
•Thank you for this expert advice! This makes me feel so much better about my options. I have an appointment with my OB next week and will definitely discuss getting proper documentation about my work-related stress affecting the pregnancy. Should I also file any specific paperwork when I quit to help my case later?
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Paige Cantoni
Just want to add that these benefits are insurance programs YOU PAID INTO through your paycheck deductions. You're not asking for a handout - you've been paying premiums for this coverage! I left my toxic job at 18 weeks after my doctor wrote a note saying the stress was causing pregnancy complications. Got my full PDL starting at 36 weeks and then my 8 weeks of baby bonding PFL after delivery without any issues. Just make sure when you apply you focus on the medical necessity rather than workplace complaints.
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Dylan Baskin
•yesss exactly!!! we pay into this system its OUR MONEY not a handout!!! my boss tried to make me feel guilty for even considering taking leave but im so glad i quit when i did. my babys health was way more important than that toxic job
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Kylo Ren
Has anyone considered trying to get accommodations under PDLL before quitting? My sister was in a similar situation but she requested reduced hours as an accommodation first and documented that they refused before quitting. Apparently that helped her claim later. Just a thought.
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Hunter Brighton
•This is an excellent point that's often overlooked. California's Pregnancy Disability Leave Law (PDLL) requires employers with 5+ employees to provide reasonable accommodations for pregnancy-related conditions. Requesting and documenting denied accommodations can strengthen your case for "good cause" if you later quit. Examples of reasonable accommodations might include modified work duties, flexible scheduling, or temporary transfers to less strenuous positions. Always put accommodation requests in writing and keep copies of all communications.
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Dylan Baskin
dont forget ur job might also try to deny u unemployment to if u quit so prepare for that!!! but SDI and PFL r different. i didnt get unemployment but did get the pregnancy disability and baby bonding no problem
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Grace Thomas
•That's a really good point - I wasn't even thinking about unemployment! I have some savings to tide me over until the pregnancy disability would start, so maybe that's not a huge concern. I'm more worried about making sure I get the SDI and PFL since that's when I'll really need the income.
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Paige Cantoni
Another option to consider is talking to your doctor about going on SDI early due to pregnancy complications exacerbated by work stress. If your doctor certifies you as disabled due to pregnancy before your planned quit date, you could start receiving benefits while still technically employed, which might avoid some complications. In 2025, the weekly SDI benefit maximum is $1,620, so depending on your income, this could be substantial. Worth discussing with your OB at your next appointment.
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Lauren Wood
•THIS!!! My doctor put me on early pregnancy disability at 24 weeks because my job was literally giving me hypertension and she was worried about preeclampsia! The EDD can't argue with a MEDICAL CERTIFICATION and I got my benefits with NO QUESTIONS ASKED even though I never technically "quit" - I just never went back after my leave ended. BEST DECISION EVER!!!
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