Social Security spousal benefits for non-US citizen spouse - tax withholding and residency requirements confusion
I just got off the phone with an SSA Field Benefits Unit agent about applying for spousal benefits for my wife and I'm completely confused about what they told me. We've been living in Germany for 13 years (me as a US citizen expat, her as a German citizen with no US green card or citizenship). The agent said she qualifies for spousal benefits of about $1875 monthly, but mentioned two things that sound bizarre to me: 1. They would automatically withhold 30% for taxes, even though her monthly payment wouldn't reach the US taxable threshold 2. She would need to physically be in the US for at least 2 months per year (staying a month each visit) I've searched everywhere online and can't find anything about non-US citizen spouses needing to spend time in the US to receive benefits. And why would they withhold taxes if she's below the threshold? I'm wondering if I misunderstood or if the agent was misinformed. Has anyone dealt with international spousal benefits who can share their experience?
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Debra Bai
The agent was partially right but also wrong. For non-US citizens living abroad who receive Social Security benefits, there is typically a 30% tax withholding unless your wife's country of residence (Germany) has a tax treaty with the US - which it does! Under the US-Germany tax treaty, your wife should be exempt from US tax withholding on Social Security benefits. As for the residency requirement - that's completely incorrect. There is NO requirement for your non-citizen spouse to visit the US to receive spousal benefits. Once approved, she'll receive her payments regardless of where she lives. I suggest you call back and speak with a different representative who specializes in international benefits. Ask specifically about the tax treaty provisions for Germany.
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KaiEsmeralda
•Thank you so much! That makes way more sense. Do you know if we need to file any special forms to claim the tax treaty benefits? Or does SSA automatically apply them once they know she's a German resident?
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Gabriel Freeman
my sister is married to a canadian and gets spousal benifits over there. she NEVER has to visit the US for her checks!!! that agent was smoking something lol
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Laura Lopez
•Same with my uncle's Thai wife. Gets SS spousal benefits for 6+ years now and hasn't set foot in America since they moved back to Thailand. Someone gave you bad info for sure.
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Victoria Brown
You're getting incorrect information. I'm a retired SSA claims specialist who handled international cases. Here are the facts: 1. Tax withholding: For nonresident aliens, the default withholding is indeed 30% unless a tax treaty applies. Germany has a tax treaty with the US (as another commenter mentioned). You should submit form W-8BEN to claim treaty benefits. 2. Residency requirements: This is completely false. There is absolutely NO requirement for non-citizen spouses living abroad to spend any time in the US to receive benefits. Once entitled, your wife will receive payments regardless of where she lives. I recommend calling SSA's Office of International Operations directly at +1-410-965-0160. They specialize in these exact situations and can provide accurate information about your wife's benefits.
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KaiEsmeralda
•This is incredibly helpful information! Thank you for clarifying. I'll definitely file the W-8BEN and contact the Office of International Operations. Does my wife need to do anything special during the application process since she's not a US citizen?
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Samuel Robinson
I went through this exact situation with my Japanese wife last year. The regular SSA agents are often clueless about international cases. I wasted weeks trying to get correct information until someone told me about Claimyr (claimyr.com). Their service connected me directly to an SSA agent who specializes in international benefits within 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The specialist confirmed there's NO residency requirement, and they helped us file the right tax forms to reduce withholding based on the US-Japan tax treaty. Saved us a ton of headaches!
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KaiEsmeralda
•Thanks for the tip! I've been on hold for hours trying to reach someone knowledgeable. I'll check out that service because I really need to speak with someone who understands international cases.
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Camila Castillo
Wait I'm confused... so do they withhold tax from ALL SS payments to foreigners?? My husband is from Brazil and we're planning to move there next year. Will they automatically take 30% of his regular retirement benefits too?? This is the first I'm hearing about this!!
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Victoria Brown
•For your husband, the situation is different. As a US citizen, he can receive his own retirement benefits while living abroad with no automatic withholding (though he still needs to file US taxes as all citizens do). The 30% withholding applies to non-US citizens receiving benefits while living outside the US, and even then, tax treaties often reduce or eliminate this withholding.
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Brianna Muhammad
The residency requirement thing is TOTAL NONSENSE! The SSA is so incompetent sometimes it makes me FURIOUS!! I've been dealing with them for my Spanish wife's benefits for 3 years and the amount of misinformation is STAGGERING. We had one agent tell us she needed to come to the US every 6 months (FALSE) and another who insisted she needed a US bank account (ALSO FALSE). DON'T trust whatever random agent you get on the phone. Ask to speak with the Foreign Benefits Unit or Office of International Operations. They're the ONLY ones who actually know what they're talking about with these cases.
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Gabriel Freeman
•this!!! my sister went thru same thing. first agent said she had to have american address (wrong) second one said she could only get checks by mail (also wrong). had to talk to like 5 different people to get the right info
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Laura Lopez
Sorta related but different - my wife is a green card holder and I'm retiring next year. Do I need to do anything special to apply for her spousal benefits or is it the same process as for citizens?
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Debra Bai
•For green card holders living in the US, the application process is essentially the same as for citizens. Your wife will need her green card information, marriage certificate, and possibly birth certificate with translation if it's not in English. The main difference comes into play if you ever decide to live abroad.
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Victoria Brown
To give you some additional information: for your wife to receive spousal benefits as a non-US citizen living abroad, she must meet one of these requirements: 1. Have been married to you for at least 5 years, OR 2. Be entitled to some type of German social security benefit, OR 3. Have lived in the US for at least 5 years during which the marital relationship existed Based on your 13 years overseas, I'm assuming you meet the first condition. When you apply, make sure to have your marriage certificate and her German identification documents ready. The application will need to be processed through the Federal Benefits Unit responsible for Germany, which operates out of the US Consulate in Frankfurt. The tax treaty is handled separately from eligibility, so don't let an uninformed agent confuse these issues.
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KaiEsmeralda
•We've been married for 15 years, so that's good to know we qualify under that first requirement. Do I need to contact the Frankfurt FBU directly or can I continue the application process through the regular SSA channels? This has all been so confusing.
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Amelia Dietrich
This is exactly why I joined this community - dealing with SSA misinformation is so frustrating! I'm in a similar situation with my British spouse and we're considering moving to the UK. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly eye-opening. It's clear that the regular SSA phone agents often don't understand international cases at all. @Victoria Brown - your expertise as a former SSA claims specialist is invaluable here. Thank you for providing such detailed, accurate information. It's shocking how much bad advice gets given out by people who should know better. For anyone else dealing with international spousal benefits, it seems like the key takeaways are: 1. There are NO residency requirements for non-citizen spouses to visit the US 2. Tax treaties can eliminate or reduce the 30% withholding 3. Always ask to speak with the Office of International Operations or Foreign Benefits Unit 4. Don't trust the first agent you speak with if something sounds wrong Has anyone else had success with getting accurate information on their first call, or is it always a battle to reach someone knowledgeable?
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Amara Adebayo
•Welcome to the community! You're absolutely right about the frustration with SSA misinformation on international cases. I'm also new here but dealing with a similar situation for my spouse who's from the Philippines. From what I've learned reading through this thread, it really does seem like you have to be persistent and keep calling until you get someone who actually knows international benefits. The fact that multiple people here got completely wrong information about residency requirements is really concerning - that could cause people to give up on benefits they're entitled to! @Victoria Brown thank you for sharing your expertise! It s'so helpful to have someone with actual SSA experience clarify these complex rules. I m'definitely going to try the Office of International Operations number you provided rather than going through the general line again. It sounds like most people here had to make multiple calls to get accurate information, which is unfortunately typical for complex government benefit cases. But at least now we know what questions to ask and which departments to request!
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Felix Grigori
As someone who just went through this exact process with my Swedish wife last year, I can confirm that the agent you spoke with gave you completely incorrect information on both points! 1. The tax withholding: Yes, there's typically 30% withholding for non-US citizens, BUT Germany has a tax treaty with the US that should eliminate this. You'll need to file Form W-8BEN to claim the treaty benefits. We did this for Sweden and my wife pays no US taxes on her spousal benefits. 2. The residency requirement: This is 100% FALSE. There is absolutely no requirement for your wife to spend any time in the US to receive spousal benefits. We've been living in Stockholm for 8 years and my wife has never had to return to the US for her benefits. I'd strongly recommend calling the Office of International Operations directly rather than the general SSA line. The regular agents often have no clue about international cases, but the international specialists know exactly how these situations work. The misinformation you received is unfortunately very common - we went through three different agents before getting accurate information. Your wife should qualify for spousal benefits without any residency strings attached. Don't let bad information from an uninformed agent discourage you from pursuing what you're entitled to!
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Elijah O'Reilly
•Thanks for sharing your experience with the Swedish case! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who's actually been through this process successfully. The consistency of the misinformation is what's so alarming - multiple people here got told the exact same wrong things about residency requirements. Your point about the W-8BEN form is really helpful. Did you have to file that form annually, or was it a one-time thing? And when you contacted the Office of International Operations, were they able to handle everything over the phone or did you need to submit additional documentation by mail? It sounds like persistence really pays off with these international cases. I'm definitely going to follow your advice and go straight to the international specialists rather than wasting time with agents who clearly don't understand these situations. Thank you for the encouragement!
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Fiona Sand
I'm dealing with a very similar situation for my Canadian spouse and can confirm that the agent gave you completely wrong information! We've been living in Toronto for 7 years and my wife receives her spousal benefits with zero issues and no residency requirements whatsoever. The 30% withholding is standard for non-US citizens, but as others have mentioned, the US-Canada tax treaty eliminates this. We filed the W-8BEN form and now she receives her full benefits without any withholding. The process was straightforward once we got connected with someone who actually understood international cases. That "2 months in the US" requirement is absolute nonsense - I've never heard anything so ridiculous! My wife hasn't been to the US in over 3 years and her payments continue without interruption. It sounds like you got an agent who was either completely new or just making things up. Definitely call the Office of International Operations at the number Victoria provided. They sorted everything out for us in one phone call after we wasted weeks getting conflicting information from regular SSA agents. Don't let this bad experience discourage you - your wife is absolutely entitled to those benefits without jumping through imaginary hoops!
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Giovanni Colombo
•This is so reassuring to hear from someone who's successfully navigating this with Canada! The consistency of the misinformation being given out is really troubling - it seems like multiple people are getting told the exact same false "residency requirement" story. Your experience with the W-8BEN eliminating the withholding is exactly what I needed to hear. Did you have to provide any additional documentation besides the form itself to prove the tax treaty benefits? And how long did it take for the withholding to stop once you submitted it? I'm definitely going to bypass the regular SSA line entirely and go straight to the Office of International Operations. It's clear that the general agents are either poorly trained on international cases or just guessing. Thank you for the encouragement - it's really helpful to know that this process can actually work smoothly once you get to the right people!
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