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Social Security timing strategy with 9-year age gap - travel vs. maximizing benefits?

I'm really struggling with when to start claiming Social Security with our unusual age difference. My husband (the higher earner) is 9 years younger than me. I'm 62 now and in good health, but we're both passionate about traveling while we still can. If I wait until he reaches 62, I'll be 71 - which feels like we might miss our window for active travel. I've crunched some numbers and half of his benefit at 62 would be roughly equal to my full benefit at my FRA (67). I'm concerned about the tradeoff between maximizing benefits and actually enjoying our retirement years together. Does it make sense for me to claim at my FRA, or should I wait even longer? I've read about spousal benefits but the age gap makes the standard advice confusing. Would love some guidance from anyone who's navigated a similar situation!

Lim Wong

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This is a great question and highlights the challenge of balancing maximum benefits with quality of life. At FRA, you'd get 100% of your benefit instead of the reduced amount at 62 (which would be about 70%). Since your husband is significantly younger, when he files at 62, you could switch to a spousal benefit if it's higher than your own - but only if you've already filed for your own benefits. Remember that spousal benefits max out at 50% of his PIA (primary insurance amount) if you claim at your FRA, but are reduced if you claim earlier. Given your desire to travel, claiming at your FRA might be a reasonable compromise. You'll get more than claiming early, but still have time to enjoy travel while you're both able. The key question: can your current savings support your travel goals for the next few years without relying on maximum SS benefits?

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Kai Santiago

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Thank you for this thoughtful response! We do have some savings set aside for travel, but not enough for everything we want to do. I'm still confused about one thing - if I claim at my FRA and then later switch to spousal when he files at 62, will my benefit amount change? Or am I stuck with whatever I initially chose? I've heard conflicting things about this.

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Dananyl Lear

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I waited till 70 to claim and now I REGRET IT!!! My husband and I had all these travel plans but guess what? He developed arthritis at 68 and now can barely walk a mile. All that extra money from delaying doesn't mean ANYTHING when you can't enjoy it! The SSA doesn't tell you that part when they push everyone to wait wait wait. If your health is good NOW, I say take the money and enjoy your life together. Tomorrow isn't promised to anyone.

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Noah huntAce420

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Sorry to hear about your husband's health issues. This is definitely something to consider - my parents were in the same boat, waited to claim and then my dad got sick and they never took that dream trip to Alaska they always talked about.

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Ana Rusula

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Here's what you need to understand about your situation from a technical perspective: 1. If you claim at your FRA (67), you get 100% of your PIA 2. If you wait until 70, you get 124% of your PIA (8% per year after FRA) 3. When your husband turns 62, you can only get spousal benefits if you've ALREADY filed for your own benefits 4. Spousal benefit maxes out at 50% of his PIA when you reach your FRA With your 9-year age gap, the optimal strategy might be to claim your own benefit at 67, enjoy some travel, then when your husband claims at 62 (when you're 71), you could switch to spousal if it's higher. Remember though, his benefit at 62 will be reduced by about 30% from his PIA, so half of his reduced benefit might not be higher than your own. One alternative: claim your benefit at 67, let your husband wait until at least his FRA to maximize his benefit (which also maximizes survivor benefits for you if he passes away first).

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Kai Santiago

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This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I didn't realize my husband's early filing would reduce the spousal benefit I could receive. Given our age difference, I'm also concerned about survivor benefits down the road. If I take mine at 67 and he waits until his FRA to maximize his, that actually sounds like a good compromise.

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Fidel Carson

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my wife and i had a 7 yr difference (im younger) and we struggled with this too!!! we ended up having her claim at 65, not quite FRA but close. gave us a few years of travel before i even retired. turned out to be the right choice because her health took a turn at 72. if i were you id split the difference - maybe claim at 65 instead of 62 or 67? gives you some more money but still time to enjoy

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Isaiah Sanders

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This is actually pretty smart advice. Going for 65 instead of full retirement age could be a good middle ground. Not the absolute maximum benefit but still better than claiming early at 62.

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Xan Dae

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have you calculated how much ACTUAL money youre talking about? like real dollars difference between claiming at different ages? that really helped us decide

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Kai Santiago

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That's a good point. Looking at my statement, the difference between age 67 and 70 is about $680 monthly for me. Over 3 years that's almost $25,000 I'd miss out on by waiting, not counting what we could do with that money for travel. When you put it in real dollars like that, it does help with perspective!

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Ana Rusula

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Another consideration with your age gap: If your husband is 9 years younger, you need to factor in survivor benefits. If you pass away first, he could receive your benefit amount as a survivor benefit if it's higher than his own. This means maximizing your benefit could provide him greater financial security later. However, if he passes away first, you would receive his benefit amount as a survivor benefit. Since he's the higher earner, if he claims early at 62, that permanently reduces not just his benefit but also your potential survivor benefit. This is why some financial advisors recommend the higher earner delay as long as possible, even if the lower earner claims earlier. It's insurance for the surviving spouse.

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Dananyl Lear

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But this assumes one of them dies soon! What if they both live to 95? Then they missed out on YEARS of benefits and enjoyment for no reason. The SSA loves this fear-based planning because it saves them money when people delay claiming!

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Ana Rusula

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It's not fear-based planning, it's longevity insurance. Statistics show women typically outlive men by 5-7 years on average. Add that to the existing 9-year age difference, and there's a high probability the wife could spend many years as a widow. Maximizing survivor benefits provides financial security during that period. But you're right that there's no perfect strategy - it's about balancing immediate desires (travel now) with long-term security. Each family needs to make the choice that fits their personal situation and values.

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Lim Wong

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Have you considered a hybrid approach? You could claim at your FRA (67), which gives you a decent benefit while you're still young enough to travel. Meanwhile, your husband could plan to delay his claim past 62 - maybe to his FRA or even 70 if possible. This accomplishes two things: 1) gives you income now for travel while you're in good health, and 2) maximizes the higher earner's benefit, which becomes important for survivor benefits later. This strategy often works well for couples with significant age differences. You get to enjoy retirement together without sacrificing long-term security.

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Kai Santiago

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That hybrid approach sounds promising! I think I'm leaning toward claiming at my FRA and encouraging him to wait longer. That way we get some income for travel while I'm in my late 60s/early 70s, but also protect our long-term situation. Thanks for helping me think through this!

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Fidel Carson

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Kai Santiago

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Oh that's really helpful! I've been avoiding calling because everyone tells me the wait times are terrible. I definitely have questions that would be better answered by an actual agent, especially about how the spousal benefits would work with our age gap. I'll check out that video, thanks!

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Noah huntAce420

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Does that actually work? I've been trying to get through to someone at SSA for weeks about my application status but keep getting disconnected.

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Fidel Carson

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Xan Dae

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Don't forget about taxes!!! If you both have other income or retirement account withdrawals, getting SS early might push you into higher tax brackets. Up to 85% of SS can be taxable depending on your combined income. Something else to consider...

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Kai Santiago

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That's a really good point I hadn't considered. We do have traditional IRAs we'll be drawing from. I should probably talk to our tax person about how the timing of SS would affect our overall tax situation. Thanks for bringing this up!

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Isaiah Sanders

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I think everyone's overthinking this. You said half his benefit at 62 equals your full benefit at 67, right? So just take yours at 67, enjoy some travel, and when he hits 62 he can decide whether to claim or wait based on your situation then. You don't have to figure out everything now. Life changes, health changes, financial needs change. Just take it one step at a time.

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Lim Wong

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While flexibility is important, Social Security claiming decisions are permanent (outside the 12-month withdrawal period). These choices affect lifetime income by potentially tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars. It's worth creating a strategy, even if that strategy gets adjusted as circumstances change.

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