Will my recent marriage affect my husband's Social Security benefits when he's already collecting?
My husband started collecting his Social Security retirement benefits when he turned 66 (his full retirement age). At that time, he was single. We got married about 8 months ago, and I'm still working full-time (I'm 62 but planning to wait until 67 to claim). Yesterday, his neighbor mentioned something about marriage affecting benefit amounts, and now I'm worried. Does my income or our marriage status change the amount he receives each month? His monthly payment is really important for our household budget, and I'm concerned it might decrease. I've checked the SSA website but got confused by all the spousal benefit information. Has anyone dealt with this situation before?
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Henry Delgado
No need to worry! Your husband's own retirement benefit amount won't change just because you got married. His benefit is based on his own earnings record and that doesn't change with marriage. What your neighbor might have been referring to is that YOU might be eligible for spousal benefits based on his record when you decide to claim (though it sounds like your own benefit might be higher if you're working full-time). But his existing benefit isn't reduced because of your marriage or your income.
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Gianni Serpent
•Oh thank goodness! That's such a relief. So his check stays exactly the same? Even if my income is pretty high right now?
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Olivia Kay
my mom remarried at 70 and it didnt change her benefits at all. totally different situation for widow benefits though, those can be affected by remarriage, so maybe thats what the neighbor was thinking??
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Gianni Serpent
•Thanks for sharing about your mom's situation! That helps me feel better. Neither of us is widowed, so I guess that doesn't apply to us.
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Joshua Hellan
Your husband's retirement benefit is secure and won't change due to your marriage. It's calculated based on his lifetime earnings and, once claimed at his Full Retirement Age (FRA), isn't affected by subsequent marriage. However, there are a few things to be aware of: 1. If you decide to take benefits before your FRA (67), you'd be subject to the earnings test if you're still working, which could reduce your benefit. 2. You might eventually qualify for a spousal benefit (up to 50% of his PIA) if that amount would be higher than your own retirement benefit. 3. For tax purposes, being married might push your combined income into a higher tax bracket, potentially making more of your Social Security benefits taxable. Your marriage doesn't reduce his benefit - it actually creates additional options for your household's overall Social Security strategy.
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Gianni Serpent
•This is incredibly helpful! I hadn't even thought about the tax implications. So it sounds like his monthly deposit stays the same, but we might owe more at tax time? I'm definitely planning to wait until my FRA to avoid the earnings test.
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Jibriel Kohn
WRONG INFO BEING SHARED HERE!!! My uncle lost $200 from his check when he got remarried because his new wife made too much money!!! The SSA DOES take your spouse's income into consideration!!! I've seen it happen!!!
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Joshua Hellan
•That situation sounds like it might have been related to SSI (Supplemental Security Income), not regular Social Security retirement benefits. SSI is needs-based and is affected by household income, while retirement benefits are not reduced due to marriage or a spouse's income. Alternatively, he might have experienced a change in his Medicare premium due to combined income (IRMAA), which could make his net deposit amount lower, but that's not the same as his benefit being reduced.
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Olivia Kay
this happened to my friend too! but turns out it wasnt his SS retirement that changed, it was his medicare premium went up because of combined income. the SS payment was the same but more was taken out for medicare
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Gianni Serpent
•Oh that's interesting! We're both on my work health insurance right now, but I hadn't thought about what happens with Medicare premiums later. Something else to look into!
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Edison Estevez
I spent THREE DAYS trying to get through to Social Security to ask a similar question last month. Kept getting disconnected after waiting for hours! Finally tried this service called Claimyr that got me connected to an agent in less than 10 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The SSA agent confirmed that marriage doesn't affect existing retirement benefits. Your husband's benefit is based on his work record and stays the same. You may be eligible for spousal benefits when you retire, but that's separate and doesn't impact his payment. The agent explained everything really clearly - worth getting confirmation directly from SSA if you're still worried. I was amazed how quickly Claimyr got me through on their website claimyr.com after days of frustration.
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Emily Nguyen-Smith
•does this actually work? every time i try to call ssa i waste my entire morning and then get disconnected right when they finally answer!!
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Henry Delgado
To add to what others have said - the only way your marriage would affect his benefit is if he was receiving some form of means-tested benefit like SSI. Since you specifically mentioned he receives Social Security (not SSI) and he qualified based on age (66), we're talking about retirement insurance benefits, which aren't affected by marriage or spouse's income. What CAN change: 1. Your tax situation (potentially more of his benefits being taxable) 2. His Medicare Part B & D premiums might increase in the future if your combined income is high enough (IRMAA) But his actual benefit amount will remain unchanged.
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Gianni Serpent
•Thank you for clarifying! He's definitely on regular Social Security retirement, not SSI. The Medicare premium increase is something I hadn't considered though. I appreciate everyone's help - this community is amazing!
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James Johnson
I think everyone here is overthinking this. Your husband earned his benefits through years of work. The government can't just take that away because you got married. That's not how the system works. Tell your neighbor to mind their own business lol
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Gianni Serpent
•Haha, you're probably right! His neighbor means well but definitely caused me some unnecessary stress. Thanks for the straightforward perspective!
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Edison Estevez
The most important thing to remember is that retirement benefits and SSI are totally different programs with different rules. Since your husband was 66 (his FRA) when he started collecting, he's definitely on retirement benefits. Those are based solely on his work record and are completely unaffected by marriage or your current income. You might also want to look into filing strategies when you reach retirement age. Depending on your earnings records, it might make sense for you to claim a spousal benefit if it's higher than your own retirement benefit would be. The SSA doesn't always explain all your options, so it's worth researching to maximize your household benefits.
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Gianni Serpent
•Yes, definitely retirement benefits - he worked for over 40 years! I'm starting to research those filing strategies now. Do you know if there's a calculator that can help me figure out whether my own benefit or a spousal benefit would be higher?
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Emily Nguyen-Smith
i had something simlar happn but it was bcause i was on SSI not retirment. SSI is the one that gets reduced when u marry someone with income. reglar social secrity retirement stays the same no matter who u marry or how rich they are. my uncle married a really rich lady and still gets his full SS check every month lol
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