Widow survivor benefits - confused about FRA vs. PIA when ex-spouse claimed SS early
My ex-husband passed away last week (we were married for 17 years, divorced for 22 years now). He started taking his Social Security at 62, and he was 68 when he died. I'm currently 63 and also started my own benefits at 62. I checked with SSA last year about getting any ex-spousal benefits, but my own record was too high for a top-up. Now I'm trying to understand survivor benefits as an ex-spouse, and I'm totally confused about what I would get if I wait until my full retirement age (67). Will my survivor benefit be based on what he was actually receiving at death (the reduced amount because he claimed early)? Or will it be based on his Primary Insurance Amount (PIA)? I've heard conflicting information - some people say it's based on what he was getting, others say it's based on what he would have gotten at his full retirement age. I do know the exact amount he was receiving monthly when he passed. Would waiting until my FRA make a difference? Any help in understanding this would be greatly appreciated.
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Tasia Synder
So sorry for your loss. I don't know the answer, but I had to deal with survivor benefits when my husband died last year and the whole process was SUPER confusing. The SSA people told me different things each time I called. Just be prepared to be patient and maybe keep a notebook of who you talk to.
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Natalia Stone
•Thanks for your condolences. That's exactly what I'm worried about - getting different answers. It's hard enough dealing with grief without having to navigate confusing benefit rules too. Did you find that calling different offices gave you different information?
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Selena Bautista
I can help clarify this. If you wait until your full retirement age (67), you would receive the higher of: 1. The amount your ex-husband was receiving at the time of his death 2. 82.5% of his Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) Since he claimed at 62, his benefit was permanently reduced to approximately 70% of his PIA. Because he was receiving benefits for 6 years and reached 68, there would be no further adjustments to his amount. By waiting until your FRA, you avoid any reduction to your survivor benefit. The fact that he claimed early does impact the amount you can receive, but waiting until your FRA ensures you get the maximum available to you as a surviving divorced spouse.
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Natalia Stone
•Thank you so much for explaining! So if I understand correctly, I should compare those two numbers (what he was actually getting vs. 82.5% of his PIA), and I'd get the higher amount - but only if I wait until my FRA. Do I need to know his exact PIA to figure this out, or will SSA calculate all this for me?
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Mohamed Anderson
My cousin went thru this last yr she said it depends on if hes been getting the SS for more than 3 years or somethng. Dont think your supposed to know what his PIA is tho thats private info.
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Selena Bautista
•There's a common misconception about this. The SSA will calculate the PIA as part of processing a survivor benefit claim - they have access to all the necessary records. The surviving ex-spouse doesn't need to know the exact PIA beforehand, but the SSA will use it in their calculations. And to clarify, there's no 3-year rule for survivor benefits - you might be thinking of the rule that divorced spouses must have been married for at least 10 years to qualify for benefits.
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Ellie Perry
Sorry about your ex. When my husband died I went to the SS office with his death certificate and they just told me what I would get. Didn't have to figure anything out myself thank goodness because I was a mess at the time. They did all the calculations. Just bring your marriage certificate and divorce papers too since you were divorced.
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Landon Morgan
I've been through this exact situation recently, and I can save you a lot of headache. Trying to get through to SSA by phone was absolutely impossible - I kept getting disconnected after waiting for hours. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to a real SSA agent in about 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. The agent explained everything about my survivor benefits and even helped me apply right on the call. For your specific question - the agent told me that since my ex claimed early, my survivor benefit was based on what he was actually receiving (with a small adjustment), not his full PIA. But definitely have SSA confirm your specific situation.
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Natalia Stone
•That's really helpful, thank you! I've been trying to call SSA for days with no luck. I'll check out that service. Did you find the SSA agent was knowledgeable about ex-spouse survivor situations specifically? That's what I'm worried about - getting someone who doesn't understand the nuances.
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Landon Morgan
•Yes, the agent I spoke with handled divorced spouse survivor questions all the time. She was very knowledgeable. Just be sure to mention you were married over 10 years and haven't remarried (assuming that's true). They'll ask for dates of marriage, divorce, and your ex's death, so have those ready.
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Teresa Boyd
had similar situation when my brother died. his wife got more because he claimed benefits early! lot of people don't know this but sometimes the reduction for claiming early doesn't carry over the same way for survivors. depends on your birthdate and his PIA calculations. weird system.
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Lourdes Fox
•This is incorrect and potentially misleading. A surviving spouse (or ex-spouse) never receives MORE because the deceased claimed early. Early claiming always results in either the same or lower survivor benefits compared to if the deceased had waited until FRA or later. The maximum a survivor can receive is what the deceased would have received if they had lived, including any delayed retirement credits up to age 70.
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Lourdes Fox
Let me clarify a few technical points about survivor benefits for ex-spouses, since there's some confusion in the responses: 1. The limit on survivor benefits is the higher of: what the deceased was receiving OR 82.5% of the deceased's PIA if they died before their FRA. Since your ex was past his FRA (66 for his age cohort), this special provision likely doesn't apply. 2. When you claim survivor benefits affects YOUR reduction amount. At your FRA (67), you get 100% of the survivor benefit you're entitled to. If you claim before your FRA, your survivor benefit is reduced. 3. For divorced spouse survivors, you must have been married at least 10 years, and if you've remarried, that marriage must have occurred after age 60 to be eligible. 4. The fact that you already claimed your own retirement benefit doesn't prevent you from getting the excess survivor benefit if the survivor amount is higher. 5. Your survivor benefit amount would be the difference between your current benefit and the higher survivor benefit amount you're entitled to. I recommend scheduling an appointment with SSA to get the exact calculations for your specific situation.
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Natalia Stone
•Thank you for such a detailed explanation! Based on what you're saying, it seems like waiting until my FRA would give me the maximum possible survivor benefit. Am I understanding that correctly? And yes, I was married to him for 17 years and haven't remarried.
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Bruno Simmons
Just wanted to add that if your own benefit is higher than the survivor benefit you'd get from your ex-husband's record, you wouldn't receive any survivor benefits. SSA gives you the higher of the two, not both combined. Worth checking both scenarios.
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Natalia Stone
•That's a good point. My own benefit is pretty low because I had some years out of the workforce, so I'm pretty sure his would be higher. But I'll definitely confirm that when I talk to SSA.
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Tasia Synder
WAIT!! There's something nobody mentioned - I think there's a LUMP SUM DEATH PAYMENT of $255 you should get regardless of the monthly benefit stuff. Don't forget to ask about that!!!
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Lourdes Fox
•The $255 lump sum death payment is typically only payable to a surviving spouse who was living with the deceased at the time of death, or to eligible children. As a divorced ex-spouse who wasn't living with the deceased, the original poster would not be eligible for this payment. But it's always good to confirm with SSA about your specific eligibility for any benefits.
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