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Sophia Gabriel

FAFSA household size question: Can I include boyfriend and his mother? Affects Pell Grant eligibility

I'm really stressed about my son's FAFSA results and wondering if I made a mistake on the household size. Our living situation is complicated - I have my son and daughter living with me, plus my boyfriend and his mother (who he claims as a dependent on his taxes). We all live together in the same house, but I provide most of the financial support for the household. I only reported my household as my kids and me (so 3 people), but should I have included my boyfriend and his mother too? That would have made our household size 5 people total. My son just got his financial aid package and there's ZERO Pell Grant money, just work-study eligibility. I'm worried I messed up his aid by not including everyone in our household. The SAI score seems way too high considering how much we're struggling. Should I have my son submit a correction to the FAFSA to update our household size? Would that even change his Pell eligibility at this point? Time is running out for fall semester payments!

this is tricky! fafsa rules say household members have to be people you support financially and will keep supporting during the academic year. so if you're providing more than 50% support for your bf and his mom then maybe? but if he claims his mom as his dependent on taxes that means HE supports HER not you... so confused lol

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That's exactly what's confusing me! He claims his mom for tax purposes, but my income is what actually keeps the household running. I pay most of the rent, utilities, and groceries for everyone. It's such a weird situation.

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Ezra Beard

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For FAFSA household size, the rules are specific: you include yourself, your dependent children, and other people who live with you, receive more than half their support from you, and will continue to receive that support during the award year. The key question is: Are you providing more than 50% of the financial support for your boyfriend and his mother? If so, they should count in your household size. The fact that your boyfriend claims his mother on his taxes doesn't necessarily prevent you from counting them in your FAFSA household if you're truly providing the majority of their support. Increasing your household size from 3 to 5 could significantly impact your son's SAI calculation and potentially qualify him for Pell Grant funds. I would recommend submitting a correction right away.

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Thank you! Yes, I'd estimate I'm providing about 70% of the total household support. My boyfriend works part-time and his mother gets a small social security check, but my income covers most of our bills. I'll have my son submit a correction tomorrow.

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I had something kinda similar with my stepdad who wasnt married to my mom yet but lived with us. Financial aid office told us if he wasnt legally married to my mom and wasnt my legal parent we couldnt count him. Maybe check with your schools financial aid office before changing anything??

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That's a good point. I should probably check with the financial aid office before making any changes. I don't want to make things worse!

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This is an important distinction: for the 2024-2025 FAFSA, the concept of "household size" works differently than previous years with the new SAI formula. The key factor is who you provide more than 50% support for, regardless of who claims who on tax returns. For parent households on FAFSA, you include: 1. Yourself 2. Your spouse (if applicable) 3. Your children (including the student) 4. Other people who live with you AND receive more than 50% of their support from you If you truly provide the majority of financial support for your boyfriend and his mother, they should be included. However, be prepared to document this if selected for verification. I'd recommend contacting the school's financial aid office directly before making changes, as they can run a preliminary calculation to see if the adjusted household size would impact your son's Pell eligibility.

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Aria Khan

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THIS!!!! The new FAFSA is totally different with how they calculate stuff. My daughter's aid advisor told us that household size is one of the biggest factors in the new SAI formula. OP needs to get this fixed ASAP because larger household = more aid!!!

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Everett Tutum

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I spent HOURS trying to reach someone at Federal Student Aid about a similar household question last month. The wait times were ridiculous - I kept getting disconnected after 30+ minutes of waiting. Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an actual FAFSA agent in about 15 minutes. They have this video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent told me that for household size questions, what matters most is who lives with you AND who you financially support by more than 50%. They said tax filing status isn't the determining factor - it's about actual financial support. Correcting our household size made a $3,500 difference in my daughter's aid package.

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Thank you for sharing this! I've been trying to call FSA for days with no luck. I'll check out that service - if changing our household size could make thousands of dollars difference, it's definitely worth getting correct information.

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Sunny Wang

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the whole fafsa system is BROKEN!!!! my nephew has 8 people in his household and still got zero pell grants. meanwhile my coworkers kid got full pell with just her and her mom. makes NO SENSE how they calculate this stuff. good luck but dont get your hopes up

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Ezra Beard

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While household size is important, it's just one of many factors in the SAI calculation. Income and assets relative to the federal poverty level for your household size are the main determining factors. The new FAFSA formula also has different income protection allowances than previous years.

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wait i'm confused do u mean 5 or 6 people? in your title u said 6 but in your post u said 5 (you, 2 kids, boyfriend, his mom)??

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Sorry for the confusion - you're right, it would be 5 total people. I think I accidentally counted wrong when I was typing out the title because I was so stressed about this whole situation.

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One more important note: If you do submit a correction, do it as soon as possible. Many schools have already allocated their institutional funds, and while Pell Grants are entitlement-based (meaning you'll get what you qualify for regardless of when you apply), other types of aid may be depleted. Also, be aware that correcting your household size may trigger verification, where you'll need to provide documentation of your support for these additional household members. This could include: - Rent/mortgage statements showing you as the primary payer - Utility bills in your name - Records of groceries and other household expenses - Proof that your boyfriend's mother lives with you But if you're providing 70% of their support as you mentioned, this change is absolutely worth pursuing and could significantly increase your son's aid eligibility.

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Thank you for the detailed advice. I'm going to gather all these documents just in case we get selected for verification. I have most of the bills in my name already, and I can print out my bank statements showing the recurring payments. I'm calling the financial aid office first thing in the morning.

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Aria Khan

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When my cousin updated her household size it took FOREVER to process the correction! Like almost 2 months!! And by then they said all the grant money was gone except for the Pell. So if u do update it DO IT NOW!!!

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I'm new here but dealing with a similar household confusion! My situation isn't quite the same but I wanted to share what I learned when I called my school's financial aid office last week. They told me that the most important thing is being able to prove you provide more than 50% support if you get selected for verification. They also mentioned that even if you fix the household size, it might not guarantee Pell eligibility depending on your income level - but it's definitely worth trying since household size is such a big factor in the new SAI formula. One thing that helped me was making a simple spreadsheet showing all monthly expenses and who pays what percentage. That way if they ask for documentation later, you have it organized already. Good luck getting this sorted out before fall semester!

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Elijah Brown

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That spreadsheet idea is brilliant! I wish I had thought of that before submitting the original FAFSA. I'm definitely going to create one now showing our household expenses breakdown - it'll make everything so much clearer if we need to provide documentation. Thanks for the tip about calling the school directly too, that seems like the safest approach before making any changes.

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StarSurfer

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Just wanted to chime in as someone who went through a household size correction last year! The key thing that helped me was documenting EVERYTHING before making the change. I created a monthly budget breakdown showing exactly how much I was contributing vs. the other household members. When I called my school's financial aid office, they actually ran a preliminary SAI calculation with the updated household size before I submitted the correction - this way I knew it would make a meaningful difference. In my case, going from 3 to 5 household members dropped my SAI by about $4,000 and qualified my daughter for a partial Pell Grant. One heads up though - the verification process was pretty thorough. They wanted 3 months of bank statements, utility bills, grocery receipts, and a signed statement from me explaining the living arrangement and support provided. But it was 100% worth the hassle for the additional aid we received. Definitely call the financial aid office first before making any FAFSA changes. They can walk you through exactly what documentation you'll need and give you a realistic expectation of how it might impact your son's aid package. Time is definitely of the essence here!

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This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I'm so glad to hear from someone who actually went through this process successfully. The idea of having the financial aid office run a preliminary calculation before submitting changes is genius - I had no idea they could do that! Your experience gives me hope that this correction could really make a difference for my son's aid package. I'm definitely going to start gathering all those documents you mentioned right away. Did you have any trouble proving the 50% support requirement when the other household members had some income of their own? I'm calling the financial aid office first thing Monday morning. Fingers crossed they can help us figure this out before it's too late for fall semester!

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Just wanted to add that I went through something very similar with my son's FAFSA this year! We had my elderly father living with us and I was providing most of his support, but I initially didn't include him in our household size because he receives Social Security. After talking to our financial aid counselor, I learned that Social Security income doesn't disqualify someone from being counted in your household if you're still providing more than 50% of their total support. The counselor explained that you look at ALL their expenses (housing, food, medical, etc.) and if you're covering more than half, they should be included. In your case, even though your boyfriend's mom gets Social Security and he claims her on taxes, if you're truly covering 70% of everyone's living expenses, both of them should probably be counted. The tax dependency and the FAFSA household size rules are completely separate things. I'd definitely recommend calling the school's financial aid office before making changes though. Our counselor was able to walk me through exactly how to document everything and even gave me a rough estimate of how the correction would affect our SAI. The whole process took about 3 weeks once I submitted the correction, and my son ended up qualifying for about $2,800 more in Pell Grant money. Don't give up - household size corrections can make a huge difference with the new FAFSA formula!

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NeonNebula

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who successfully went through a similar situation. The point about Social Security not disqualifying someone from being counted is especially helpful - I wasn't sure how that would factor in with my boyfriend's mother receiving those benefits. Your explanation about looking at ALL expenses to determine the 50% support makes total sense. I'm feeling much more confident about moving forward with this correction now. Getting an extra $2,800 in Pell Grant money would be life-changing for us right now! I'm definitely going to call the financial aid office tomorrow and see if they can run that preliminary calculation like you mentioned.

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Natalie Wang

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I'm new to this community but wanted to share what I just learned from my own FAFSA household situation! I had a similar dilemma with my stepmom who isn't legally married to my dad yet but lives with us. After reading through all these responses, I called my school's financial aid office yesterday and they were super helpful. The advisor told me that the 50% support rule is the key factor - not marriage status, not who claims who on taxes, but who actually provides the majority of financial support. She also mentioned something really important: with the new FAFSA formula this year, household size has a much bigger impact on your SAI than it did with the old EFC system. So getting this right could make a significant difference in aid eligibility. For anyone in this situation, definitely call your school's aid office first! Mine was able to do a quick calculation to show me how changing household size would affect my aid before I made any corrections. That way you know if it's worth going through the verification process. Hope this helps - sounds like Sophia has gotten some great advice here and I'm rooting for you to get this sorted out!

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