Social Security spousal benefits with WEP/GPO repeal - can ex-husband draw early on my SSDI?
My situation is complicated and I'm hoping someone can clarify. I'm receiving SSDI since 2019 (started when I was 55). My ex-husband is now 64 (I'm 60) and we were married for over 30 years, divorced for 5 years now. Our FRA is 67. He worked for a city government that didn't pay into Social Security, BUT he also served 29 years in the military reserves where he did pay into SS. He has a city pension which would have made him subject to WEP/GPO, but those were just repealed. He hasn't started drawing any benefits yet. My questions: 1. Can my ex-husband claim ex-spousal benefits on my SSDI record now, even though he's under FRA? 2. Would he face early retirement penalties if he claims at 64? 3. Should he just wait until his FRA at 67 to avoid penalties? 4. His own SS benefit at FRA will likely be much lower than mine due to limited payments into the system. 5. I believe he can get up to 50% of my monthly SSDI amount - is that correct? Thank you for any guidance on this confusing situation!
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Giovanni Marino
Yes, your ex-husband can potentially claim divorced spousal benefits on your record if he meets certain requirements. Since you were married more than 10 years and have been divorced for at least 2 years, he qualifies for divorced spouse benefits. However, there are some important things to understand: 1. He CAN claim early (before his FRA), but his benefit will be permanently reduced - about 30% less at age 64 compared to waiting until 67. 2. The 50% spousal benefit is only if he claims at his FRA. Since he's 64, it would be reduced to around 35-37% of your amount. 3. The WEP/GPO repeal helps, but his own SS benefit calculation will still be affected by his limited SS contributions during his city job. 4. If he has his own Social Security benefit from his reserve duty, he'll receive either his own benefit or the spousal benefit, whichever is higher (not both). The Social Security office should be able to provide estimates for both scenarios - claiming now with the reduction vs. waiting until FRA.
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Amara Okonkwo
•Thank you for the detailed explanation! It's clearer now that he'd face a permanent reduction by claiming early. Do you know if there's any way for him to see exactly what his benefit would be at 64 versus 67? I've heard the SSA calculators aren't always accurate for complicated cases like this.
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Fatima Al-Sayed
my husband was in almost EXACT same situation!!! city worker + military reserves. he called SS and they told him so many different things each time he called. total mess!! took almost 5 months to figure it out because nobody knew how to calculate with the military time. the last agent told him the military quarters weren't enough for his own benefit so he HAD to take spousal off me (i'm on disability too), but then the next agent said opposite thing!!! UGGGGH
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Amara Okonkwo
•That sounds incredibly frustrating! Did your husband ever get it sorted out? I'm worried my ex will run into the same issues with conflicting information.
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Fatima Al-Sayed
•yes but it took FOREVER! he had to go in person with all his military records. bring EVERYTHING is my advice. they kept saying they didn't have records of some of his service years
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Dylan Hughes
The previous response is mostly correct, but there's an important detail missing that applies specifically to your situation. Since your ex-husband had significant military reserve service (29 years), he needs to carefully evaluate how those points/quarters factor into his own benefit calculation now that WEP/GPO are repealed. Here's what he should do: 1. Contact Social Security and request a detailed benefit calculation that includes his military service credits 2. Ask specifically about how the WEP/GPO repeal affects his situation 3. Get a comparison of his own benefit vs. spousal benefit at different ages (64, FRA, 70) 4. Understand that the higher-earning spouse's benefit (likely yours) becomes even more valuable for lifetime planning One strategy worth exploring: if his own benefit at 70 would be higher than the spousal benefit, he could take the reduced spousal benefit now and switch to his own benefit at 70 when it maxes out. This is complex but can be optimal in some cases.
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Amara Okonkwo
•This is really helpful - I hadn't considered that he might be able to take spousal now and switch to his own later. I'll definitely suggest he get that detailed calculation with his military service included.
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NightOwl42
I tried calling SS about military credits for my husband last month and they kept putting me on hold forever!!! Hung up on me twice after waiting 3+ hours each time. Horrible service!!!!
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Sofia Rodriguez
•I've been there too, waiting for hours only to get disconnected! I finally tried Claimyr (claimyr.com) and got through to an agent in 15 minutes instead of hours. They have this video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU - it's so much better than the endless waiting. Especially for complicated cases with military service credits, you need to actually speak with someone who knows what they're doing.
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NightOwl42
•omg thank you!! never heard of this but i'm gonna try it
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Dmitry Ivanov
Wait, I'm confused about something in your post. You say WEP/GPO were "just repealed" - but that's not exactly right. The SECURE 2.0 Act modified them slightly, but they weren't fully repealed. There's been talk in Congress about repealing them completely, but as far as I know that hasn't happened yet. Your ex-husband's pension from his city job will still likely affect his Social Security benefits through WEP/GPO unless something very recent has changed that I missed?
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Giovanni Marino
•You're right to clarify this important point. The WEP/GPO provisions have NOT been fully repealed yet. There's the Social Security Fairness Act that proposes full repeal, but it hasn't been passed as of now. The SECURE 2.0 Act made some modifications, but WEP/GPO are still in effect and would impact someone with a non-covered pension like the city job mentioned.
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Amara Okonkwo
•Oh no, I must have misunderstood something I read! Thank you both for the correction. This makes his situation even more complicated then. He definitely needs to speak with SSA directly about how WEP/GPO will affect his benefits.
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Ava Thompson
Don't forget that if ur ex starts claiming on your record, it doesn't affect your benefit amount at all. Lots of people think it reduces their own payment but it doesn't. Just throwing that out there in case you were worried.
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Amara Okonkwo
•Thanks for mentioning that! I actually didn't know if it would affect my payment so that's reassuring.
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Dylan Hughes
Based on all the discussion, here's my recommendation for your ex-husband: 1. He should schedule an appointment with SSA (not just call) to get an accurate calculation of his benefits considering: - His military reserve service - The impact of WEP/GPO on his city pension - Potential divorced spousal benefits on your record - Early claiming reductions at age 64 - FRA benefits at 67 - Delayed retirement credits if he waits until 70 2. The math matters here. If his own benefit would eventually exceed the spousal benefit (especially at age 70), he might want to take the reduced spousal benefit now and switch later. 3. He should bring ALL documentation to this appointment: - Military service records - City pension details - Marriage and divorce certificates - Your Social Security number (he'll need this to check spousal benefits) This isn't a decision to make based on general forum advice alone - the specific numbers for his situation will determine the optimal strategy.
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Amara Okonkwo
•Thank you for this comprehensive plan! I'll share all of this with him. You're right that he needs specific calculations for his unique situation rather than general advice.
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Fatima Al-Sayed
one more thing nobody mentioned - divorced spouse benefits are only available if he isn't remarried!!! if he got remarried after your divorce then completely different rules apply
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Amara Okonkwo
•That's a really good point! He hasn't remarried, so he should still qualify for ex-spouse benefits. Thanks for bringing that up!
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Giovanni Marino
A quick note on benefit amounts: the maximum divorced spousal benefit at FRA is 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), which is what you'd receive at your FRA (not necessarily what you're currently receiving on SSDI). Since your ex would be claiming early at 64, his benefit would be reduced to approximately 35-37% of your PIA. Also, I want to emphasize again that if he has his own Social Security benefit, he'll only receive the higher of either his own benefit or the divorced spousal benefit - not both. This is why getting accurate calculations from SSA is so important before making any decisions.
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Amara Okonkwo
•Thank you for clarifying this. I wasn't sure if the 50% was based on my current SSDI payment or some other calculation. This helps us understand the situation much better!
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