FAFSA for single parent: Do I include ex's info and child support?
Stressing about my daughter's FAFSA application for 2025-2026! I have full legal custody, and her father lives in a different state. He pays $750/month in child support but only sees her maybe 3-4 days a year when he bothers to visit. Do I need to include him as a parent/contributor on the FAFSA? And what about the child support payments - are those considered part of my income for the SAI calculation? This is my first time with college applications and I don't want to mess up her financial aid chances. Any advice from parents who've been through this is appreciated!
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Zainab Ismail
You DO NOT need to include the non-custodial parent on the FAFSA if you have full legal custody. Only the custodial parent (you) and their current spouse, if remarried, need to provide information. However, you DO need to report child support received as untaxed income. It will factor into your SAI calculation, but this is completely normal and expected. Make sure you have documentation of your custody arrangement in case of verification. Some private colleges might require the CSS Profile in addition to FAFSA, and that might ask for the non-custodial parent's information separately.
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Miguel Silva
•Thank you so much! That's a relief about not including him. I was worried because he claimed her as a dependent on his taxes one year (which he shouldn't have done), and I thought that might complicate things. For the child support, do I report the annual amount? It's about $9,000 per year.
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Connor O'Neill
my situation is almost EXACTLY the same except my ex is completely absent. you definitely dont need his info for fafsa!!! just report the child support as income when it asks. its actually pretty easy when ur the only parent involved. good luck!!
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Miguel Silva
•Thanks for sharing your experience! Did you have any issues with verification? I'm worried they'll ask for proof of the custody arrangement.
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QuantumQuester
Just to clarify what others have said - on the 2025-2026 FAFSA, you'll be filling out the information as the custodial parent. Child support received is reported in the "Untaxed Income" section. You'll need to report the total received for the 2023 tax year (which is the base year for the 2025-2026 FAFSA). Make sure you're keeping good records of the child support payments, as the financial aid office may request documentation if your application is selected for verification. This is extremely common for households reporting child support income.
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Yara Nassar
•OMG the base year is 2023?? I thought it was 2024 tax info for the 2025 FAFSA. No wonder my daughter's application got flagged for verification 🤦♀️
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Keisha Williams
I had to deal with this exact situation last year. The FAFSA is actually pretty straightforward about it - you're the custodial parent, so only your info goes on the form. But I got selected for verification and had to provide my divorce decree and custody papers to prove I had full custody. It was a huge headache because I had to order certified copies from the court. If your child support is through the state system, you can usually get an official payment record that shows all payments received. I'd recommend getting that documentation ready now in case they ask for it.
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Paolo Ricci
•This verification process is such a nightmare. I went through the same thing and nearly missed my daughter's college deadline because I couldn't get the court records fast enough. The whole system is rigged against single parents who are already struggling.
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Amina Toure
Just make sure ur ex isnt claiming ur kid on taxes!!! My ex did that without telling me and it created a HUGE mess with FAFSA because the IRS info didn't match what I reported. took months to fix and my son almost lost his financial aid package
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Miguel Silva
•That's exactly what I'm worried about! He did claim her once before, even though the divorce agreement says I get to claim her every year. How did you resolve it when that happened?
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Amina Toure
had to file an amended tax return and then call the financial aid office at the school to explain. took FOREVER. i spent like 3 weeks calling the student aid hotline trying to get someone to help me fix it in the system
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Oliver Zimmermann
•If you need to get through to FSA quickly, try using Claimyr (claimyr.com). I was in a similar situation with verification issues and spent days trying to reach someone. Claimyr got me connected to an agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ. Saved me so much frustration during the whole verification nightmare.
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QuantumQuester
One more important note: While FAFSA only requires the custodial parent's information, if you're applying to private colleges that use the CSS Profile for institutional aid, many of them DO require non-custodial parent information. Each school has different policies, so check with each financial aid office. Some schools offer non-custodial parent waivers if there's minimal contact, but you'll need documentation proving the absence of relationship or inability to contact.
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Miguel Silva
•I hadn't even thought about the CSS Profile! She's looking at two private schools along with the state university. I'll check with the private schools about their requirements. Honestly, I doubt her father would even complete any paperwork if asked - he barely responds to texts about visitation.
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Paolo Ricci
The child support question trips up SO MANY people! Remember it asks for what you RECEIVED in the tax year, not what you were SUPPOSED to receive. If he's inconsistent with payments, only report what actually came in. Also, are there multiple children? If so, only include the portion for the student applying for aid if you can determine that amount.
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Miguel Silva
•Yes, I have two daughters - one's 17 (the one applying for college) and one's 14. The child support order doesn't specify how much is for each child, it's just a total amount. Should I split it 50/50 for reporting purposes?
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Zainab Ismail
For child support that covers multiple children but isn't itemized per child, the standard practice is to divide it equally among all children. So yes, you would report 50% of the total child support received as being for your college-bound daughter. Make sure to keep documentation of your calculations in case of verification. The financial aid office may ask you to explain how you determined the amount.
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Miguel Silva
•Perfect, that makes sense. I'll calculate it that way and keep notes on how I determined the amount. Thank you all so much for the helpful information! This process is so much more complicated than I expected.
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Luca Marino
Don't stress too much - you've got this! As a newcomer who just went through this process with my son, I can tell you that single parent FAFSA applications are actually more straightforward than joint custody situations. Since you have full legal custody, you only report YOUR information and income. The $9,000 annual child support goes in the untaxed income section, and yes, it will affect the SAI calculation but that's totally normal. My biggest advice: start gathering your documents now (tax returns, bank statements, custody papers) because if you get selected for verification, having everything ready will save you weeks of stress. Also, don't let the process intimidate you - the financial aid offices are usually very helpful if you need to call with questions!
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Marilyn Dixon
•Thank you for the encouragement! As someone just starting this process, it's really reassuring to hear from someone who recently went through it successfully. I'm definitely going to start gathering all those documents now - I can already see how verification could become a nightmare if I'm not prepared. Did you have any issues with the child support reporting specifically? I'm still a bit nervous about getting that part wrong since it seems like such a common source of problems.
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Chloe Davis
As someone who just navigated this exact situation last year, I want to echo what others have said - you're doing great by asking these questions early! The key things to remember: 1) You only report YOUR information since you have full legal custody, 2) Report the child support as untaxed income (sounds like $4,500 for your college-bound daughter if splitting between two kids), and 3) Keep excellent records of everything. I'd also suggest creating a simple spreadsheet tracking all child support payments received in 2023 (the base year for 2025-2026 FAFSA) - this saved me during verification. One tip nobody mentioned: if your ex is inconsistent with payments, only report what you actually received, not what the court order says you should receive. The FAFSA cares about actual income, not theoretical income. You've got this!
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Laila Prince
•This is such helpful advice! I'm also going through this for the first time and feeling overwhelmed by all the documentation requirements. The spreadsheet idea is brilliant - I wish I had thought of that earlier. Quick question for you: when you went through verification, did they ask for specific proof of the child support amounts, or was your spreadsheet enough? I'm trying to figure out if I need to request official payment records from the state system or if my own tracking will suffice.
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