Washington ESD unemployment claim after federal job termination - family celebrating my firing
Just filed my Washington ESD unemployment claim after getting terminated from my federal position last week. The worst part isn't even losing my job - it's that half my family is actually celebrating that I got fired because they disagree with federal government work. I'm dealing with the stress of figuring out Washington ESD requirements and my own relatives are making jokes about it. Has anyone else dealt with family drama while trying to navigate the unemployment system? I'm already overwhelmed trying to understand the weekly claim requirements and job search log, and now I have to deal with this too. Just need to know I'm not alone in this situation.
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Felicity Bud
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Family should be supportive during tough times, not making it worse. Focus on getting your Washington ESD claim processed properly - that's what matters right now for your financial stability.
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Felix Grigori
•Thank you, I really needed to hear that. It's been such a confusing week trying to figure out all the Washington ESD requirements.
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Max Reyes
•Agreed, family drama during unemployment is the last thing anyone needs. Keep your focus on the practical stuff first.
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Mikayla Davison
Been there with unsupportive family during my unemployment. What specific Washington ESD requirements are you struggling with? The weekly claims process can be confusing at first but it gets easier once you understand the routine.
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Felix Grigori
•Mainly confused about the job search requirements and how detailed the work search log needs to be. Also not sure about the timeline for when benefits actually start.
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Mikayla Davison
•You need to document at least 3 job search activities per week once your waiting week is over. Keep detailed records - employer name, position, date, method of contact.
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Adrian Connor
•The waiting week is usually your first week after filing. Benefits typically start the second week if everything processes smoothly.
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Adrian Connor
Federal employees often have some advantages with Washington ESD claims since federal wages are well-documented. Your biggest challenge might be reaching someone at Washington ESD if you have questions - their phone lines are constantly busy.
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Felix Grigori
•Yeah I've tried calling twice already and can't get through. Is there any better way to reach them?
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Adrian Connor
•I actually discovered this service called Claimyr recently that helps people get through to Washington ESD agents. They have some kind of system that handles the calling for you. Check out claimyr.com - there's even a demo video at https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ that shows how it works.
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Felix Grigori
•That sounds almost too good to be true, but I'm desperate enough to try anything at this point.
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Aisha Jackson
Your family sounds toxic honestly. I went through something similar when I lost my state job and my brother kept making comments about government workers being lazy. Some people just don't understand that we're regular people trying to make a living.
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Felix Grigori
•Exactly! It's not like I chose to get terminated. I'm just trying to figure out how to pay my bills while I look for new work.
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Ryder Everingham
•People who've never been unemployed don't understand how stressful the whole process is, especially dealing with government bureaucracy.
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Max Reyes
Federal terminations can sometimes trigger Washington ESD adjudication if there are any questions about the circumstances. Did they give you a specific reason for the termination? That could affect your claim approval timeline.
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Felix Grigori
•They said it was due to restructuring and budget cuts, so hopefully that won't cause issues with adjudication.
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Max Reyes
•That should be straightforward then. Layoffs and restructuring typically don't cause adjudication delays since it's not misconduct-related.
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Mikayla Davison
•Still, keep all your termination paperwork handy in case Washington ESD needs to verify the circumstances.
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Lilly Curtis
The family celebration thing is really messed up but unfortunately not uncommon. I've seen it happen to other government workers. Try to limit contact with the negative family members while you focus on your job search and getting your benefits sorted out.
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Felix Grigori
•Yeah I'm starting to think I need to just avoid family gatherings for a while. The stress is already overwhelming without their comments.
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Felicity Bud
•Definitely protect your mental health right now. Unemployment is stressful enough without dealing with family drama on top of it.
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Ryder Everingham
man that sucks about your family! at least washington esd benefits are decent compared to some other states. make sure you file your weekly claims on time every week or you'll lose benefits for those weeks
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Felix Grigori
•Good reminder about the weekly claims. What day of the week do they usually process them?
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Ryder Everingham
•you can file anytime after sunday but most people do it sunday or monday. just don't wait until saturday or you might miss the deadline
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Adrian Connor
Since you mentioned trouble reaching Washington ESD, I wanted to follow up on that Claimyr service. I used them last month when I had an adjudication issue and they actually got me connected to an agent within a few hours. Saved me probably 20+ hours of calling and getting busy signals.
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Felix Grigori
•That's exactly what I need. How does their system work exactly?
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Adrian Connor
•You basically give them your callback number and what you need help with, then they handle all the calling and waiting. When they get an agent on the line, they conference you in.
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Leo Simmons
•Sounds expensive though. How much do they charge for something like that?
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Adrian Connor
•I don't remember exact pricing but it was worth it to avoid the phone nightmare. When you're unemployed, your time is better spent job searching than sitting on hold for hours.
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Mikayla Davison
For what it's worth, federal employees usually have pretty clean employment histories which makes Washington ESD processing smoother. Your biggest hurdle will probably just be the initial paperwork and understanding all the requirements.
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Felix Grigori
•That's reassuring. I was worried about complications since it's federal employment.
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Max Reyes
•Federal wages are reported properly so there's rarely issues with wage verification. That's one less thing to worry about.
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Aisha Jackson
I still can't get over your family celebrating. That's just wrong on so many levels. You're dealing with enough stress figuring out the Washington ESD system without that negativity.
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Felix Grigori
•It really is awful timing. I'm already anxious about everything and their comments just make it worse.
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Felicity Bud
•Some people just lack empathy until it happens to them. Focus on the supportive people in your life right now.
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Leo Simmons
Quick question - did you apply for other federal positions before filing for Washington ESD? Sometimes there are internal transfer opportunities that could get you back to work faster than the regular job market.
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Felix Grigori
•I've started looking at USAJobs but the hiring process is so slow. Figure I need the unemployment benefits as backup while I wait.
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Leo Simmons
•Smart approach. Federal hiring can take 6+ months so definitely keep the Washington ESD claim active.
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Max Reyes
•Just make sure you report any federal interviews or job offers to Washington ESD when you file your weekly claims.
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Ryder Everingham
your family sounds like they watch too much news and think all government workers are the problem. ignore them and focus on getting your benefits. the washington esd website has good info about job search requirements
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Felix Grigori
•Yeah I think you're right about the news influence. I'll check out the website for the job search details.
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Mikayla Davison
•The Washington ESD website has improved a lot over the past few years. Most of the info you need is actually there now.
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Lilly Curtis
One practical tip - start documenting your job search activities immediately even if your waiting week hasn't passed yet. Washington ESD can be picky about the details and having good records from day one will help if they ever audit your claim.
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Felix Grigori
•Good advice. Should I include the USAJobs applications I've already submitted?
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Lilly Curtis
•Absolutely. Any legitimate job search activity counts - applications, networking contacts, job fairs, etc.
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Adrian Connor
•Just make sure you can prove the activity if asked. Save confirmation emails, take screenshots of applications, etc.
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Felicity Bud
I hope things get better with your family situation. Sometimes people change their tune when they realize how hard it actually is to navigate unemployment. Stay strong and focus on getting back on your feet.
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Felix Grigori
•Thank you for the encouragement. This thread has actually made me feel a lot less alone in dealing with all this.
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Aisha Jackson
•That's what these forums are for. We've all been through similar struggles in one way or another.
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Max Reyes
Since you mentioned confusion about Washington ESD requirements, here are the key things to remember: file weekly claims every week, document 3 job search activities per week once benefits start, report any income immediately, and keep all your paperwork organized. The system isn't as complicated as it seems once you get into the routine.
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Felix Grigori
•This is exactly the kind of practical summary I needed. Screenshot saved!
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Ryder Everingham
•also don't forget to register with worksource wa if you haven't already. that's a requirement too
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Max Reyes
•Good catch. WorkSource registration is mandatory for most claimants.
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Leo Simmons
I used that Claimyr service someone mentioned earlier when I had issues with my claim being stuck in adjudication. Worked exactly like they said - they called Washington ESD for me and got me connected to an actual person who could help. Definitely recommend it if you're having trouble getting through.
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Felix Grigori
•Two people recommending it now makes me think it's legit. I'll probably try it if I can't get through this week.
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Leo Simmons
•Yeah it's real. Saved me hours of frustration dealing with busy signals and dropped calls.
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Mikayla Davison
Federal employment terminations are usually pretty straightforward for Washington ESD processing. Your main challenge will be adjusting to the job search requirements since federal hiring is so different from private sector. Make sure you're applying to a mix of federal and private positions to meet the search activity requirements.
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Felix Grigori
•That's a good point about mixing federal and private applications. I was mostly focused on USAJobs.
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Lilly Curtis
•Diversifying your search also increases your chances of finding something faster.
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Ryder Everingham
sorry your family is being jerks about this. unemployment is hard enough without people making it worse. at least washington esd benefits can help you get by while you find new work
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Felix Grigori
•Yeah I'm grateful that Washington has decent unemployment benefits compared to what I've heard about other states.
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Felicity Bud
•The benefits here really do help bridge the gap while job searching. Just make sure you understand all the requirements to avoid any issues.
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Adrian Connor
One last thought on the family situation - sometimes it helps to have a prepared response ready for their comments. Something like 'I'm focused on my job search right now' and then change the subject. Don't let them derail your energy when you need it for more important things.
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Felix Grigori
•That's actually really practical advice. I've been getting drawn into arguments when I should just shut it down and move on.
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Aisha Jackson
•Exactly. Don't waste emotional energy on people who aren't being supportive right now.
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Felicity Bud
•You have enough to deal with between Washington ESD requirements and job searching. Family drama is just a distraction from what actually matters.
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Lilly Curtis
Hope everything works out for you with both the family situation and getting your Washington ESD benefits sorted. Keep us updated on how things go with your claim processing.
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Felix Grigori
•Will do. Thanks everyone for all the advice and support. This has been really helpful.
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Mikayla Davison
•Good luck with everything. The Washington ESD system can be frustrating but it works once you understand the process.
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