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Social Security survivor benefits still pending after submitting marriage certificate - FRA reached but no decision

Feeling pretty anxious about my survivor benefits application. I submitted everything on February 25th, 2025 but then they said they needed my marriage certificate. I sent it over on March 10th and even called to confirm they received it on March 15th (which they did). It's now been over three weeks since they confirmed receipt, and there's still no decision showing in my account. I'm already at my Full Retirement Age and was counting on these payments starting soon. The rent isn't going to pay itself! Is this normal processing time for survivor benefits? My neighbor said hers was approved in just two weeks. Should I be worried something's wrong with my application?

Amara Oluwaseyi

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Unfortunately, survivor benefit processing times can vary quite a bit. While some applications are processed quickly (like your neighbor's), others can take 4-6 weeks or even longer, especially if they needed additional documentation like your marriage certificate. The fact that you're at FRA is good though - once approved, you should receive the maximum survivor benefit you're entitled to. I'd recommend waiting until it's been at least 30 days since they confirmed receipt of your marriage certificate before getting too concerned. The SSA is dealing with significant backlogs right now.

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Liam McConnell

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Thank you for the reassurance. It's just so stressful waiting without any updates or timeline. Do you think I should call them again to check on the status or just continue to wait?

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CosmicCaptain

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my husband passed 2 years ago and mine took almost 2 months to process!! and i had EVERYTHING they asked for right away. its just how they work sometimes. hang in there

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Liam McConnell

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Oh wow, 2 months! That's a long time to wait. Thanks for sharing your experience - helps me feel a little less alone in this frustrating process.

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Giovanni Rossi

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Have you tried checking the status online through your my Social Security account? Sometimes it updates there before anyone calls you.

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Liam McConnell

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Yes, I check it multiple times a day! It still just says "processing" with no other details. That's part of what makes this so nerve-wracking.

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Sofia Gutierrez

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THEY ARE ALWAYS MAKING US WAIT!!!! I had to wait 9 WEEKS for my survivors benefits and they didn't backpay me correctly. Then spent ANOTHER 2 weeks fixing that mistake. The system is broke on purpose if you ask me.

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Dmitry Petrov

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While the wait times can certainly be frustrating, the SSA is processing millions of claims with limited staff. They do generally provide backpay from the application date once approved. If your backpay was calculated incorrectly, that's a separate issue that should be addressed - but delays aren't usually intentional.

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Sofia Gutierrez

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Maybe not INTENTIONAL but they sure don't care about fixing it!!! When people are waiting for money to SURVIVE they should move faster!!!

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Dmitry Petrov

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Since you've already confirmed they received your marriage certificate, here's what might be happening: 1. They're verifying your deceased spouse's earnings record to calculate your benefit amount 2. They're checking if you're eligible for a higher benefit on your own record 3. They're reviewing if any other benefits might affect your survivor benefit amount At FRA, you're entitled to 100% of your deceased spouse's benefit amount. Processing usually takes 3-4 weeks after they have all documentation, but can take longer during busy periods. If it's been more than 30 days since they confirmed receipt of all documents, call the SSA at 1-800-772-1213 and request a status update. Ask specifically if they need any additional information from you.

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Liam McConnell

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Thank you for breaking it down like this. That makes sense that they'd need to verify all those details. I'll give it until next week before calling again. I just hope there's no issue with determining my late husband's earnings record - he was self-employed for the last few years before he passed.

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Dylan Mitchell

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Did u apply online or in person? I heard in person is faster

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Liam McConnell

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I applied online because the nearest office is about 45 miles away and I don't drive much anymore. Maybe that was my mistake?

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CosmicCaptain

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does anyone know if they backpay from when you apply or from when your spouse passed?

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Amara Oluwaseyi

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Generally, survivor benefits are paid from the date you applied, not from when your spouse passed away. That's why it's important to apply as soon as possible. There are limited exceptions where you might get up to 6 months of retroactive benefits if you apply after your FRA, but not back to the date of death if that was earlier.

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CosmicCaptain

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oh wish i had known that sooner... waited 3 months after he passed to apply

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Giovanni Rossi

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They'll backdate your payments to when you applied in February once they approve it, so at least you won't lose any money from the waiting period. Hang in there!

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Liam McConnell

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That's a relief! I was worried I might lose benefits for these weeks while waiting for their decision.

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