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FAFSA confusion - who counts as parent when I claim boyfriend's daughter on taxes?

I need some urgent FAFSA advice! My boyfriend's daughter (who I've helped raise for years) is graduating high school this spring and planning to attend community college in the fall. I'm confused about how to handle the parent section on her FAFSA application. Her biological father (my boyfriend) is a stay-at-home dad with zero income, and I've been claiming her as a dependent on my taxes. The birth mother is completely out of the picture - we literally have no idea where she is. When my daughter fills out her FAFSA application, should she list me as her parent since I provide financial support and claim her as a dependent? Or does she need to list her biological father despite him having no income to report? We're trying to maximize her aid eligibility but don't want to make a mistake that could delay her application or cause verification issues. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

For FAFSA purposes, only legal parents count, so your boyfriend (her biological father) should be listed. The fact that you claim her on taxes doesn't matter for FAFSA. They look at legal parent relationships only. Since the mom isn't in the picture and dad has no income, this might actually help her get more aid!

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Thank you! That makes sense. So even though I've been supporting her financially and claim her on taxes, that doesn't make me count as a parent for FAFSA purposes? I just want to make sure we get this right the first time.

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i went through something similar with my step kid. fafsa only cares about biological or adoptive parents, not who claims the kid on taxes. sounds like your boyfriend should be the only parent listed since bio mom is gone. but make sure he has an FSA ID setup before you start the application even tho he has no income

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That's really helpful - we definitely wouldn't have thought about setting up an FSA ID for him ahead of time. Does he need to create one even with zero income to report?

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Let me clarify something important here: FAFSA only recognizes legal parents - biological or adoptive. Since you're the boyfriend, not a legal parent (even if you financially support her), you are NOT included on the FAFSA. The student will only list her biological father. Since the mother is absent, there's no second parent to list. The father's zero income will actually qualify her for significant aid, likely maximum Pell Grant eligibility. This unusual situation might trigger verification, so keep documentation ready showing the father's legal status and household situation. Your tax information is completely irrelevant for her FAFSA - even though you claim her as a dependent on your taxes.

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Thank you for the detailed explanation! This is super helpful. It sounds like her having only one legal parent with zero income might actually be beneficial for her aid eligibility, which is a relief. What kind of documentation should we prepare in case of verification?

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WRONG ADVICE ABOVE!!! If they live together as a household and she provides more than 50% support, she IS considered a parent for FAFSA!!! I know this because my cousin went through this exact situation!!

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That's actually incorrect. The FAFSA specifically defines a parent as a biological or adoptive parent, or a person determined by the state to be a legal parent. A boyfriend/girlfriend who provides support does not meet the FAFSA definition of a parent, regardless of tax filing status. Your cousin's situation must have had other factors involved.

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Just went through this process with my daughter. FAFSA only wants legal parents on the application. In your case, that means only your boyfriend (the biological father) should be listed, and since he has no income, your daughter will likely qualify for a lot of aid. However, be prepared for verification - the financial aid office might require proof of the household situation. Also, make sure your boyfriend creates his FSA ID well before starting the application - this can take time to process! And don't worry about the biological mother - if she's not in the picture, she's not included.

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Thanks for sharing your experience! We'll definitely get his FSA ID set up early. Can I ask what verification documents they required in your case?

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In our case, they asked for a letter explaining the family situation, plus documentation that the remaining parent had legal custody. If your boyfriend has any legal paperwork showing he has custody (even if it's from years ago), keep that handy. They may also ask for proof that the mother is not involved - a statement from your boyfriend might be sufficient for that.

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this happened to my nephew too and they made him jump through so many hoops for verificaiotn. took like 2 months for his fafsa to process!! make sure u start early!!

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Just to add to what others have said - the FAFSA specifically defines a parent as biological or legally adoptive parents. The fact that you claim her on your taxes doesn't make you her parent for FAFSA purposes. Since her father has zero income, she'll likely qualify for a significant amount of need-based aid, including potentially a full Pell Grant. This is actually advantageous! However, because it's an unusual situation (single parent with zero income), it may trigger verification. Keep documentation ready showing the father's legal custody status and your household arrangement. And make sure he creates his FSA ID well in advance - this is required for him to sign the FAFSA electronically.

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Thank you for confirming all this! It sounds like her situation might actually work out favorably for aid purposes. We'll definitely start gathering documentation now just in case.

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Oh wow, I hadn't heard of that service. I'll definitely keep that in mind if we run into trouble. The FAFSA process seems so complicated, especially with our non-traditional family structure.

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btw forgot to mention make sure the father fills out the fafsa not you, since ur not the legal parent. also if the father has been claiming any government benefits like disability or unemployment those need to be reported even tho they aren't taxable income

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That's a good point - he does receive some disability benefits, so we'll make sure to include that. I'm guessing we should gather documentation of that as well?

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Yes, document any non-taxable income like disability benefits. For FAFSA purposes, this still counts as income even though it's not taxed. However, the good news is that with only disability income, your student will likely still qualify for significant need-based aid. When completing the FAFSA, the application will ask if the parent receives certain federal benefits like SNAP, Medicaid, or SSI - answering yes to any of these can qualify the student for an automatic zero EFC (now called 0 SAI - Student Aid Index), which maximizes their aid eligibility.

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This is extremely helpful! He does receive SSDI and Medicaid, so it sounds like that might actually help her qualify for more aid. I'm feeling much more confident about navigating this now.

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As someone who's helped multiple students through unusual FAFSA situations, I want to emphasize a few key points: 1) You're absolutely right that only the biological father should be listed as the parent, regardless of who claims her on taxes. 2) His SSDI income actually needs to be reported on the FAFSA, but since he likely qualifies for means-tested benefits, she should get automatic maximum aid eligibility. 3) Start the application early because verification is almost guaranteed with a single-parent household with only disability income. 4) Have documentation ready: custody papers, proof of benefits, and a signed statement explaining the mother's absence. The silver lining is that her aid package will likely be very generous! Make sure the father completes and signs the FAFSA himself using his own FSA ID.

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This is incredibly thorough and reassuring - thank you so much! I really appreciate you breaking it down into those key points. It's actually a relief to know that the verification process is expected in our situation, so we won't be caught off guard. We'll definitely get all that documentation together ahead of time. One quick follow-up: when you mention having a "signed statement explaining the mother's absence," does that need to be notarized or just a written statement from my boyfriend?

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