Can I switch to spousal benefits after husband files for Social Security at 70?
Hi everyone, I need some advice about maximizing our Social Security benefits. I'm filing for my own retirement benefits next month when I turn 70 in March. My estimated benefit will be about $1,845 per month. My husband is the higher earner in our marriage and plans to wait until his 70th birthday in September 2026 to file for his benefits. His projected benefit at 70 is around $4,200. I'm wondering if I'll be eligible to receive additional spousal benefits once he starts collecting? Should I expect an increase to my payment after he files? I've tried calling SSA three times but got disconnected each time after waiting over an hour. Any insights would be greatly appreciated!
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Liam O'Reilly
Yes, you might be eligible for additional spousal benefits, but it depends on the exact difference between your benefit amounts. Since your husband is the higher earner, once he files, you could potentially receive a spousal benefit that would bring your total up to 50% of his Primary Insurance Amount (PIA). The PIA is what he would receive at his Full Retirement Age, not his age-70 amount with delayed retirement credits. However, since you're already collecting your own benefit, you would only receive the difference between your benefit and the spousal amount IF the spousal amount is higher.
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Aria Washington
•Thank you for explaining that! So it's based on his PIA, not his increased amount at 70? That's disappointing. Do you know if I need to file a separate application for the spousal benefit once he starts collecting, or will SSA automatically check and adjust my payment if I qualify?
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Chloe Delgado
my sister went thru this exact thing last yr!! she got her own ss at 68 and then when her husband filed at 70 they only gave her like $230 extra per month. she was soooo mad bc she thought shed get half of his big check but the ssa lady explained it doesnt work that way
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Aria Washington
•Oh, that's not what I was hoping to hear! I was thinking I might get a significant boost. Did your sister have to apply for the spousal benefit or did they just add it automatically?
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Ava Harris
To clarify what others have said, you need to understand the math behind this. If your husband's PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) is $3,000, then the maximum spousal benefit would be $1,500 (50% of his PIA). If your own retirement benefit is $1,845, you won't receive any additional spousal benefits because your own benefit already exceeds the spousal benefit you'd be entitled to. The calculation is: max(your benefit, 50% of spouse's PIA). Since your benefit is likely higher than 50% of his PIA (not his age 70 amount), you probably won't see any increase. You should check your husband's Social Security statement to see his PIA amount to be certain.
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Aria Washington
•I think I understand now. So even though his benefit at 70 will be around $4,200, what matters is what he would get at his full retirement age, which would be less. I'll check his statement to see what his PIA is. Thank you for explaining!
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Jacob Lee
YOU SHOULD ABSOLUTLY FILE FOR SPOUSAL!!! My neighbor tried to tell me it wasn"t worth it but I got an extra $327 a month after my hubby filed!!! The SSA doesn't tell you about all the benefits your entitled too, so YOU have to ask for it!!
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Ava Harris
•This actually depends entirely on the specific benefit amounts. Based on the numbers the original poster shared, it's unlikely she'll receive additional spousal benefits since her own benefit ($1,845) is probably already higher than 50% of her husband's PIA. Every situation is different based on individual earnings histories.
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Emily Thompson
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Aria Washington
•Thank you for the suggestion! I'm getting so frustrated with the endless hold times. I'll check this out since I really need to speak with someone who can look at our specific numbers and give me a definite answer.
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Sophie Hernandez
Just want to point out something nobody mentioned yet - you need to APPLY for the spousal benefit, it's not automatic!! My wife never got back pay because she didn't know she had to apply and just assumed SSA would adjust it when I filed. Make sure you apply right after your husband files.
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Aria Washington
•Oh! That's really important to know. I definitely would have assumed they'd just adjust it automatically. Thank you for the warning!
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Liam O'Reilly
One more thing to consider - if your husband passes away before you, at that point you would be eligible for survivor benefits. As a widow, you could receive up to 100% of what your husband was receiving (including his delayed retirement credits). So while you might not get additional spousal benefits now, his decision to wait until 70 could still benefit you substantially in the future through higher survivor benefits.
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Daniela Rossi
•This is exactly why my financial advisor told me and my wife to have the higher earner delay as long as possible - it's like buying life insurance through Social Security! The survivor benefit calculation is sooo much better than the stupid spousal benefit rules.
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Chloe Delgado
dont forget about taxes!!!! if you get more SS benefits you might have to pay more taxes on them if your over the limit. my brother got a big surprise at tax time last year
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Aria Washington
•That's a good point. We're already paying some tax on our Social Security, but I'll keep that in mind if there is an increase. Thanks!
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