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Ravi Sharma

Will my CalWORKs application be denied if I don't know who my child's father is?

I just started my CalWORKs application process and I'm worried about the child support part. When they asked about my daughter's father, I honestly put "I don't know" because it's complicated. The worker said they'd open a child support case and I agreed to cooperate. Last time I applied for CalWORKs I got denied because I didn't turn in some paperwork on time (couldn't figure out how to fill everything out correctly). Now I'm worried this child support thing might cause problems with my application. The worker mentioned they would try to locate him, which I'm actually fine with if they can. But will saying "I don't know who the father is" cause my application to be rejected? Has anyone dealt with this situation before?

You're doing the right thing by cooperating with child support. To be clear, just saying "I don't know" about the father won't automatically disqualify you from CalWORKs. The important part is that you agreed to cooperate with child support services. If you refused cooperation without good cause (like domestic violence concerns), THEN they could deny your Cash Aid or reduce it by 25% depending on your case. As long as you continue cooperating with whatever information they request during the child support process, your CalWORKs eligibility should not be affected by not knowing who the father is.

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Thank you so much! That's a relief. Do you know what kind of things they might ask me to do to "cooperate"? I really don't have much info to give them.

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when i applied i was in same boat, didnt kno who my sons dad was for real but i told them i would cooperate. they just had me fill out this form with whatever info i could give them (even if it wasnt much) and then i got approved for cash aid no problem. dont stress about it

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Thanks for sharing your experience! That makes me feel better. Did they keep bothering you about it after you got approved or was filling out that form enough?

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This happened to my cousin and they still approved her but she had to meet with the child support worker like every month for a while. They kept asking for more details and stuff but never cut her benefits. As long as u show up when they ask u to ur fine.

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I just want to clarify something important here - they don't usually require monthly meetings with child support services unless there's a specific reason. Typically they'll have you complete the initial paperwork, maybe have an interview, and then they'll try to locate the father with whatever information you provide. They understand that sometimes mothers truly don't have much information. The key is just responding when they reach out and attending any scheduled appointments.

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You're okay as long as you're cooperating with Child Support Services. There are two main things you need to understand with CalWORKs and child support: 1. You MUST agree to cooperate with child support enforcement unless you have "good cause" for non-cooperation (like domestic violence or fear of harm) 2. If you refuse to cooperate without good cause, they can reduce your grant by 25% or deny it Simply not knowing who the father is will NOT disqualify you if you're willing to provide whatever information you do have and cooperate with their process. They understand some situations are complicated. Just be honest with whatever information you have and attend any meetings they schedule. Also - make sure you're turning in ALL your verification documents on time this time around! That's a common reason for denial.

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Thanks for the detailed explanation! I definitely learned my lesson about turning in paperwork on time. For the child support cooperation, do they usually want specific information like his full name and address? Or is giving them whatever I know (even if it's just a first name) considered cooperating?

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Ugh the child support thing is so FRUSTRATING. They act like they're helping but sometimes they just make life harder. I told them I didn't know who the father was either, and they kept sending me letters and scheduling appointments I couldn't make because of work. Then they threatened to cut my benefits!!! I had to get a good cause exemption because the situation was dangerous for me. Make sure you tell them if there's ANY safety concern - don't let them bully you into a dangerous situation just to get your benefits!!

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This is an important point - if there are ANY safety concerns or history of domestic violence, you should immediately request a good cause exemption from child support cooperation. Your safety and your child's safety comes first, and CalWORKs recognizes this with their good cause policy. You don't have to provide extensive proof - often a sworn statement is enough to get the exemption while they review your case.

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my sister had this exact same problem last year!!! the county worker was sooooo rude about it too like she was lying or something. she just kept going to all the appointments and eventually they gave up lol. as long as you show up when they tell you to they cant deny your CalWORKs

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Yep same thing happened to my cousin! The worker gave her major attitude but as long as she kept showing up they couldn't do anything about it.

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I used to be a CalWORKs eligibility worker, and I can tell you that cooperating with child support is a requirement, but not knowing the father's identity won't disqualify you as long as you're willing to work with them. Here's what the process typically looks like: 1. You'll complete a form with whatever information you have (even if minimal) 2. You might need to attend an interview with child support services 3. They'll use whatever information you provide to attempt to locate the father 4. You just need to respond to their requests for information and attend scheduled appointments If you truly don't know or have limited information, just be honest about it. They can't force you to provide information you don't have. The key is your willingness to cooperate with the process.

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Thank you for the insider perspective! That's very helpful to know. I'll make sure to attend any appointments they set up and provide what little information I have.

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I've never heard of that before. Does it actually work? I've been trying to get through to my worker all week with no luck.

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one other thing u should know they will keep ur child support money if u get calworks. they only give u the first $100 for one kid or $200 for 2+ kids each month (they call it the disregard amount) and keep the rest to pay back ur cash aid. just so u know what ur getting into

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This is correct. When you receive CalWORKs, you assign your rights to child support to the county. They keep most of the child support to reimburse themselves for your cash aid, except for the "disregard" amount ($100 for one child, $200 for two or more) which they pass through to you. This amount doesn't count against your CalWORKs grant calculation either. Just something to be aware of when budgeting.

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I went through this exact same situation about 6 months ago! I was so stressed about it too, but it turned out fine. When I said "I don't know" about my baby's father, they just had me fill out a form with whatever details I could remember - even tiny things like his approximate age, where I might have met him, physical description, etc. They're not expecting you to be a detective, they just want to see that you're willing to help with whatever you can. The child support worker was actually pretty understanding about it. My CalWORKs got approved without any issues and I've only had to meet with child support twice since then. Just be honest and cooperative and you'll be fine!

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